signs a man has been raised by a single mom

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Since single moms are the lowest of the low, obviously their offspring would be too. If a man's father abandoned him, he may too abandon his kids

Give us ladies some telltale signs to stop this cycle
I dont know what to look for, or not look for

with all due respect, you need to get out more. to say 'Single moms are the lowest of the low' proves you've grown up in either a protected and sheltered home or you're just not very bright.

p.s. don't have kids no time soon.
 

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with all due respect, you need to get out more. to say 'Single moms are the lowest of the low' proves you've grown up in either a protected and sheltered home or you're just not very bright.

p.s. don't have kids no time soon.


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im not very bright, but i think this post may be ironic
 
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right these boys are lucky to have a strong male model guiding their lives(just think if they had a ratchet single mother raising them were would have went wrong):aicmon:

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Father and reputed patriarch of 110ers gang testifies against sons at trial




Antonio "Big Rico" Johnson, pausing frequently to wipe away tears, sat facing an Orleans Parish jury Thursday (Jan. 22) while telling them of how his son, stepson and two of their friends opened fire on a unsuspecting group of partygoers in Central City on May 29, 2012, killing a five-year-old girl and a 33-year-old woman.

The gunfire, meant for a group of rival gang members, struck and killed little Briana Allen, who was standing on the porch of a home in the 1200 block of Simon Bolivar Avenue, celebrating her 10-year-old cousin's birthday. Stray gunfire fatally wounded Shawanna Pierce, 33, who was struck in the forehead by a bullet blocks away, while driving to return a rental car in the Central Business District.

Johnson, shackled and dressed in black prison garb, sat opposite from his son Demond "Lil D" Sandifer and stepson Sam "Lil" Newman while telling jurors that the two men and their co-defendant Tyron "T-7" Harden were members of a violent 10th and 11th Ward street gang known as the 110ers.

Harden, 21, Newman, 19, and Sandifer, 19, are on trial this month facing charges of second-degree murder in the deaths of Allen and Pierce, along with a litany of other charges including conspiracy to engage in racketeering activity, conspiracy to discharge firearms during crimes of violence, armed robbery, weapons violations and multiple murders.

Another man, Stanton "Nan Nan" Guillory, also is accused in the double-murder, but is being tried separately from his co-defendants.

The group were named in a sprawling, 34-page racketeering indictment announced by Orleans Parish District Attorney Leon Cannizzaro's office a year after the murders.

The group is said to have been involved in a violent turf war with other gangs, including the Get Money Boyz from the 12th Ward and the Young Melph Mafia from the 3rd Ward, who prosecutors say were the intended targets on the evening Allen and Pierce lost their lives in the gun barrage.

While addressing the jury, Johnson sat trembling and weeping, after being asked to read from a letter he wrote to his sons after taking an eight-year plea deal in exchange for his testimony against his children.

"To my sons, who I'm going to love and miss so much. There's so much I want to say to the both of you," Johnson began.

Johnson continued reading the three-page letter that attorneys say was addressed to Newman, but references two other sons -- Sandifer and Rico "Max" Newman, who was also charged in the indictment.

Begging for his sons to take a plea deal, he asks them to not take their chances at trial, for which they are facing a mandatory life sentence if convicted on the murder charges.

"I know 25 to 30 years is long, but remember one thing, life is longer ... there's no coming back from that."

"There's no other way out for me...I took eight years so I can get back to my wife and my other kids because they need me," Johnson said.

Sam "Lil" Newman, Demond "Lil D" Sandifer and Tyron "T-7" Harden,who prosecutors allege are key players in the 110ers street gang, are facing charges of second-degree murder in furtherance of gang activity in the deaths of Briana Allen and Shawanna Pierce.Orleans Parish Sheriff's Office
While reading the letter, the courtroom was silent. Newman sat facing his stepfather, shaking his head while Sandifer remained stone-faced and emotionless, staring straight ahead while listening to his father weep.

"I had to do what I had to do to save myself...the three of you have to do the same. In this game it's every man for himself -- I think all of you know that already."

Johnson's testimony came at the end of the second week of what is expected to be a three-week trial before Orleans Parish Criminal District Court Judge Tracey Flemings-Davillier.

Jurors have already heard from an exhaustive number of convicted gang members, but Johnson has been the first family member charged in the indictment to testify against his kin.

