Should the fatherless blame their Mom for not being wise enough to choose a solid Man?

[Stuntone]

I never said women didn’t have any blame in a situation but to be mad at the person that stepped up to the plate to actually take care of their responsibilities while seemingly absolving the man since he wasn’t shyt anyway is mind boggling. I’ve seen plenty ain’t shyt men step up to take care of a child. We know how children are created. If you don’t want the potential to conceive a child then don’t have sex. Period.

Women need to stop gambling and hoping a shaky man is going to turn in Dr. Huxtable once the kid comes.

 

[DPresidential]

So low self-esteem allot them a pass on letting sorry men nut in them?


You think 40% of all woman can't tell a solid man from a bum?

Where are yall pulling these statistics and percentages from.

Y'all are really out here with Professor sports jackets on talking about "57% of single women with children..."

What kind of clown shyt...

 

[southern.girl]

I never said women didn’t have any blame in a situation but to be mad at the person that stepped up to the plate to actually take care of their responsibilities while seemingly absolving the man since he wasn’t shyt anyway is mind boggling. I’ve seen plenty ain’t shyt men step up to take care of a child. We know how children are created. If you don’t want the potential to conceive a child then don’t have sex. Period.

I never absolved the men of their responsibilities. But I'm also not giving brownie points based on women mothering a child that they chose to have. There is no extra credit for basic requirements being fulfilled.

 

[OliviaTwist]

Women need to stop gambling and hoping a shaky man is going to turn in Dr. Huxtable once the kid comes.

Men need to stop spreading semen in random women and getting upset or leaving when she gets pregnant

 

[InfinateOpulance]

I'm gonna keep it to 50%...60% at best. Because a lot of these women have low self esteem & very loose boundaries for men b/c they didn't have a father in their life either.

It just becomes a chicken/egg cycle at a certain point.

The same men who blame the woman for getting pregnant are the same men who purposely seek out low self esteem no father around type of females just to get easy sex from them. I've seen guys right here in the locker room brag on taking advantage of damaged women.

 

[Stuntone]

Folks really in here giving dude's passes for running out on their kids

Absolutely NOT!

But you give a known crook/crackhead the keys to your house and they rob you. Should the homeowner take some responsibilty?

 

[KodeBlue]

So then he shouldn’t have been having sex since we all know where babies come from.

Right, so if the father doesn't stick around, the blame falls on the mother. She got what she wanted, she didn't care if the kid has a father.

 

[Stuntone]

The same men who blame the woman for getting pregnant are the same men who purposely seek out low self esteem no father around type of females just to get easy sex from them. I've seen guys right here in the locker room brag on taking advantage of damaged women.

True. personally if I was to get any woman pregnant, i'm going to take care of that kids. Women i date know this. They should know the types that don't.

 

[75 Others]

Absolutely NOT!

But you give a known crook/crackhead the keys to your house and they rob you. Should the homeowner take some responsibilty?

Terrible analogy, because the dude up front didnt tell the girl he's not about shyt.

Show me ONE case where a dude up front told a chick he ain't shyt and he's gonna run off, and shorty still let him skeet in her.

You are really painting this false reality that dudes are wearing it on their sleeves they are deabeats and chicks still getting pregnant by them.

It's no different than dudes just saying "i love you" to get the p*ssy and the running off and not calling them anymore. Is it the woman's fault or the man's fault?? but to yall the chick needs to do a full damn FBI security clearance on dude, whereas dude can up front tell him his intentions

 

[Thingsfallapart]

The Coli trying excuse nikkas for running out on their responsibilities? Shocking.



And this board claims to be pro-black.

 

[chowism]

bytch please.

At the end of the day, sperm to a man is just a nut. Do you understand this? I nut on toilet paper and flush it down the toilet.

Women carry the baby in their womb for 8 fukkING MONTHS. Do you still think the responsibility should be equal?

Miss me with that bs. Stop trying to equate men and women. We have different responsibilities, and choosing the right partner to carry a baby in your womb for 8 fukkING MONTHS is clearly the woman's responsibility.

Deal with it

 

[OliviaTwist]

Right, so if the father doesn't stick around, the blame falls on the mother. She got what she wanted, she didn't care if the kid has a father.

What? No. It’s his fault also since he knew what he was doing could create a child. Like I said the actual person that stayed and raised the baby THEY created is getting the heat which is weird as hell.

 

[GhettoTeK]

Excellent question. I'm tired of these single mom brehtherens blaming me for my mom's better choice in men

 

[Thingsfallapart]

And anyway, people shyt on single mothers all the time. But the reason that they don’t get the level of scorn as absentee fathers is because, while they made a mistake, they owned up and are paying for that mistake every fukking day by raising a child alone.

When does a deadbeat father own up and pay for his part of the mistake? When does he take responsibility? Never.

That’s the difference.

 

[InfinateOpulance]

The Coli trying excuse nikkas for running out on their responsibilities? Shocking.



And this board claims to be pro-black.

At one point in time maybe this board was pro black, but not anymore.

I'm fully convinced this site is being infiltrated by white supremacists.

I don't believe mentally and emotionally stable black men think it's ok to abandon their kids.