Side chicks are side chicks for a reason.

[TransJenner]

I could never have a side chick that's fukked up


This girl at worked straight up asked me if I would cheat on my girl

Like bytch I know what you're doing

 

[Taadow]

This is false.

Most side chicks are side chicks because a n!gga already has a wifey, not because "the side chick isn't good enough to BE a wifey".

Hell, these days most side chicks ARE some other n!gga's wifey anyway.

And ironically, more often than not, the n!gga that she's creeping with is her 'side n!gga'..and not because "he isn't good enough to be a main n!gga", but because she already has one.

Take it from a n!gga who's dealt with hella 'side' b!tches breh

This is the real truth.
Close thread.

 

[InDePickWest]

Lol@ we back on the biological imperative excuse
"It's just biology, can't be helped"

I will await you brothers presence in threads about women wanting taller men or richer men (better providers) or men "out of their league" or passing babies off as belonging to the more stable man.

Those 2 are just biological imperative.

It's human nature.

Ya can't change it.

Let's all embrace it for men and women

Now you know women wanting the richest, most stable man means she's a gold-digger and doesn't want to build. But a man wanting the finest young thing walking means he's just a guy following his design.

Why you arguing with these males?

 

[intruder]

They JUST ain't good enough to be promoted to official girlfriend status. Maybe their past, childhood, family, bad influence, etc caused this, it's not your business and you should not care. Accept the reality as it is and enjoy them for what they can bring to your life, even if it is strictly limited to sex.

And it's not the man's business to make sure the sidepieces learn how to get out of sidechick status(the female friendzone version, lets be real)

Enjoy them for what they are worth, and keep it moving.

Chill, breh

You often hear about wifey materia. Almost every chick is wifey material. WHO'S wifey is the question. Different dudes have different standards they go by in making someone their wives.

Same for sidechicks. Side chick material for one dude may be wife material for another and may not even be worth even looking at for a 3rd dude.

I have chicks i'd wife in a heartbeat that some dudes would look at like meh... I also have jumpoffs that i just fukk and skeet all over that some of my friends be like "breh, wife that"

 

[Bless't]

Side chicks are known to borrow pants from brehs at the gym.

 

[GhettoTeK]

Side chicks is like side dishes. You have meat and veggies as your main meal everyday, but you need a side dish in order to spice it up. Variety provides excitement. Meat and veggies are good, wholesome, they keep you full, healthy and grounded, but pasta, rice, plantains, a serving of fries here and there is welcomed just to broke up the routine pattern. Side dishes are culinary escapades, like real-life escapades, variety is the reward.

would you mind being the side dish?

 

[wickedsm]

To have the type of sex you REALLY wanna have. Most guys don't wanna do really kinky shyt with they girlfriend and/or wife.

Do you think the madonna/wore complex is that prevalent?

What kind of kinky shyt (outside of children animals and body waste) is too much to do with your serious partner who you love and trust?

*not a dig at you, I'm interested in your opinion on this

 

[Kokoro]

low self esteem and other insecurities are the root causes imo.

 

[Shiva]

Op's sig

People can be spiritual and still enjoy the sexual pleasures of this world, as long as they don't let it consume them. In fact, with the proper mindset, sex can be used to elevate spirituality. I.E., sex magick, tantra, and so on. A lot of people do it subconsciously.

When people are really spiritual and open their third eye, they see through people. Sex and even love require energy transfers, so why would a true seeker allow their energy to be taken by the selfish and two-faced? He's just saying that people can have sex without necessarily falling in love, especially when falling in love with the other person would probably be dangerous, and lead to that individual's destruction. A lotta women out here acting like predators and playing innocent, when they know that they're quite literally snatching souls like succubi.

Feminism is a great idea as far as the fundamentals go, but it's caused a lot of women to delude themselves into thinking that they should have no accountability for the emotions of other people, which is false.

Oh, but I do agree that OP shouldn't have deleted his sig. To quote Jay Elec, "Never throw a stone and hide your hand."

Personally, I believe in monogamy. But I'm not going to tell other people what they can and can't do, I just speak on what I know.

 

[DarkHorse23]

Do you think the madonna/wore complex is that prevalent?

What kind of kinky shyt (outside of children animals and body waste) is too much to do with your serious partner who you love and trust?

*not a dig at you, I'm interested in your opinion on this

You brought up something(madonna/whore complex) i was going touch on but decided not too. To answer your question yes i think it's very prevalent.

I don't know "what's too much" it probably depends on the man.

 

[Gold]

I see side chicks get promoted to main chick all the and vice versa but this thread is already cooking so i'll just watch

 

[wickedsm]

You brought up something(madonna/whore complex) i was going touch on but decided not too. To answer your question yes i think it's very prevalent.

I don't know "what's too much" it probably depends on the man.

Okay, thanks for responding.

This is another reason why I feel being equally yoked sexually is very important in a relationship.

Not because " if I won't do it someone else will" but because we love and trust each other we should be able to explore/I know this is something that my partner really enjoys or would like to try

(Reasonable requests and expectations again)

 

[Gold]

Okay, thanks for responding.

This is another reason why I feel being equally yoked sexually is very important in a relationship.

Not because " if I won't do it someone else will" but because we love and trust each other we should be able to explore/I know this is something that my partner really enjoys or would like to try

(Reasonable requests and expectations again)

Just curious, did you know both of your husbands' body counts pre-marriage and vice versa?

 

[ZoeGod]

What's the point of a side chick is the real question here

To have fun and keep a roster of women so if one relationship fails you have a back up plan. That is all.

 

[wickedsm]

Just curious, did you know both of your husbands' body counts pre-marriage and vice versa?

I knew the general range(high). Neither were choirboys.
Both had really positive healthy attitudes toward sex also. Jmo but I belueve the two are linked.