Should a man dating a woman pay for her airfare and accommodation?

[mamba]

These responses , y'all splitting trips while ya b1tch getting her black blown out by Tyrone. Step up and be a man to the woman you're in a relationship with or sit on the sideline with the lil n1ggas.

Meanwhile,Tyrone hasn't spent one penny on her! Yet, a "real man" is suppose to be an ATM!

Being a man doesn't mean being a pushover, breh. If a woman isn't willing to break open that purse from time to time, she's not worth my time.

It's 2017, not 1917!

nikkas outchea watching their bank accounts dwindle, wining and dining these women. Meanwhile, her bank account is looking solid and growing. If the relationship doesn't work out, she's moving on and your bank account is looking anemic.

You can't get that money back and she's on to the next super simp, while her finances are still looking pretty!

That's not the move.

It's 2017. These women are making money--in a lot of cases more than men!

 

[mamba]

A lot of these nikkas would drop major $$$ on some broad they barely know, but will not even send their moms or granny a nice gift on Mothers Day or help lil sis with tuition.

 

[NO-BadAzz]

If that's the case and I do decide to pay

She better be paying for all the meals and tours/activities/souvenirs.

 

[Diyhai]

so many variables on if I think a dude should pay
but her blindly expecting it would be a no no for me
I avoid women with that expectation

 

[Zero]

A lot of these nikkas would drop major $$$ on some broad they barely know, but will not even send their moms or granny a nice gift on Mothers Day or help lil sis with tuition.

Out here studying botany to plant some heffas favorite flower but wont even cut they mama grass

Just uncivilized

 

[yakamein]

Meanwhile,Tyrone hasn't spent one penny on her! Yet, a "real man" is suppose to be an ATM!

Being a man doesn't mean being a pushover, breh. If a woman isn't willing to break open that purse from time to time, she's not worth my time.

It's 2017, not 1917!

nikkas outchea watching their bank accounts dwindle, wining and dining these women. Meanwhile, her bank account is looking solid and growing. If the relationship doesn't work out, she's moving on and your bank account is looking anemic.

You can't get that money back and she's on to the next super simp, while her finances are still looking pretty!

That's not the move.

It's 2017. These women are making money--in a lot of cases more than men!

As I said... date at your level. If u getting to the bag, why have a woman that isint? Why put out bread and it's not being reciprocated. Going back to op's statement... guy was basically broke, the female wanted x,y,z. First they both knew his situation, why even continue if neither was comfortable, knowing these are things that occur in a relationship. And that is exactly why there is poor families growing up. Y'all both don't have a lot to piss in or a window to throw it out, but y'all fukkin raw, now junior popped out into a world of financially unstable parents.

 

[mamba]

Out here studying botany to plant some heffas favorite flower but wont even cut they mama grass

Just uncivilized

I look back on some of my own past relationships and the money I spent! I wasn't ever flying women around and shyt, but buying dinner, drinks, etc.

That's money I cannot get back! If I'd invested some of that money in the stock market, I'd probably be able to retire earlier!

Meanwhile, those women saved money! And, after our relationship was over, they moved on to the next man who spent his money on them!

But, I've never been a super simp ass nikka. For every few dinners, I always get a woman to cook for me. So, she's spending as well.

 

[mamba]

As I said... date at your level. If u getting to the bag, why have a woman that isint? Why put out bread and it's not being reciprocated. Going back to op's statement... guy was basically broke, the female wanted x,y,z. First they both knew his situation, why even continue if neither was comfortable, knowing these are things that occur in a relationship. And that is exactly why there is poor families growing up. Y'all both don't have a lot to piss in or a window to throw it out, but y'all fukkin raw, now junior popped out into a world of financially unstable parents.

I agree with all of that.

A man should date a woman on his financial level. That way, there's no excuse as to why she cannot contribute from time to time.

Brehs mess up when they date down.

Problem is most women always want to date up--even when they say they want a man on their level!

Got call center women out here wanting lawyers and doctors, school teachers wanting entrepreneurs and executives, etc.

 

[yakamein]

I agree with all of that.

A man should date a woman on his financial level. That way, there's no excuse as to why she cannot contribute from time to time.

Brehs mess up when they date down.

Problem is most women always want to date up--even when they say they want a man on their level!

Got call center women out here wanting lawyers and doctors, school teachers wanting entrepreneurs and executives, etc.

Facts. My girl and I are one in the same, both have good paying jobs, with businesses on the side. She actually helped start my business, structurally and financially. Again date at ya level. Dudes be lost in the sauce cause the woman bad af. But what else do she bring to the table besides being labeled "a bad b1tch"

 

[mamba]

Facts. My girl and I are one in the same, both have good paying jobs, with businesses on the side. She actually helped start my business, structurally and financially. Again date at ya level. Dudes be lost in the sauce cause the woman bad af. But what else do she bring to the table besides being labeled "a bad b1tch"

That's a great situation you have.

 

[yakamein]

That's a great situation you have.

 

[Diyhai]

Facts. My girl and I are one in the same, both have good paying jobs, with businesses on the side. She actually helped start my business, structurally and financially. Again date at ya level. Dudes be lost in the sauce cause the woman bad af. But what else do she bring to the table besides being labeled "a bad b1tch"

To each his own but I would avoid looking at it like its a business decision
But at the same time you have to accept a person for where they are financially at dont look at potential
If your gurl makes more than u or vice versa just know what that means and make clear your expectation for the other person
That chick weak as shyt for talking about it to him instead of her partner
Three big mistakes telling your business to other people, not communicating to your partner and not expressing feelings

 

[Barnett114]

Tyrone

I know this has become a stereotypical black name but it actually has Irish origins

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Going on a trip next month with a chick I've been fukkin with for past couple months. She demanded that she be able to pay her fair share. So we each bought our own flights. I'll cover majority of the nights at hotel. She'll cover some of the nights. She'll also take care of all meals

Perfect right here. Dude said they dating. I didn't even see, in a relationship...

But one thing left out.. who asked who?

He if asked her to go, he should pay. How you gonna ask her on a trip and then tell her she gotta pay.


Hey boo let's go to the Bahamas together. I really just want to go there and spend time and lay out of the beach with you

Wow that sounds great. When do we leave

Right after you cough up 1500 for your half

 

[ImGucci]

It's not required, but I've done it before for a ex.

But she knew the deal. If you pay a girls vacation, she has to know anything goes as far as sex goes. I don't wanna hear, "oh I don't do that" if I'm paying for your ticket.