She Should Know You Want the Cheeks...

[AceMan]

It's almost 2026. Are we still not telling each other we want to have sex and leaving it up to a "vibe"?

That's a dangerous game gentlemen. I hope we're having real adult conversations by now.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Salute to the breh for speaking up and locking down his wife. If he didn't she would have put him in the friendzone and just been the trip guy. I tell all the women I deal with that I don't do trips to intimate locations with people I'm not intimate with. Now that doesn't mean just sex but we gotta have a level of comfort and closeness that sex is always there. But these brehs just gotta realize that these chicks are just as horny and wanna get put through the mattress. They mess the game up out here trying to shame women for being the sexual beings that they are

And that sounds like plan English to me. I doesn't have to be gross or crass. It just has to be known.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I'm a grown man. I have never discussed sex with a woman before fukking them and it works every time...

The argument isn't about it "working"

 

[Barlow]

Eh. Sometimes it’s just uncouth. Even if I want sex I’m not gonna set a requirement of it. I might be the one to change my mind myself so there’s no need to make a calendar appointment for it and one of us still end up backing out. It’s going to be the same scenario, probably more resentment.

I think the better mindset is to just not feel entitled to someone’s loins

 

[LuuqMaan]

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Some people can read between the lines some can’t.

Before the sex even happens I’m gon be kissing on you, rubbing ya thighs and ya booty.

So if I say come over to the crib at 4 am in the morning you should know what it is.

But reddit has shown me that a lot of people are a lost cause and if it isn’t right in your face they second guess.

Read a post weeks ago, some guy’s gym crush asked him if he wanted to come over and watch a movie. He was like “I’m not sure if she wanted to watch a movie or get it poppin’!”

Honestly, being that gullible and naive is not good. Children and teens should understand these things to protect themselves. Like an adult being inappropriate and asking you something like if you would like to enter their room or home with just the 2 of you.

People play games. The only way you can avoid them is by not playing games with them.

 

[Jalether]

Are men straight up telling women "let's have sex" "do you wanna have sex" out here like a caveman

If you have been through the talking stage and been on a few dates and you are alone in private, it's common sense that one or both of the individuals in that
situation want sex. And nowadays if she's feeling you , the man doesn't even need to make the first move/initiate the foreplay.

 

[Unbothered]

This reminds me of a question my friend asked on Facebook. She asked how one lets their partner know when they want to have sex. Y'know, do they just say “hey let's have sex”, speak in code, drop subtle hints, etc.

Speaking for myself, I prefer dropping hints, whether that be verbally or physically through touch, and sometimes talking in code through messages, it feels kinkier that way. I don't know, asking for p*ssy straight up with no filter feels kinda awkward.

Honestly, when you're with someone you know in terms of what turns them on and, most importantly, personality, nothing needs to be said; you'll know when they're in the mood to have sex.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Eh. Sometimes it’s just uncouth. Even if I want sex I’m not gonna set a requirement of it. I might be the one to change my mind myself so there’s no need to make a calendar appointment for it and one of us still end up backing out. It’s going to be the same scenario, probably more resentment.

I think the better mindset is to just not feel entitled to someone’s loins

I love how using adult language is equated to an appointment.



Stating intentions is the opposite of entitlement. Expecting someone to "just know" you want to have sex is entitlement.

 

[UnQuantized]

Many women say that explicitly stating your intentions is unsexy. I have got better at moving situations along just from reading the vibe as I have got older. Just stating what you want seems to put women off. Women claim to be better communicators and have this great intuition but it doesn't stack up to reality.

 

[melraH]

I'm handsome gang and its always been fairly easy for me, however when I worked retail in my late teens to early 20's I learned the "ask for the sale" technique. And my numbers quadrupled.

In conclusion close mouths don't get fed. Or rather get fed better quality food/more often.

This applies to outside of work, at work situations its best not to get involved with someone if you value your JOB in this economy. Keep your mouth shut even a doble entendre joke could get you to HR these days. Let the female talk and just say thank you and bounce. Soecially if you in a leadership position Look at the michigan coach and Ime in Boston.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Are men straight up telling women "let's have sex" "do you wanna have sex" out here like a caveman

If you have been through the talking stage and been on a few dates and you are alone in private, it's common sense that one or both of the individuals in that
situation want sex. And nowadays if she's feeling you , the man doesn't even need to make the first move/initiate the foreplay.

Are those the only 2 phases you can think of?



The lack of creativity and unwillingness to have a direct conversation is frightening.

 

[Barlow]

I love how using adult language is equated to an appointment.



Stating intentions is the opposite of entitlement. Expecting someone to "just know" you want to have sex is entitlement.

I’m saying entitlement in either scenario. You really believe if someone says “ok” to sex and someone backs out there won’t be resentment?

Just go with the flow and not expect anything and you’ll be fine.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

This reminds me of a question my friend asked on Facebook. She asked how one lets their partner know when they want to have sex. Y'know, do they just say “hey let's have sex”, speak in code, drop subtle hints, etc.

Speaking for myself, I prefer dropping hints, whether that be verbally or physically through touch, and sometimes talking in code through messages, it feels kinkier that way. I don't know, asking for p*ssy straight up with no filter feels kinda awkward.

Honestly, when you're with someone you know in terms of what turns them on and, most importantly, personality, nothing needs to be said; you'll know when they're in the mood to have sex.

But that's 1 very specific situation. The majority of sexual interactions isn't happen between people in long term situations who know each other's body.

I talking about new or casual sexual relationships.

 

[cyndaquil]

1. If she's willing to "catch a vibe" she is already willing to have sex with you. Nothing is going to make me "catch a vibe" out the blue for a man.

2. Honestly that's her problem respectfully.

She wouldn't feel like a hoe unless the man she was dealing with had already invested time into her and she already understood his intentions.

She wouldn't feel guilty about "being a hoe" unless she was already unsure about the man or using sex to trying to segue into something more serious.

You're right. But they be wanting to fukk on the first date. It's a matter of them fighting their own impulses. I'm attractive so they assume I'm a player. It's a her problem for sure because she's not forcing me to invest if she wants a relationship nor can she.
That's why I stay telling brehs they really dont have to jump through all these hoops if the woman is attracted to them. But on the same coin as a man it is important to let a woman know your intentions so the onus is on her to bow out if your intentions don't align with hers. If I let her know and she still onboard and fukks me it's 100% on her. Nobody lead her on. She decided that pleasure was worth it