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Men take angle pics too
I've encountered women who will state a height preference openly but not know the actual difference in heights. So dudes give themselves a few extra inches to give themselves a shot. Same way women take pictures with angles and filters to accentuate or hide things
 

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At 5'6.5", I've dated "up" a couple times, never really been one to put myself out there much like that either. It's just about getting out the house and exposing yourself to the world. Cold approaching is a little harder for us, so it's more about being active in various social circles. They'll come to you if you stay with some good hygiene and a fresh attitude, from my experiences at least. Working on yourself should always be paramount. Content and competence will keep them stimulated once you catch their interest.

A childhood friend of mine was probably like 5'3" shoeless and always had girls for us to kick it with growing up.
 
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I've encountered women who will state a height preference openly but not know the actual difference in heights. So dudes give themselves a few extra inches to give themselves a shot. Same way women take pictures with angles and filters to accentuate or hide things

Maybe i should claim 5'6. It's only 1 inch, and it's not like women know the difference :yeshrug:
 

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At 5'6.5", I've dated "up" a couple times, never really been one to put myself out there much like that either. It's just about getting out the house and exposing yourself to the world. Cold approaching is a little harder for us, so it's more about being active in various social circles. They'll come to you if you stay with some good hygiene and a fresh attitude, from my experiences at least. Working on yourself should always be paramount. Content and competence will keep them stimulated once you catch their interest.

A childhood friend of mine was probably like 5'3" shoeless and always had girls for us to kick it with growing up.

Why do you feel it's harder?

I actually prefer cold approaching. I'm more of loner so maybe that's why.
 

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What do ya'll consider short, tho? Nikkas be 5'10 talking about they're short when that's average height.
 

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Why do you feel it's harder?

I actually prefer cold approaching. I'm more of loner so maybe that's why.


I believe that most women really don't care about height, but it's definitely going to be the biggest strike against you going into a situation cold. You might end up catching a few, but it's going to be few and far between and wreck havoc on your perception of them in the long run.
 
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