Should I take my girl up on BJ offer...

[ChuckDaddy]

I been with my girl for almost 3 years now. She's cool and everything has been good except for one area. For the first 6 months to a year, she used to give blowjobs pretty regularly, although she would never swallow (I always had to finish on her titties or ass or somewhere). Ever since then, though, the BJ rate has been been on a worse decline than 50's career. Right now, I'd be lucky to get one every other month, if that, and I basically gotta talk her into it. I tell her all the time how fukked up that is and I've been trying to get her to swallow since the start of our relationship. Her response was that she will have to work up to that and that it will eventually happen "one day."

So anyway, last night she was questioning me about hanging out with a female friend that she knows I used to mess with before her. I didn't do anything with this friend last night, but just to piss off my girl I made a comment along the lines of "Well, if I can't get what I like here, of course I'm gonna try to find it somewhere else." Only problem is that didn't really piss her off. She seemed kinda sad/deflated, but was like "I understand if that's what you have to do." I told her I didn't really do anything, but asked her if she would really be ok with me getting head from somebody else, and she said that it wouldn't make her happy but she would understand and would accept it as long as I wasn't fukking them.

So men and women of the coli, what should I do? Would it be a good idea to take her up on this opening? It'd be cool to hear from ladies on this too.

Some background before the "you share that girl" comments: we've been living together for 2 years and I'm pretty sure she aint doing no dirt. And like I said before, everything is cool except for her bj hangups. And she's like 3 months pregnant right now, so I don't wanna throw her (and my seed) in the bushes.

 

[RealestSinceKumbaya]

Some background before the "you share that girl" comments: we've been living together for 2 years and I'm pretty sure she aint doing no dirt. And like I said before, everything is cool except for her bj hangups. And she's like 3 months pregnant right now, so I don't wanna throw her (and my seed) in the bushes.

:ehhh:


To answer the question though
You could either get brain and tell her and she'll either accept it and that's that (not likely)
Or she'll use it against you in the future when ur at ur most vulnerable.
Or you can just get head/p*ssy and never even bring it up to her like normal nikkas do.

 

[KingHelga]

she sucked someone's dikk and wants to convince you it isn't real cheating

 

[Jesus]

A women is okay with you getting some head from someone else....?

 

[Heafcliffe]

Hate to do this but....

If you aint already, in roughly 6 months, you bout to share that girl.

 

[StarClout]

You share that girl breh

 

[Regular_P]

Some background before the "you share that girl" comments: we've been living together for 2 years and I'm pretty sure she aint doing no dirt. And like I said before, everything is cool except for her bj hangups. And she's like 3 months pregnant right now, so I don't wanna throw her (and my seed) in the bushes.

You share that girl and she wants you to openly cheat on her so she won't feel bad about RAPING you on child support after you guys break up.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

I been with my girl for almost 3 years now. She's cool and everything has been good except for one area. For the first 6 months to a year, she used to give blowjobs pretty regularly, although she would never swallow (I always had to finish on her titties or ass or somewhere). Ever since then, though, the BJ rate has been been on a worse decline than 50's career. Right now, I'd be lucky to get one every other month, if that, and I basically gotta talk her into it. I tell her all the time how fukked up that is and I've been trying to get her to swallow since the start of our relationship. Her response was that she will have to work up to that and that it will eventually happen "one day."

So anyway, last night she was questioning me about hanging out with a female friend that she knows I used to mess with before her. I didn't do anything with this friend last night, but just to piss off my girl I made a comment along the lines of "Well, if I can't get what I like here, of course I'm gonna try to find it somewhere else." Only problem is that didn't really piss her off. She seemed kinda sad/deflated, but was like "I understand if that's what you have to do." I told her I didn't really do anything, but asked her if she would really be ok with me getting head from somebody else, and she said that it wouldn't make her happy but she would understand and would accept it as long as I wasn't fukking them.

So men and women of the coli, what should I do? Would it be a good idea to take her up on this opening? It'd be cool to hear from ladies on this too.

Some background before the "you share that girl" comments: we've been living together for 2 years and I'm pretty sure she aint doing no dirt. And like I said before, everything is cool except for her bj hangups. And she's like 3 months pregnant right now, so I don't wanna throw her (and my seed) in the bushes.

she is just letting you know that she gonna do the same thing, at least thats what it look like to me , if she calmly said she would understand, that should have let you know right there things were not gonna be ok.

