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Should i give my side piece a chance
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Jhoon
Spontaneous Mishaps and Hijinks
But her ass is lacking ass. Sounds like dude just met his wife and he doesnt know it.
christinasade
Banned
This is true.
I just wanted other people's opinions...She's been holding me down. Made sure i had food in the apartment yada yada. Even low key hinted towards seeing some of my family for christmas but i was likeAnd i guess i shouldve been clearer..Dont have a main so she's not a side. More like a jumpoff who has GF potential.
LMAO
nikka you aint got food in the house but got the nerve to be talking like you doing HER a favor?
somebody tell that girl she can do better.
This is true.
I just wanted other people's opinions...She's been holding me down. Made sure i had food in the apartment yada yada. Even low key hinted towards seeing some of my family for christmas but i was like
My nikka..
She down for real....
Are you gonna ever pay her back if you decide not to stay with her?
I would feel hella bad about the whole situation
NeilCartwright
All Star
Shes graduating in the spring, and im a sophomore/junior. Im 20 and shes 21. For anyone who was/in school knows in the beginning of the semester when the refund checks drop, everything is good. Then towards the end with finals, it gets hectic. And i had food. Might've been ramen noodles and peanut butter sandwiches but i wasn't starving.
Lowkey she could be wifey material
Life isnt always a fairy tale where you see someone and it's love at first sight.
Kenny West
Veteran
Don't do it
Selling her the dream gonna hurt her more in the long run
Selling her the dream gonna hurt her more in the long run
Shes graduating in the spring, and im a sophomore/junior. Im 20 and shes 21. For anyone who was/in school knows in the beginning of the semester when the refund checks drop, everything is good. Then towards the end with finals, it gets hectic. And i had food. Might've been ramen noodles and peanut butter sandwiches but i wasn't starving.
Lowkey she could be wifey material
The thing is when a female is loyal, even if you not feeling her on that level, you gotta find a way to repay her...
Only you know if she's wifey material for you...
But if she holding you down, and you not feeling her on the overall level she feeling you, then explain that to her when the opportunity comes..
And make it your business to repay her as well...
Integrity and principles are a plus...even with the jumps
When we are young, we don't fully appreciate deeds that are done for us..
broke or not, look at her character. does she have the foundation and just lack the direction? are you the man that can provide the guidance so that she can build with you? will she add to your life? Can you establish with her a structure that she fits in as your partner and ultimately will lead to your happiness? if so then you should definitely consider giving her a chance. but this is some grown man type shyt though. like Reincar said,
the important thing is that you make it so that it leads to your happiness. her devotion can be used to achieve both your and her happiness if you harness it right.
the important thing is that you make it so that it leads to your happiness. her devotion can be used to achieve both your and her happiness if you harness it right.
etrofllenrod504
Superstar
she a side chick for a reason..........dudes gotta stop feeling obligated to broads just cause they down for the cause. if having a taller broad with more ass is what you want then be patient and keep shyt with her the same as is dont let her pressure into shyt if she dont respect that then let her kick rocks. trust me you can find a female that fit the bill of what you want and be down for you the same way.
And this ladies is why you don't apopogize if you don't find a guy attractive dont waste your time or his because he's 'good'.
Girlfriend is acting like she's in a relationship with a guy that thinks of her as optional. Ill be damned if I am going to feed an arsehole on a student budget that means nothing to me.
I want to find this girl and help her get her self worth...ish is pathetic.
Op I don't think your an arse for not finding her attractive but you are one for entertaining her for 5 months and using her.
Girlfriend is acting like she's in a relationship with a guy that thinks of her as optional. Ill be damned if I am going to feed an arsehole on a student budget that means nothing to me.
I want to find this girl and help her get her self worth...ish is pathetic.
Op I don't think your an arse for not finding her attractive but you are one for entertaining her for 5 months and using her.
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christinasade
Banned
The girl probably think she's in a relationship. A dude on my uni campus (nigerian guy) tried to convince me and the rest of my african friends to cook him. Ish pissed me off...
I just said: "You don't have a wife amongst us...so go away!"...I don't entertain guys who will not lift a pinky finger but expects me to bend backwards for his sorry arse.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
It's true...a lot of women who put their life on hold trying to 'support' a brotha end up destitute, broken hearted and bitter. Any relationship should start with partnership; a man who cares for you will want to to do things for you/support you/etc... not let you do everything and spit in your face when he's done with you. But many girls fall in that trap of supporting guys in hopes to get the girlfriend/wife treatment. Trust me when a guy is not feeling you there's nothing you can do to win him over.
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