Should you smash on the first date? Yes or no

[mag357]

so do you think turning her down if she is willing to fukk the first nite will eventually make her a respectable woman bcuz you waited?

I’m seriously asking...not putting words in your mouth

THIS

 

[Cat piss martini]

I say get sex out of the way asap.
people are faking pre-sex.
after sex you get a better understanding
of who a person is.
if somebody want's you......fukkin on the 1st day
or six months later is gonna be the same.
they are gonna fukk and flee or stick around.
adults shouldnt be bothered by such sillyness.
and for the record....the closest women that
i've ever dealt with gave me the p*ssy on the 1st night.

 

[shopthatwrecks]

We grown...

If it happens it happens

i layed in a hoe hair plenty of times.

fukk what that waffle colored nikka tombout

 

[mag357]

If she gonna let u hit 1st nite...
And that's all u want from shorty...
fukk it. Ain't no issue... just do it.

One thing is... chix be on some they dont want to do it 1st bite or whatever... but they ain't never had a problem doing it before u came along.

So I dnt be tryna hear that shyt.

fukk her 1st nite of she wants to.
Dont wife her

If she doesn't want to have sex for awhile, cool... she might be a keeper.
But as yall talking... check her track record
You dont wanna be paying for dates and getting no sex... while other nikkaz was tearing her guts out 1st nite

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Hell no. Any dude trying that dumb shyt can get gone quick.

I don’t know you. And aint shyt some idiot can say to make me okay with it.
“Oh u gon be alone.” So?! Gtfoh

“Oh u a prude.” Because I don’t want ur strange dikk in me?! Gtfoh

“U will do it for another nikka!” And?! What I do after or before you ain’t yo business. Gtfoh

“But I paid for dinner?” So? I didn’t ask u tooGTFOH

To each his own but I’ve never been finessable. I ain’t wit it, I ain’t wit it.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

at all these mental gymnastics

I aint never taking any girl serious until I go up in them guts and see what I really have to put up with in the bedroom if I ever choose to cuff. I gotta sample the package before I buy.

Imagine taking a girl serious, waiting then later realizing the sex is a 3/10

 

[Jerz]

All the girls I've dated the longest - gave it up the 1st night or the 2nd. I love my women blunt and straightforward

 

[ChatGPT-5]

It just dawned on me that all of my long term relationships.....I didn't smash on the first date, it took like 3. EXCEPT the one I'm in now.


and that in itself was a rollercoaster because I found out she was smashing some other dude the week after (I smashed someone too), then when we both exposed it, we got mad and realised we liked each other. weird times eh.

 

[skylove4]

Of course as a man you owe it to yourself to try Just because she don’t fukk you on the first night doesn’t mean she’s pure and not out there, she might not just wanna fukk you If she’s digging you enough she will fukk you quick and that doesn’t have any bearing on her character, she could end up you wife Grow up gentlemen

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

I didn't watch the video but if you are trying to build something then I say no.

This...if you know off jump you’re not interested in the person for anything substantial, then do what you want. But if you’re interested in seeing where things go, don’t smash

 

[skylove4]

You sound stupid if you fukk on the 1st night you not wifing that broad unless you a idiot

 

[blockburna420]

Hate to sound sleezy but tease me
I don't want it if its thats easy

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Whatever happens happens


I've had titty nipples in my mouth the first night....and other times I didn't even get a hand hold

 

[ItzRailT]

If she want to give it up by no means I'm not denying but to be honest it's a to each it's own decision on that one.

 

[richaveli83]

If it happens cool but it's not something that's a must have. I'm a coli breh so I wouldn't know about these things.