She's Too Black

[WHIPPEDCream]

Cluctch my pearls the hell is that for? I'm not being hostile in anyway towards you and because I said not everyone is with that ignorant mindstate doesn't mean that I don't know that there are some people that down darkskin women either. There's over 7 billion people on this planet it be naive to think otherwise . I'm lightskin and have been told I'm too light but that doesn't mean I'll be on some fukk all lightskin women. I just keep it pushing. I agree with you so why the sudden hostility towards me?

I am hostile because you are trying to generalize the issue of dark skin women being bashed by black men, which in turn undermines the issue.

You're on this "I am affected too," bull sh*t that I'm not trying to hear.

As I said several times before, if I'm reminiscing about my struggles about being black the last thing I want to hear from a White person "well I have struggles too."

That's not EMPATHIZING with me. Any person who tries to pull that bull sh*t is selfish & self-centered.They are not TRYING to empathize with you.They want to talk about the hardships of their lives to make me feel like my issues are not prominent because they "go through sh*t too."

& I find it sickening because Black women NEVER pull that sh*t with black men.When the issue concerns black men & they are the victims, there is no black woman who is going to say "Um but well I go through such & such too."Black women ALWAYS sympathize & empathize with Black Men when they talk about their issues with racism in their daily lives as black men.

 

[Michael9100]

she wouldn't even be interested in 98% of us posting.....

 

[Canon]

That's not EMPATHIZING with me. .

why do you expect empathy from black men when you have stated multiple times you only care about black women issues

fukk your problems

 

[Geek Nasty]

I didn't know "too black" was an insult

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

All your examples are of famous people. Who gives a fukk about them in the long run? In everyday black america i see dark skinned women getting chosen as well as light skin. You got people with preferences just like some women dont like short guys and some dudes dont like weaves. I live in a majority black city (ATL) and dark skinned women aren't hurting for any attention down here as long as they are attractive, brown skinned as long as they are attractive as well. If you out of shape unattractive person who probably not gonna get the top notch of the opposite sex unless they got money or are a hood celeb

There are some c00ns who prefer light skin over anything but who cares?

Yea that's how I look at it. I've been done with the whole "black people as whole get judged as a whole" tip. You got sorry ass nikkas who gonna sink instead of swim and in the end, ain't my problem. So for them, them and their opinions become completely irrelevant to me. What they like and don't like don't mean shyt to me, or alter my opinions and attraction to black women.

 

[Mr.Big Meat McGee]

Honestly that guy should just off himself.

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

Yeah. I don't get the denial. And that's hurtful too. Blk dudes claiming these chicks making shyt up. Claiming they just wanna date white dudes. Claiming they complaining cuz they're ugly. How u gon dismiss these chick's entire experience?

Like seriously?

& This is why there are a number of Black women who are frustrated.

Here you have Black women's experiences being denied left & right by their own.Black women's experiences are constantly being dismissed/disregarded in the black community.Take a good look at this thread for example.


There will never be any sympathizing for emphasizing for black women ESPECIALLY if that black woman is dark, period.She is going to be met with "don't focus on the bad black men," or "maybe you're just ugly," or "black men go through that too." She will always be met with a rational reasoning or rational conclusion to her issues.But if it's a black man talking about our racist society, we sympathize with that black man all day long. We can talk about how this White structure isn't sh*t everyday.& The black community expects those same dark skin black women who constantly get ignored to go just as hard to fight for those black men.

 

[Rell84shots]

if the the guy wasn't feeling her he could have just said something like "nah not my taste"

Or said something else about how he is not really attracticed to her.

This niiga just says "shes to Black"

Or he could said nothing at all.

 

[Blackout]

Yeah. I don't get the denial. And that's hurtful too. Blk dudes claiming these chicks making shyt up. Claiming they just wanna date white dudes. Claiming they complaining cuz they're ugly. How u gon dismiss these chick's entire experience?

Like seriously?

Colorism is real and its a problem that needs to be addressed.

Thats all Im gonna say because Im gonna be ignored by yall as usual.

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

All your examples are of famous people. Who gives a fukk about them in the long run? In everyday black america i see dark skinned women getting chosen as well as light skin. You got people with preferences just like some women dont like short guys and some dudes dont like weaves. I live in a majority black city (ATL) and dark skinned women aren't hurting for any attention down here as long as they are attractive, brown skinned as long as they are attractive as well. If you out of shape unattractive person who probably not gonna get the top notch of the opposite sex unless they got money or are a hood celeb

There are some c00ns who prefer light skin over anything but who cares?

Thank you for this Sir.

& Now I can see the world through a whole new lens because you provided this groundbreaking information on why colorism is not important. .

why do you expect empathy from black men when you have stated multiple times you only care about black women issues

fukk your problems

I don't.

 

[Canon]

I don't.

so why the fukk you come here and troll/complain about it?

 

[keond]

Thank you for this Sir.

& Now I can see the world through a whole new lens because you provided this groundbreaking information on why colorism is not important. .



I don't.

You not really here to hear others ideas, your just want to troll black men because your too meek to do it offline

Go play in traffic, dikkhead

 

[Ironman]

I am hostile because you are trying to generalize the issue of dark skin women being bashed by black men, which in turn undermines the issue.

You're on this "I am affected too," bull sh*t that I'm not trying to hear.

As I said several times before, if I'm reminiscing about my struggles about being black the last thing I want to hear from a White person "well I have struggles too."

That's not EMPATHIZING with me. Any person who tries to pull that bull sh*t is selfish & self-centered.They are not TRYING to empathize with you.They want to talk about the hardships of their lives to make me feel like my issues are not prominent because they "go through sh*t too."

& I find it sickening because Black women NEVER pull that sh*t with black men.When the issue concerns black men & they are the victims, there is no black woman who is going to say "Um but well I go through such & such too."Black women ALWAYS sympathize & empathize with Black Men when they talk about their issues with racism in their daily lives as black men.

I just said I agree some people down darker skin women You're talking about black men specifically and I also agree some are on that bullshyt too. I am not going to say all black men because I'm speaking for myself and I don't think that way. I also didn't say it isn't an issue in our community as it damn sure is as darkskin women go through hell with that. I merely used myself as an example not that I'm going through something better or worse I'm not comparing my personal life with anyone as I don't live their life. Once again I'm aware darker skinned black women go through bullshyt because of their skin so again why the hostility?

 

[Dwolf]

Welp, another thread down the shyt hole.

Look like she the one making excuses



If Tyreke from 83rd street who work at Home Depot get up in that inbox, does that not count for dudes not showing her love?

This nikka

 

[(Lean Ambrose)]

Hell yeah.

They are really clutching their pearls acting like they've never in their lives heard of dark skin black women being bashed by black men.

And I've heard many dark skinned nikkas get clowned to...
I'm not even a dark skinned breh but I'm getting so sick of some of y'all acting like them boys don't get it also...
Man your a clown...