Should bw ONLY date "high value men"?

[africngiant]

You quoted me just when I was about to delete my post. I'm not trying to antagonize anyone here.

I also have ZERO problem attracting men "high value" or not (which is neither here nor there).

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[Kyle C. Barker]

High / low ‘value’ can be a good bar to live by, but people fukk up by associating ‘value’ with your looks, fitness, income etc.

I look for ‘high value’ In everything from romantic relationships to friendships. but to me ’high value’ means they’re down to earth, empathetic, fun to be around, good sense of humor etc.

I'm with you. This high/low value shyt needs to stop if it's based on looks and income.

And I say that as an in shape, home owning, relatively high income earner. I have those things but I acknowledge I'm a horrible person to date due to my wondering eye.

Date the man is woman that makes you happy 24/7/365

 

[HarlemHottie]

Another thing. Yall talk a lot about bw needing to lock down their future hvm in college, so should bw chase after the bm in Stem, law, med, etc. and not bother with the bm studying elementary education (let alone a dude in trade school to be an auto mechanic or something similar) ?

"Chase after?" Why it gotta be all that? Why cant he just be 'what you want' and you go get it? That phrasing has some heavy implications.

And the answer is yes. Yes, go get that man before somebody else does and ruins him. Absolutely yes.

 

[ThatTruth777]

What you basing this on? On KS show, it was a main topic because that's what the women who called up decided they wanted. And he laid it out to them all that comes with it no filter which got his ass in all sorts of drama.

 

[HarlemHottie]

Date the man is woman that makes you happy 24/7/365

No offense, but this is bullshyt. Its nobody's job to make you happy 24/7. A bytch gotta be Santa Claus now too?

Advice like this will keep you single forever. *plays taps and salutes*

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

This is my little spinoff from that pineapple thread.

Most of you were in there bashing the girl for not choosing the "high value" dude all while placing his value solely on his resume.

He approached that self introduction like a corporate job interview. He can't distinguish the difference between high value in a relationship between high value in an actual corporate setting.

Even Russ Wilson (his doppelganger) knew when to approach Ciara with a slick ass line instead of talking about how many mvp coffee he got

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

No offense, but this is bullshyt. Its nobody's job to make you happy 24/7. A bytch gotta be Santa Claus now too?

Advice like this will keep you single forever. *plays taps and salutes*

Being single forever with a constant stream of women is the life that I want so it's all good

I don't see the point if the "one" for you isn't giving you happiness a majority of the time

 

[HarlemHottie]

Being single forever with a constant stream of women is the life that I want so it's all good

Do you think your eternal bachelor perspective is helpful to bw?

I don't see the point if the "one" for you isn't giving you happiness a majority of the time

I see men have been infected by Disney as well.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

You quoted me just when I was about to delete my post. I'm not trying to antagonize anyone here.

I also have ZERO problem attracting men "high value" or not (which is neither here nor there).

Attracting a man as a woman means nothing. How many of them stay around long enough to marry you

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

Do what you got to do Op. I just wish one of the ladies on this site could give a detailed description of what defines as high value. I’m not talking about soft generalized personality traits (kind, loving, etc, etc). I’m talking about a hard trait like education, height, career & Salary. What’s acceptable and what’s not.

Too much generalizations in reference to high value

 

[Paradoxx]

Do what you got to do Op. I just wish one of the ladies on this site could give a detailed description of what defines as high value. I’m not talking about soft generalized personality traits (kind, loving, etc, etc). I’m talking about a hard trait like education, height, career & Salary. What’s acceptable and what’s not.

Too much generalizations in reference to high value

That’s impossible, as every woman wants something different from their partners. The same thing could be said for men.

 

[The Fade]

yall the ones saying theres not enough nikkas on your level. you tell us

Every time we adapt to what yall want then it's the opposite extreme you want.

 

[HarlemHottie]

I just wish one of the ladies on this site could give a detailed description of what defines as high value. I’m not talking about soft generalized personality traits (kind, loving, etc, etc). I’m talking about a hard trait like education, height, career & Salary. What’s acceptable and what’s not.

You're doing it backwards. fukk what they think. Become the best version of yourself and the market will give you what you deserve.

This goes for men and women, btw.

 

[Cadillac]

Nobodys sweating you birds

Do wtf you want to do just stop crying on twitter about the cosequences

 

[Cadillac]

Regular guys should not be on our radar?

Cause that's what it sounds like yall be pushing around here.

"choose better".

alot of "high value men" wouldnt want you women specifically those of you who do this much complaining, be on twitter bytching, making reddit threads, etc