Should a Breh without kids wife a single mom?

Should a man marry a woman with kids when he has none?

  • Yes, he is a good and honorable man

  • Yes, because he has ulterior motives.

  • Yes, let a simp be a simp

  • No


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One kid is my limit when it comes to who I will date.

2 or more kids is a big responsibility and would be better off handled by a man with kids of his own since he has experience.

Yet with that said if a man with no kids wife a lady with more than one kid then more power to him.
 
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There's absolutely no reason to destroy your financial future by bringing four children you're not related to into your life.
Dating a person with no kids is a time and an emotional commitment.
Dating someone with one kid is an even greater time, emotional and financial commitment.
Anyone who has four kids period is likely irresponsible, and outside of a few celebrities like Diddy, is probably somewhere near the poverty line, especially as a single parent.
There's no conceivable reason to even engage with someone like that, unless you're feeling exceptionally charitable, because you're going to get little-to-nothing in return.
 

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David, is originally from New York and moved to Australia to play basketball. While playing overseas, he met his wife, Julie, a native Australian. Ben comes from a large family with five siblings.

The couple met when David was playing professional basketball in Australia. She was a Lady Tigers dancer for the team he was playing for at the time as well as an aerobics instructor. Julie already had four children from a previous relationship but David was welcoming to them. They eventually had two kids of their own, Olivia and Ben.

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David, is originally from New York and moved to Australia to play basketball. While playing overseas, he met his wife, Julie, a native Australian. Ben comes from a large family with five siblings.

The couple met when David was playing professional basketball in Australia. She was a Lady Tigers dancer for the team he was playing for at the time as well as an aerobics instructor. Julie already had four children from a previous relationship but David was welcoming to them. They eventually had two kids of their own, Olivia and Ben.

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Simpology, the science of simping :mjlol:
 

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Low six figures moderately successful


The coli y'all

Low six figures for only 5 or 6 years and supporting a family of 6 is moderately successful

Now could you answer the question? Would you wife a single mother of four who is not of your race?
 

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Pretend that you are that single, successful man. Would you proceed with long term dating plans with a woman who has 4 kids? None of which are your race (I know this part isn't a big deal to you)
I can't say whether I would or wouldn't. 4 kids is a bit extreme, but possible to be responsible in a divorce :yeshrug:

More importantly I'm not going to sit and judge a man for no other reason than him dating a single mom. A single mom can be a good woman, a childless woman can be a worthless thot :yeshrug:
 
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