According to who? And why do their opinions matter?
5-6 years of making $180,000/year
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I get the feeling this thread is lowkey saying Black Men wouldn't marry a Black woman with 4 kids.
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The guy doesn't have any kids but wants to start a family.
He is moderately successful.
Think low six figures, some community clout; but no real job security.
He meets a woman (not of his race or culture) and she immediately states that she has children (plural). Let's say 4 kids for this scenario.
Do you proceed to date her with long term intentions?
And btw none of the kids are of your race.


David, is originally from New York and moved to Australia to play basketball. While playing overseas, he met his wife, Julie, a native Australian. Ben comes from a large family with five siblings.
The couple met when David was playing professional basketball in Australia. She was a Lady Tigers dancer for the team he was playing for at the time as well as an aerobics instructor. Julie already had four children from a previous relationship but David was welcoming to them. They eventually had two kids of their own, Olivia and Ben.
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180 is not low six. Don't factor the cost of living on an island brehs. Don't factor in how much money it takes to support 8 people brehs.
Nah... but you do raise an interesting point. Would that dude (who was from NYC) even consider talking to an average looking Black woman with four kids? Let alone a single mom of four on the dance team for the D-league ?
IJS :mybadfanny:
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Why is this a question
C'mon this situation isn't remotely common between Black Men and White Single Mothers. This isn't even up for discussion because Black Men aren't that color struck.
If he wants to date a single mom then thats his prerogative. What he eats won't make the next man shyt.