Should i give my side piece a chance

[Yup]

Basically ive been smashing this girl since August and she's been hinting towards a relationship...She's always doing shii for me. Mainly bc i think she thinks im a little out of her league.

But she's 5'3, B cup t*ts, and the ass isnt too greatI dont wanna cuff her and then a better looking chick comes around. I always wanted a taller chick too. That sounds shallow as hell but im youngShe's girlfriend material in every way, except the average looks.

I hate it when girls have low self esteem. I think you should let her be so another guy whp actually finds her attractive to make her his girl can scoop her. No matter how 'good' someone is you must be attracted to them...which you are not.

 

[Dwolf]

Man hell nah.

Then there is no advice to give you

 

[MikelArteta]

I hate it when girls have low self esteem. I think you should let her be so another guy whp actually finds her attractive to make her his girl can scoop her. No matter how 'good' someone is you must be attracted to them...which you are not.

attraction can grow

 

[wet landscapes]

If you had any type of significant feelings to make you consider dating her seriously, you wouldn't have made this thread

 

[NeilCartwright]

attraction can grow

This is true.


I just wanted other people's opinions...She's been holding me down. Made sure i had food in the apartment yada yada. Even low key hinted towards seeing some of my family for christmas but i was likeAnd i guess i shouldve been clearer..Dont have a main so she's not a side. More like a jumpoff who has GF potential.

 

[Yup]

This is true.


I just wanted other people's opinions...She's been holding me down. Made sure i had food in the apartment yada yada. Even low key hinted towards seeing some of my family for christmas but i was likeAnd i guess i shouldve been clearer..Dont have a main so she's not a side. More like a jumpoff who has GF potential.

I don't understand who will do all this for a guy that isnt a husband much less a boyfriend. Sounds...like you are using her for the things that she does for you...

You sound like a crummy human being.

 

[dontreadthis]

nah nikka, don't wife her up on some bored, convenient shyt because that's what it sounds like to me.

 

[Primetime21]

This is true.


I just wanted other people's opinions...She's been holding me down. Made sure i had food in the apartment yada yada. Even low key hinted towards seeing some of my family for christmas but i was likeAnd i guess i shouldve been clearer..Dont have a main so she's not a side. More like a jumpoff who has GF potential.

 

[Darealtwo1]

nikka unless you 6'6 aint nothing wrong with a shorter chick

 

[Blackking]

Basically ive been smashing this girl since August and she's been hinting towards a relationship...She's always doing shii for me. Mainly bc i think she thinks im a little out of her league.

But she's 5'3, B cup t*ts, and the ass isnt too greatI dont wanna cuff her and then a better looking chick comes around. I always wanted a taller chick too. That sounds shallow as hell but im youngShe's girlfriend material in every way, except the average looks.

naw.



NO!!

make her real feel something for you.........

so that you can keep her during ur relationship... and keep her on the side for the next girl too.

Help her understand that you n her have something special...
you pull it off then you're in heaven... and you're a better man for your future girl because when you need side p*ssy your not gonna be out here creating new friends, meetin bytches, or doing some stupid shyt.

you gonna fall back and accept that lovin from a long time friend (this chick).. But this chick is less likely to blow ur spot up.

Peace.

 

[Remote]

the black community y'all

Sounds like the girl is wifey material but she aint got the physical.

It would suck of OP dumps her to get with a sexy brainless thot...who is likely to fukk around and get pregnant on him....

 

[OC's finest]

Personality > looks

A loyal down chick goes a long way bruh

 

[andre patton]

Man hell nah. The last time i posted pics i got exposed w/another chick and she came with that ether.


I feel like im being superficial though..Just bc she's not 5'10 and thick as hell

She's been holding a nikka down since the fall semester Not an inst-thot. She gives it up on call. And she's broke as hell (like me) so she's used to the struggle. I just dont want to sell myself short as far as looks go.

you dating an average looking, short, flat ass, no titty havin BROKE bytch and you wanna know if she should be your main girl?



also you fukkin up the game for the rest of us. selfish ass nikka. there is NO promoting the side piece to the main bytch. if she a side piece then she STAYS A SIDE PIECE. you a part of the problem, not the solution. you out here givin all these side pieces hope n shyt.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

What if she's down to do 3 somes


Then you can keep her and smash finer bytches with her... you'll have the best of both worlds

 

[old_timer]

aight based on limited info provided i see two plays here

you can either groom her for being in the background longterm
blackking covered this scenario very well

or...
you put a future expiration date on the situation
meanwhile try to extract as much value from her as you can
this was/is my preferred method
basically "wow" her with attentive companionship/sex for 5-10 hours a week
then assess how she can help you

if you do it my way??
don't take her cash or let her do anything sexually that she already doesn't do
that will cause big problems later

instead, focus on things like..

• mental assets
• her free time
  
• connections- who she knows??
• memberships/discounts- maybe you can get cheap gas using her sam's club card??
• borrowing her possessions (returning them in good working order)

a woman's mental assets are always a goldmine
evaluate what she does well- and replicate it or adapt it for yourself
maybe she can cook or is a good nutritionist??
get her to teach you how to make simple, healthy meals for one
that is "something" you can use for the rest of your life
or maybe she knows yoga??
get her to teach you the best stretches for a dude
or how to fix your bad ankle or wahtever
maybe she is good at bargain hunting and has an eye for fashion??
let her create a new wardrobe for you
reimburse her for the cost, but not for her shopping time...see??

guys aren't usually comfortable asking for help or to be shown something
but apart from my technical/financial knowledge
80% of what i know i picked up from women
i acquired many of my hobbies/interests as well
this versatility you gain is part of what enhances your worth as a prospective husband
it all comes from the building blocks of past relationships