Should your S/O have access to your phone/social media accounts

[ComputersPutin]

nah i never actually "asked" him for his info...sometimes my battery will die on my phone\laptop and i'll need to use his for a sec or something. his e-mail i have and that's cause he uses the same password for everything. but i never check his e-mail....hell i hate even checking my own damn e-mail.

You should be telling him to change his password to something more secure for different things for his own security.


But you not gonna do that tho

 

[Jplaya2023]

I wouldn't nor would i ask for her. Just because you're in a relationship/married, doesn't mean you should lose all your privacy. Some stuff people want to take to the grave. Nothing wrong with that. Someone's life shouldn't be an open book accessible to a few simple key strokes supplied with a user name

 

[Loose]

Nope, I dont touch her stuff, she dont touch mines, if she cant deal with that PEACE

 

[MeachTheMonster]

I wouldn't nor would i ask for her. Just because you're in a relationship/married, doesn't mean you should lose all your privacy. Some stuff people want to take to the grave. Nothing wrong with that. Someone's life shouldn't be an open book accessible to a few simple key strokes supplied with a user name

Which is why you shouldn't be keeping "take to the grave with you" secrets on Facebook anyway. This is SOCIAL media, if you have a problem with your S/O knowing about your social life then you shouldn't be in the relationship.

 

[DallasTxRep]

I know WAY too many married men & women who's phones require passwords to unlock and use. I just don't get it....

 

[Anothergirl]

I know WAY too many married men & women who's phones require passwords to unlock and use. I just don't get it....

anyone who doesn't have a password lock on their phone married or not in this day and age is an idiot. if your phone is lost or stolen there goes all your personal info..accounts..email....pictures ....to a complete stranger.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

I wouldn't nor would i ask for her. Just because you're in a relationship/married, doesn't mean you should lose all your privacy. Some stuff people want to take to the grave. Nothing wrong with that. Someone's life shouldn't be an open book accessible to a few simple key strokes supplied with a user name

One of the GOAT posts in internet history

 

[Jplaya2023]

Which is why you shouldn't be keeping "take to the grave with you" secrets on Facebook anyway. This is SOCIAL media, if you have a problem with your S/O knowing about your social life then you shouldn't be in the relationship.

I understand but say for instance a site like facebook, you can't delete messages they go into an archive still accessible to you at any time. So say your old lady has your login, finds these messages you have (Ever if you had them before ya'll met) and she reads some of the things you or someone else use to do, it just brings up questions that shouldn't be asked or answered.

Just let the past stay in the past and stay in your closet. No need to get into arguments over what you told Melissa in 06 you would do to her if she was there right now

 

[MeachTheMonster]

I understand but say for instance a site like facebook, you can't delete messages they go into an archive still accessible to you at any time. So say your old lady has your login, finds these messages you have (Ever if you had them before ya'll met) and she reads some of the things you or someone else use to do, it just brings up questions that shouldn't be asked or answered.

Just let the past stay in the past and stay in your closet. No need to get into arguments over what you told Melissa in 06 you would do to her if she was there right now

Like i said before, if your girl would go snooping through your account looking for shyt from your past to be mad about, your relationship already has problems and your Facebook password should be the least of your worries.

Also, if she can't accept/respect your past then you should probably throw her in the bushes anyway

 

[ComputersPutin]

Like i said before, if your girl would go snooping through your account looking for shyt from your past to be mad about, your relationship already has problems and your Facebook password should be the least of your worries.

What good comes from have a password to a social site? What else can they gone on there and look at..but you socializing?

Email is different since you use your email for a variety of things.

 

[Anothergirl]

Like i said before, if your girl would go snooping through your account looking for shyt from your past to be mad about, your relationship already has problems and your Facebook password should be the least of your worries.

Also, if she can't accept/respect your past then you should probably throw her in the bushes anyway

word. i'm thinking his realtionship already lauce if he picking the type of chicks that would get pissed about something he said before she even MET YOU.

 

[Jplaya2023]

word. i'm thinking his realtionship already lauce if he picking the type of chicks that would get pissed about something he said before she even MET YOU.

You know how ya'll are (the female species)

 

[Cool Dr. Money]

anyone who doesn't have a password lock on their phone married or not in this day and age is an idiot. if your phone is lost or stolen there goes all your personal info..accounts..email....pictures ....to a complete stranger.

and in this day & age people love to put somebody on blast

 

[MeachTheMonster]

What good comes from have a password to a social site? What else can they gone on there and look at..but you socializing?

Email is different since you use your email for a variety of things.

There might be limited reasons as to why she would need look at your account. For example I logged in to my wife's account to contact a mutual friend who wasn't on my friends list.

 

[Dirk Diggler]

I'm married and I have nothing to hide, so I have no problem with my wife having my phone and/or Facebook passwords. I honestly don't think she checks them very often, if ever, but she can if she wants to.

I think people who are still hiding their passwords are not very serious about the relationship, otherwise it wouldn't matter.

Thoughts?

If its on the internet may as well... Now email is a different story