Should the fatherless blame their Mom for not being wise enough to choose a solid Man?

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And are you ok?
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To be so disconnected from reality and/or so foreign to the concept of looking at a woman as a human being that you don't even know how many months a child is in the womb is some disheartening shyt.

My God, these brehs really out here being raised by wolves, serial killers and perpetual wife beaters. shyt is maddening.
 

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So blame the parent that actually stuck around?

This is such a cop out, IMO. I will never understand how people think it's in the best interest of the child to birth them for parents that do not want them. That is years & decades of emotional turmoil that the child has to reconcile. How is that fair to the kid???

That being said, women are 50% responsible for the father's absence b/c they chose that father for their child. I would feel like I failed my future kid if his father was a deadbeat. I don't understand how women absolve themselves of this responsibility.
 

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Hoez make life better. :yeshrug: I'm not nutting in them and getting them pregnant clown.



what that go to do with this thread? :what: I don't have no kids.
I'm calling out your bullshyt.

You just made a thread declaring that loyalty and honor are so ingrained in your bloodline that your pops would send you to the guillotine if you forgot to take the popcorn out of the microwave before it got too cold.

You said you'd drop your current girl into a volcano if she was texting another nikka.

Yet, you're in here showing your disloyalty to her by claiming the "hoez" are making your life good.

shyt ain't adding up. Why haven't you disemboweled yourself on some samurai shyt for cheating? :skip:

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I see a lot of Fatherless people blame everyone in world for their issues except themselves and their mom. Is it time for the fatherless to ask their Mom why she couldn't keep a decent man around? Why the TV, Rappers and the streets had to raise them?


@KTP Had to watch man after man going to the backroom with his mom. He never learned how to ride a bike. Sits on the toilet to piss. Dude is all fukked up. And is mad at anyone with a father.

All this would be fine and dandy if the moms dated dude that had "Im gonna be a deadbeat and run off after I skeet in you" tattooed on their forehead :yeshrug:
 

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I'm calling out your bullshyt.

You just made a thread declaring that loyalty and honor are so ingrained in your bloodline that your pops would send you to the guillotine if you forgot to take the popcorn out of the microwave before it got too cold.

You said you'd drop your current girl into a volcano if she was texting another nikka.

Yet, you're in here showing your disloyalty to her by claiming the "hoez" are making your life good.

shyt ain't adding up. Why haven't you disemboweled yourself on some samurai shyt for cheating? :skip:

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You're trying to somehow expose me, but you sound like a complete idiot.
 

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This is such a cop out, IMO. I will never understand how people think it's in the best interest of the child to birth them for parents that do not want them. That is years & decades of emotional turmoil that the child has to reconcile. How is that fair to the kid???

That being said, women are 50% responsible for the father's absence b/c they chose that father for their child. I would feel like I failed my future kid if his father was a deadbeat. I don't understand how women absolve themselves of this responsibility.


I'd say way more than 50% we all know when we're chasing someone or when a person really want to be with us. These women are gambling on guys they really know aint fukking with them and/or not capable of being a decent man let alone a good father.

It times to stop sugarcoating and give women passes. This shyt is killing our community.
 

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Its both the parents fault. Obviously there are cases where the guy played nice and left once the women got pregnant( in which case hes 100% to blame) but in most cases in real life, the woman knew the man wasnt shyt and still got with him. But most women will never hold accountability for their actions and will just blame everyone else for their fukk ups:yeshrug:.
 

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I'd say way more than 50% we all know when we're chasing someone or when a person really want to be with us. These women are gambling on guys they really know aint fukking with them and/or not capable of being a decent man let alone a good father.

It times to stop sugarcoating and give women passes. This shyt is killing our community.

I'm gonna keep it to 50%...60% at best. Because a lot of these women have low self esteem & very loose boundaries for men b/c they didn't have a father in their life either.

It just becomes a chicken/egg cycle at a certain point.
 

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This is such a cop out, IMO. I will never understand how people think it's in the best interest of the child to birth them for parents that do not want them. That is years & decades of emotional turmoil that the child has to reconcile. How is that fair to the kid???

That being said, women are 50% responsible for the father's absence b/c they chose that father for their child. I would feel like I failed my future kid if his father was a deadbeat. I don't understand how women absolve themselves of this responsibility.

I never said women didn’t have any blame in a situation but to be mad at the person that stepped up to the plate to actually take care of their responsibilities while seemingly absolving the man since he wasn’t shyt anyway is mind boggling. I’ve seen plenty ain’t shyt men step up to take care of a child. We know how children are created. If you don’t want the potential to conceive a child then don’t have sex. Period.
 

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I'm gonna keep it to 50%...60% at best. Because a lot of these women have low self esteem & very loose boundaries for men b/c they didn't have a father in their life either.

It just becomes a chicken/egg cycle at a certain point.

So low self-esteem allot them a pass on letting sorry men nut in them?


You think 40% of all woman can't tell a solid man from a bum?
 
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