Should a man dating a woman pay for her airfare and accommodation?
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DjBhaled
More chune for your headtop ehh
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ass nikkas for you
how is this a universal answer 
it completely depends on what each relationship is like when it comes to finances
it completely depends on what each relationship is like when it comes to financessimple= if all you care about is having sex with the woman that you are dating, then subconsciously you view her as a hoe. if you have deep feeling for this woman, where you want to take her away for a trip, then it means that you like enough where she not like all the other woman you see. there are women you don't do things for because u have no feelings for them right? but your woman is a whole other plateau.
Solo ✧✦✧
King of the eXoticals. "FIRsT and LAst wARNiNg"
No, I don't like this idea that men "should" pay for women simply because. It creates entitlement.
Having something like this done is a gift and a nice thing to do. It's not something that women "should" get simply because they're in a relationship. I don't mind the idea of doing this but I wouldn't do it because of some imaginary idea that since I'm male I have to pay, it would be out of kindness only.
Having something like this done is a gift and a nice thing to do. It's not something that women "should" get simply because they're in a relationship. I don't mind the idea of doing this but I wouldn't do it because of some imaginary idea that since I'm male I have to pay, it would be out of kindness only.
Ironman
#Knickstape
Paying $$$ for trips is something my wife will get one day.
A woman I'm dating is not getting that treatment.
These women are working, too.
Don't be a sucker spending all your money, while she's busy stacking hers! It's 2017. Women have good jobs, 401(k) and savings accounts!
If she's really into you and want to spend quality time with you, she'd be willing to contribute. You've got to set a precedent during the dating stage. If you're always the one busting open your wallet, do you think that shyt is going to magically change once you get married?
Set expecations early. That begins prior to marriage!
Now, if you're out here dating broke ass chicks, you need to re-evaluate your life, brehs.
You can't be an investment banker outchea dating a fry cook at Wendy's!
A woman I'm dating is not getting that treatment.
These women are working, too.
Don't be a sucker spending all your money, while she's busy stacking hers! It's 2017. Women have good jobs, 401(k) and savings accounts!
If she's really into you and want to spend quality time with you, she'd be willing to contribute. You've got to set a precedent during the dating stage. If you're always the one busting open your wallet, do you think that shyt is going to magically change once you get married?
Set expecations early. That begins prior to marriage!Now, if you're out here dating broke ass chicks, you need to re-evaluate your life, brehs.
You can't be an investment banker outchea dating a fry cook at Wendy's!
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When I was with my girl, I made significantly more money than her. We went to Miami beach and I made her pay for her own flight, but I covered the hotel stay, food, and all other expenses. It was more than fair for her.
Edit*= STOP fukkING WITH BROKE WOMEN. I don't do that shyt anymore.
Edit*= STOP fukkING WITH BROKE WOMEN. I don't do that shyt anymore.
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You didn't answer my second question. How do your feelings for someome change their intentions with you? Girl at my job told me she's trying to make a dude fall in love with her so he can support her and her kids.
your a perfect example of what i'm talking about. that's
i just did. i don't get btwn a woman legs, bust a nut and then say peace out and never call her again. my woman feeling change when i show her i'm serious about courting her, i'm always looking for events that go on in nyc to invite her to. i'm always suggesting something that we do together she never done before. that is how you lead as a man. that is how you nurture as a man. you let the woman watch you in action, let her see the essence of you.
So you're saying that the dude my co-worker will be able to change from seeing him as a come up if he proves he's serious? Even if she's explained to everyone at the job that she just wants to use him?
ndthentherewasx
El Capitan
If he suggested it (the trip) yes 
Either way that shyt is done
She's not getting over it
Either way that shyt is done
She's not getting over it
feelosofer
#ninergang
Not necessarily but that stuff has to be talked about upfront. But if this was someone I had been going out with for a certain amount of time, then I would pay for her accomodations especially if it was my idea.
My mindset was always (and this is an internal thing) if I can't afford to pay for me and my partner to do it (even if my partner could pay) then I wouldn't even suggest it.
My mindset was always (and this is an internal thing) if I can't afford to pay for me and my partner to do it (even if my partner could pay) then I wouldn't even suggest it.