Should bw ONLY date "high value men"?

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This is my little spinoff from that pineapple thread.

Most of you were in there bashing the girl for not choosing the "high value" dude all while placing his value solely on his resume.
 

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I am sure any BW that can get a HVM will get one. However, not every BW can get a HVM.

So, so called regular BM will adjust and get women that want them..

I just want people to experience healthy relationships, regardless of their socioeconomic status..
 
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Another thing. Yall talk a lot about bw needing to lock down their future hvm in college, so should bw chase after the bm in Stem, law, med, etc. and not bother with the bm studying elementary education (let alone a dude in trade school to be an auto mechanic or something similar) ?
 

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Another thing. Yall talk a lot about bw needing to lock down their future hvm in college, so should bw chase after the bm in Stem, law, med, etc. and not bother with the bm studying elementary education (let alone a dude in trade school to be an auto mechanic or something similar) ?
Just date guys that have their act together, have goals and plans etc
It's ok to have fun but always keep the big picture in mind
 

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Regular guys should not be on our radar?

Cause that's what it sounds like yall be pushing around here.

"choose better".

They don’t necessarily have to be high value just avoid pookies and ray rays and choose decent guys with an actual job and a future
 
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On a deeper level, I think a lot of this hvm nonsense is extremely damaging to the black community. All the emphasis being placed on material things with little to no focus on character building makes it hard to distinguish between the flashy cfo of a tech company and a drug dealer driving a flashy whip.

Character needs to be the primary focus and everything else will fall into place.
 

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I understand and that's why I edited it so it wouldn't come off as some incel, gender war nonsense.

Ok so it did originally say most?

Most would like to date hvm but it’s just not practical
 

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When you say "them" nikkas, am I making a logical leap by assuming that you're not one of "them" (a hvm) , therefore you are not worthy of my attention? :jbhmm:

I'm broke and I been broke my whole life :manny:

But like I said, what makes you think them nikkas want you :russ:?
 
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