 

[john goodman]

She almost certainly cheated on you... Not giving bj's and being nonchalant about you cheating says a lot

Get that kid DNA tested

 

[Dat Migo]

I hate how the fellas always have to find out they share they girl from the Coli. What kind of friends do yall have?

 

[RealestSinceKumbaya]

My Coli nikkas, You really need to read between the lines before asking advice on shyt like this.
The answers are right in front of you, brehs.

 

[1thouwow]

I been with my girl for almost 3 years now. She's cool and everything has been good except for one area. For the first 6 months to a year, she used to give blowjobs pretty regularly, although she would never swallow (I always had to finish on her titties or ass or somewhere). Ever since then, though, the BJ rate has been been on a worse decline than 50's career. Right now, I'd be lucky to get one every other month, if that, and I basically gotta talk her into it. I tell her all the time how fukked up that is and I've been trying to get her to swallow since the start of our relationship. Her response was that she will have to work up to that and that it will eventually happen "one day."

So anyway, last night she was questioning me about hanging out with a female friend that she knows I used to mess with before her. I didn't do anything with this friend last night, but just to piss off my girl I made a comment along the lines of "Well, if I can't get what I like here, of course I'm gonna try to find it somewhere else." Only problem is that didn't really piss her off. She seemed kinda sad/deflated, but was like "I understand if that's what you have to do." I told her I didn't really do anything, but asked her if she would really be ok with me getting head from somebody else, and she said that it wouldn't make her happy but she would understand and would accept it as long as I wasn't fukking them.

So men and women of the coli, what should I do? Would it be a good idea to take her up on this opening? It'd be cool to hear from ladies on this too.

Some background before the "you share that girl" comments: we've been living together for 2 years and I'm pretty sure she aint doing no dirt. And like I said before, everything is cool except for her bj hangups. And she's like 3 months pregnant right now, so I don't wanna throw her (and my seed) in the bushes.

Nah breh

You share that girl

 

[DarlingNikki]

Lol. No woman is ok with their man doing some funny shyt, especially a pregnant one. That seed probably isn't yours, she's cheating on you, or she's trapping you.

Don't do it.

 

[Turbulent]

depends if you're trying to keep her longterm or not.

first of all, your girl is using this to manipulate you. Maybe it's subconscious but it's still happening. Even if you get head from the other girl, you know damn well it won't make you that happier cause what you want is head from her and you also want her to swallow.

You played your cards wrong by bringing up to other chick too. what you should have done is either try to figure out why she won't give you head as frequently OR you should have stopped sweating her about it and not even get passive aggressive about it. Then let her imagination run on the fact that you went from wanting it to not caring on the drop of a dime for no apparent reason. The feeling of not satisfying you mixed with your unusual reaction would make her more insecure and attracted to you. Right now she knows that she OWNS you on that front. Back then she didn't swallow. Now she barely gives head. You know what's next right?

Now you're in a weird position cause if you don't get head from the other chick you look even more p*ssy whipped. And your situation is even more complicated cause your girl is pregnant. If I was you, i still wouldn't do it but I'd have a serious talk with her about it with no ultimatums. But I'd tell her straight up that you're unsatisfied in the bedroom and what you'd like from her. Don't back down to ANY excuse and ask her how she feels about the fact that you're unsatisfied. Almost the same talk you had except without mentioning the other female friend (you might have blown it already though with that shyt). If she doesn't plan on doing anything and doesn't care that you're unsatisfied, either downgrade your relationship from exclusive to open OR break up with her (always be ready to lose a girl). I never recommend cheating behind someone's back because it's too much stress.

Then again, if she gave you the greenlight...

 

[Turbulent]

She almost certainly cheated on you... Not giving bj's and being nonchalant about you cheating says a lot

Get that kid DNA tested

Lol. No woman is ok with their man doing some funny shyt, especially a pregnant one. That seed probably isn't yours, she's cheating on you, or she's trapping you.

Don't do it.

That too...

definitely get a DNA test and don't let her shame you into not getting one. Something fishy about all of this...