Side chicks are side chicks for a reason.

[Gold]

I knew the general range(high). Neither were choirboys.
Both had really positive healthy attitudes toward sex also. Jmo but I belueve the two are linked.

Agreed. Brehs talk up virgins and women with low body counts all the time but I wonder how many of them actually date these women?

Their views on sex are almost always either very negative, or rooted in fantasy.

 

[Gold]

What's the point of a side chick is the real question here

You know the answer to that

 

[wickedsm]

Agreed. Brehs talk up virgins and women with low body counts all the time but I wonder how many of them actually date these women?

Their views on sex are almost always either very negative, or rooted in fantasy.

Exactly. Tried to rep but couldnt.
I often read things on here that leave me
, I generally do just chalk it up to youth or inexperience or both.

 

[Wild self]

To have fun and keep a roster of women so if one relationship fails you have a back up plan. That is all.

Yep. Don't put your eggs in one basket, cause if you single with dry dikk, no one would hook up with you.

 

[Ashley Banks]

I see side chicks get promoted to main chick all the and vice versa but this thread is already cooking so i'll just watch

Exactly, side chicks get wifed everyday. lmfao

but this is the coli and everything is one way.

 

[StickStickly]

Okay, thanks for responding.

This is another reason why I feel being equally yoked sexually is very important in a relationship.

Not because " if I won't do it someone else will" but because we love and trust each other we should be able to explore/I know this is something that my partner really enjoys or would like to try

(Reasonable requests and expectations again)

whenever i hear a male say this i think he simply is putting an excuse on the fact that he just wants a different girl. men will say they want to do anal ,oral, role play, beds, but honestly i cant imagine all they're having is vanilla sex at home and they can only get this from a side girl. they really just want it to be a different mouth or someone who is ready and willing when they want.

 

[StickStickly]

To have the type of sex you REALLY wanna have. Most guys don't wanna do really kinky shyt with they girlfriend and/or wife.

I've heard older people who grew up religious say this, but not the younger millennial crowd. the exceptions i can think of are men who like something their girlfriends refuse to do and vice versa.

 

[Gold]

whenever i hear a male say this i think he simply is putting an excuse on the fact that he just wants a different girl. men will say they want to do anal ,oral, role play, beds, but honestly i cant imagine all they're having is vanilla sex at home and they can only get this from a side girl. they really just want it to be a different mouth or someone who is ready and willing when they want.

While I agree its its usually the latter, it can also be both.

There are plenty of very good, amazing women out there that simply don't know how to be sexy or are just not very sexual. This points back to @wickedsm's point about being equally yoked sexually.

While I will never use sexual frustration as an excuse for cheating, I would be remiss to not point out the role it plays in the decision making of many men.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Some women simply just choose to be side chicks....

Some dikk and a day out the week all they want

Not always cause he not upgrading her

 

[Entropy Fan]

Lol@ we back on the biological imperative excuse
"It's just biology, can't be helped"

I will await you brothers presence in threads about women wanting taller men or richer men (better providers) or men "out of their league" or passing babies off as belonging to the more stable man.

Those 2 are just biological imperative.

It's human nature.

Ya can't change it.

Let's all embrace it for men and women

Hows the bolded biology?? Cuz the stable breh is a better provider/father? If biology is only about benefit You might as well say rape is a biological imperative because it's the easiest way to spread your seed.

And wanting men out of your league rarely works out long term since the man will never value the lesser woman

 

[Entropy Fan]

You talk about biology but women cheat as much as men according to some studies.

So does that say it's biologically imperative for women to have at least two partners as well?

Lol. That's easiest way to have kids no one wants to claim. Promiscuous women create too much doubt, it's why whores are universally looked down on across cultures. Keep trying to mimic men tho

 

[wickedsm]

Hows the bolded biology?? You might as well say rape is a biological imperative because it's the easiest way to spread your seed.

And wanting men out of your league rarely works out long term since the man will never value the lesser woman

We are just as biologically programed to want the strongest best provider for our children as y'all are to want to (fukk and) make children.

There's a gang of things that we as humans don't do because of societal norms.

So it's perfectly reasonable for men to say biologically you're driven to want numerous partners. When you act on it by cheating is the issue.

It's really tired bullshyt that gets thrown out that 99% of men don't really believe or they would live it.

You just can't help yourself? It's just biology? Fine, stay single and sling all the dikk you want OR be honest and find someone who accepts your biology bears all logic.

 

[Entropy Fan]

We are just as biologically programed to want the strongest best provider for our children as y'all are to want to (fukk and) make children.

There's a gang of things that we as humans don't do because of societal norms.

So it's perfectly reasonable for men to say biologically you're driven to want numerous partners. When you act on it by cheating is the issue.

It's really tired bullshyt that gets thrown out that 99% of men don't really believe or they would live it.

You just can't help yourself? It's just biology? Fine, stay single and sling all the dikk you want OR be honest and find someone who accepts your biology bears all logic.

Common sense says finding the best provider and having his kid is how to get that stability. Tricking a man into false paternity risks leaving a woman with no provider,a brutal fate. So I don't think lying about paternity is biology.

And men have historically had multiple women. It's been the norm more then monogamy. Has nothing to do with weak will or lack of dicpline. Your old enough to know that.

You are underestimating how strong the biological imperative to breed is more males of any species. An imperative that exists to keep a species from going extinct. You can't socially condition that nature out of a man, it's too essential.

 

[wickedsm]

Common sense says finding the best provider and having his kid is how to get that stability. Tricking a man into false paternity risks leaving a woman with no provider,a brutal fate. So I don't think lying about paternity is biology.

And men have historically had multiple women. It's been the norm more then monogamy. Has nothing to do with weak will or lack of dicpline. Your old enough to know that.

You are underestimating how strong the biological imperative to breed is more males of any species. An imperative that exists to keep a species from going extinct.

Okay.

 

[Entropy Fan]

Okay.

I stated facts not opinion. Every male mammal has the same extremely strong drive to procreate. It's why men will get jobs and start businesses and do anything to get women who are of fertile age. Breeding and providing are the two base reasons for male existence.