Should a Breh without kids wife a single mom?

Should a man marry a woman with kids when he has none?

  • Yes, he is a good and honorable man

  • Yes, because he has ulterior motives.

  • Yes, let a simp be a simp

  • No


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Saiyajin

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i might consider it if she was willing to get rid of the kids by putting them up for adoption

shed have to be 10/10 tho
 

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According to who? And why do their opinions matter?

Well with that logic why does your opinion on the single mom matter?

:marymjpls: It's just a message board with any given topic. There is no wrong answer here, everyone's opinion is welcomed.
 

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5-6 years of making $180,000/year

MODERATELY. successful :mjgrin:


180 is not low six. Don't factor the cost of living on an island brehs. Don't factor in how much money it takes to support 8 people brehs.



I get the feeling this thread is lowkey saying Black Men wouldn't marry a Black woman with 4 kids.
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Nah... but you do raise an interesting point. Would that dude (who was from NYC) even consider talking to an average looking Black woman with four kids? Let alone a single mom of four on the dance team for the D-league ?


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The guy doesn't have any kids but wants to start a family.

He is moderately successful.

Think low six figures, some community clout; but no real job security.

He meets a woman (not of his race or culture) and she immediately states that she has children (plural). Let's say 4 kids for this scenario.

Do you proceed to date her with long term intentions?


And btw none of the kids are of your race.
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David, is originally from New York and moved to Australia to play basketball. While playing overseas, he met his wife, Julie, a native Australian. Ben comes from a large family with five siblings.

The couple met when David was playing professional basketball in Australia. She was a Lady Tigers dancer for the team he was playing for at the time as well as an aerobics instructor. Julie already had four children from a previous relationship but David was welcoming to them. They eventually had two kids of their own, Olivia and Ben.

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180 is not low six. Don't factor the cost of living on an island brehs. Don't factor in how much money it takes to support 8 people brehs.





Nah... but you do raise an interesting point. Would that dude (who was from NYC) even consider talking to an average looking Black woman with four kids? Let alone a single mom of four on the dance team for the D-league ?


IJS :mybadfanny:

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C'mon this situation isn't remotely common between Black Men and White Single Mothers. This isn't even up for discussion because Black Men aren't that color struck.
 

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Not in that scenario, hell no. Nothing to do with the kids but he doesn't look all too stable for that much responsibility.
 
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