signs a man has been raised by a single mom

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When am i getting this information? Before i give him my number? When he already has my number then i stop responding to his contact? When we're on our first date and i ask after we ordered the food?

:whoa: what ur status? I mean do you have a dad???? :rudy:
 

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Internalized hatred for women. Some not most.
You can't very well say you resent ur mother but u can shift that hatred to every woman you meet.

Some don't place a high premium on family and marriage.

Tend to think the baby mama model is okay. Doesn't connect his own deficits with the absence of his father and thus tends to perpetuate similar circumstances with women in his life. Will probably be a baby daddy himself.

Resentful of any type of authority.

May be a mama's boy.

Tends to shun accountability and runs from problems.

Could be stuck in perpetual adolescence.

This would be an interesting question to ask about blk women too?
 

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I was raised by a single mother and I think this whole "fatherless boys become fags" movement is bullshyt. All the dudes I see on here shaming single mothers don't get p*ssy so who are they to judge or have an opinion on women? Not having a father made me man up from a young age. I learned to be responsible early on cuz I was on my own. I still had positive male role models like Uncles, older cousins, neighborhood OG's who taught me what a real man is. You should be more concerned with signs your dating a broke boy, or a liar, or a downlow.

Same here. My mom made sure I had strong male role models around me, so that I saw how to handle being a leader and taking care of a family. But I had to learn faster and see things quicker than other kids because survival was imminent.

What's funny is some of the most fugasi n#ggas I've met IRL and on The Coli are from two parent households. Simply having a father in the house does not mean you had a strong male upbringing nor does it mean that you will somehow be more prepared for the world. I've seen both single-parent and two-parent kids shrink when manhood time comes.

I'll be the first to say that two-parent households should be the norm over single parent households. And I'll never co-sign single parenting as a viable option. However, coming from a two-parent household does not make you thorough off rip.

Peace
 

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First African American to become at partner at America's most prestigious law firm, Wachtell, was raised by a single mom in Chicago.

Oprah was raised by a single mom.

Black male CEO of McDonalds? Single mom.

Many NFL players and great men besides have been raised by single moms.

Dont even entire this bitter bytch with an answer to her bullshyt, man.
 

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Internalized hatred for women. Some not most.
You can't very well say you resent ur mother but u can shift that hatred to every woman you meet.

Some don't place a high premium on family and marriage.

Tend to think the baby mama model is okay. Doesn't connect his own deficits with the absence of his father and thus tends to perpetuate similar circumstances with women in his life. Will probably be a baby daddy himself.

Resentful of any type of authority.

May be a mama's boy.

Tends to shun accountability and runs from problems.

Could be stuck in perpetual adolescence.

This would be an interesting question to ask about blk women too?

:whoa: no


We wears maxi pads to protect his underwear from piss and shyt stains

:usure::sas1:


Dont even entire this bitter bytch with an answer to her bullshyt, man.

then you post in the thread :laugh: :umad:
bytch, what the fukk are you saying?
 

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I know this is the Coli so I'll take this thread with a grain of salt.

I think it's the quality of the parent more than anything. I'm single mom raised, went to college, full time job, working on my Masters (no Coli certs though :noah: ) etc.


You can have a single mom teach you the value of hard work, how to work through adversity, and how to rely on yourself :birdman:

Or

You can have both parents in the household and still have a broken home.

Telltale signs that he was raised by a BAD single mom are if he has a bad temper, feels entitled (spoiled..."mama's boy"), or has no ambition
 
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