Should I take my girl up on BJ offer...

[TRUEST]

this n1gga cant be serious.

first and foremost, make sure that kid is urs. second of all, any chick who is ok with her man getting a BJ from another girl aint really into the guy to begin with.

and yeah, u've been with her for 2 years and yall live together. that dont mean she aint out there fuccking around on u. some chicks will tell n1ggas right off the bat "hey listen i got a man who i live with. so dont be blowing up my phone".

so that way u wont know what the fucck is goinz on. if u really cared abotu this girl, u coulda just gotten a blowjob somewhere else. i personally dont like to make chicks do sh1t they aint already eager to do.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

her being cool with you cheating is something you should be concern about. If i was you i wouldnt do it though cause she gone use it against you later on and if she cheat best believe thats gone be use as a excuse.but just cus she dont swallow dont mean she cheating. awhile back i was reading that if u eat unhealthy alot that your nut will taste bitter so yo shyt might be nasty lol.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

this n1gga cant be serious.

first and foremost, make sure that kid is urs. second of all, any chick who is ok with her man getting a BJ from another girl aint really into the guy to begin with.

and yeah, u've been with her for 2 years and yall live together. that dont mean she aint out there fuccking around on u. some chicks will tell n1ggas right off the bat "hey listen i got a man who i live with. so dont be blowing up my phone".

so that way u wont know what the fucck is goinz on. if u really cared abotu this girl, u coulda just gotten a blowjob somewhere else. i personally dont like to make chicks do sh1t they aint already eager to do.

i feel u on what u just said i learned the hard way

 

[Brandon M.]

got damn bro, where are ur friends??? u share that broad. got damn , while u was typing that up she was swallowing somebodys sunday brunch

 

[ChuckDaddy]

You played your cards wrong by bringing up to other chick too...

I didn't the bring the other chick up. She brought her up. I just threw that comment out there bc she was grilling me about the other chick.

And it's not like I'm constantly on her about getting bjs/swallowing. We don't really talk about it that often. It's just that when the subject does come up, I let her know how I feel.

I feel you on the rest of the advice though.

Also, I feel like yall have the wrong impression of her reaction. She wasn't nonchalant about it, she just wasn't super pissed off like I thought she would be. She was more sad/dejected about it. Instead of yelling or getting angry, she was near tears and said that I was making her feel like she was ruining my life and that she was the cause of me being unhappy and she doesn't want to bear that burden. So she said if I absolutely need that to be happy, although she wouldn't like it, she would understand. I just took it as a guilt trip at first, but now I'm not sure what to think about it.

And as for me sharing her, it would be really difficult for her to do in our situation. I'm not saying it's impossible, but I really don't think that's the case.

 

[bigmac]

I been with my girl for almost 3 years now. She's cool and everything has been good except for one area. For the first 6 months to a year, she used to give blowjobs pretty regularly, although she would never swallow (I always had to finish on her titties or ass or somewhere). Ever since then, though, the BJ rate has been been on a worse decline than 50's career. Right now, I'd be lucky to get one every other month, if that, and I basically gotta talk her into it. I tell her all the time how fukked up that is and I've been trying to get her to swallow since the start of our relationship. Her response was that she will have to work up to that and that it will eventually happen "one day."

So anyway, last night she was questioning me about hanging out with a female friend that she knows I used to mess with before her. I didn't do anything with this friend last night, but just to piss off my girl I made a comment along the lines of "Well, if I can't get what I like here, of course I'm gonna try to find it somewhere else." Only problem is that didn't really piss her off. She seemed kinda sad/deflated, but was like "I understand if that's what you have to do." I told her I didn't really do anything, but asked her if she would really be ok with me getting head from somebody else, and she said that it wouldn't make her happy but she would understand and would accept it as long as I wasn't fukking them.

So men and women of the coli, what should I do? Would it be a good idea to take her up on this opening? It'd be cool to hear from ladies on this too.

Some background before the "you share that girl" comments: we've been living together for 2 years and I'm pretty sure she aint doing no dirt. And like I said before, everything is cool except for her bj hangups. And she's like 3 months pregnant right now, so I don't wanna throw her (and my seed) in the bushes.

 

[OH SOHH TRILL]

Her side nikka is a cat like me. I always tell committed chicks I fukk with that she has to have something she does for me she wont do for her man sounds like he told her not to blow you.

 

[OH SOHH TRILL]

Also look into your state's late term abortion laws. ASAP

 

[Dr.seuss Swag]

The part you messed up on is that u asked to cum in her mouth...a woman majority of the time is gonna say no...so next time you get that bj just bust in her mouth with no warning at all

 

[Monoblock]

 

[AllHolosEve]

she's cheating on you, or she's trapping you.
Don't do it.

th!s !s the truth.... bloodtest asap rocky.....

 

[Action Jackson]

Honestly, you can never be so sure she isn't cheating but you know your situation better than us. I think first thing you need to do is clear the air with her if you haven't already. I'd make sure she knew nothing happened between you and that other chic. You don't need an insecure pregnant bytch. You're creating a monster.

You shouldn't take her up on her "offer". I think you should reassure her that you won't be doing it. Thats all she was looking for when she said it. There's no need to be making her stress with all this while she's pregnant but I would have a talk with her about it. Tell her you've been thinking a lot about your conversation on the blow jobs and shyt and that you shouldn't have to go outside of your relationship to be happy with your relationship. That shyt just don't make any damn sense. Its about compromise and you two are about to have a baby, you need to work this minor shyt out now or that kids going to grow up with separated parents.

 

[BlvdBrawler]

Assuming this is a real question, and assuming the fidelity is intact on both sides...

You're really willing to break the sanctity of your relationship over some chick swallowing vs. spitting? Damn you're lame. C'mon man this can't be a real question.

Read that back to yourself. You're asking for approval to cheat on your pregnant girlfriend, because she doesn't wanna swallow your cum. You even said that "everything else is fine." So, you've got a good woman, and that woman is pregnant with your child, and you're willing to destroy all of that, so you can have some nameless random broad to swallow your load.

The internet porn generation, ladies and gentlemen.

 

[606onit]

You share that baby.

 

[kash10003]

breh you share that girl or you caught your girl at a bad time when she was gonna say shyt randomly


but anyway, i didn't even know there were women who wouldn't swallow post high school/college, yall need to find yourselves some becky's brehs