In February 2014, Johnson pleaded guilty to charges of accessory after the fact to second-degree murder, accessory after the fact to attempted second-degree murder and racketeering. Johnson's sentence is among the shortest of his co-defendants.

Most of the 15 members charged in the indictment have since received plea deals attached to lengthy prison sentences, and many have already testified against the trio during the trial.

Attorneys for the three men have focused closely on the credibility of the witnesses paraded in front of jurors, and have hinted that many might have lied in an effort to secure a more favorable plea deal for themselves.

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In the past, prosecutors have painted Johnson as a type of patriarch in the gang, a father-type figure -- both biologically and metaphorically -- who would advise members on ways to elude prosecution, including admonishing them not so speak on jailhouse phone calls about the crimes they committed.

Throughout his testimony, Johnson repeatedly said he was not a member of the 110ers and refuted claims that the organization had a hierarchical structure, describing the group instead as an unruly bunch of teenagers who did "whatever they feel like they want to."

"I was not there, I'm not no 110er," Johnson said. "Every charge that I got that's on me today is because of my kids,"

"I'm mad at my children because whatever they did in life I shouldn't be punished for it," Johnson told the jurors.

This was not the first time Johnson testified against his son. In August, Johnson took the stand during a trial where Sandifer was convicted of murdering a 22-year-oldrival gang member.

In October, Newman was found guilty on the same charge in the slaying of 21-year-old Jonathan "Kruga" Lewis, who was shot to death on June 11, 2012.
 
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Honestly I don't believe there are any universal signs. Shytty parenting with no discipline can lead to fukked up kids, regardless if they came from a single parent or two parent household.

But then what do I know, I come from a two parent household :jawalrus::troll:
 

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then you post in the thread :laugh: :umad:
bytch, what the fukk are you saying?

Im saying that youre a bitter bytch that shouldnt be taken seriously.

Thought I was pretty clear when I said it. :yeshrug:
 

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He panders to you
He lets you drive him around
He reacts with emotions instead of logic
He is ok with dating single mothers.
 

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When am i getting this information? Before i give him my number? When he already has my number then i stop responding to his contact? When we're on our first date and i ask after we ordered the food?

Stay away from men who were solely raised by mama and nana unless its some legitimate "dad was killed by rebels before fleeing a war torn country, serving in the military, died when I was 2 in a car accident" type deal. If he wasnt around, there was for a reason. People grow up conflicted enough with two parents, let alone when one half of their identity is absentee and God forbid the if one remaining parent is was working 2 jobs, going to school, doing "me" during the developmental years. Life is too short to waste on other people's generational bullshyt.

If you dont see a nuclear family portrait at the crib, or a father-son throwback candid in his phone or IG Throwback Thursdays, kindly excuse yourself to the restroom and jump out of window to escape. Sure there are successful people peppered about but no successful families. It's no coincidence why the Rothschilds, Bushes, Windsors et.al own and control things for generations.
 

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:laugh: your father was absent wasnt he? aint shyt escalate. He's a c00n bytch with a single mom and anger issues, that either cant type, cant spell, or has english as a second language :manny:

And who keeps entering a "bitter bytch" threads :wtf:
 
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Depends on his relationship with said single mom.

If she was domineering, I think he'd be more fukked up, or gay.

Or he could've had a brother/sister relationship with his mom.Maybe his mom was more immature than he was? forcing him to be the leader/take on more of a father role(especially if he had younger siblings)?

I've seen situations like that before.Where the oldest/only boy is given the duty of filling the void his father left.He automatically becomes the "man of the house".The only thing about a dude like that, he might feel like most of his childhood was taken from him.He might be on some late bloomer shyt later in life.Once he's done with pseudo fatherhood, he might want to go out and live a lil bit.


And although he's used to being responsible/has a paternal instinct from years of helping his mother with parental duites, he lacks real life experience with women.He only knows how to be his mothers "good son".


Other women could play him easily because he imprints the feelings he has for his mother onto other women.Especially single moms...they could really play a dude like that because obviously, he'd already be accustomed to the single mother lifestyle.In fact, dudes like that normally go for single moms.There's a level of familiarity & comfortability there.

I think a dude like that has a lot of potential to be a good mate/father, but he might be too much of a "sweetheart" for women who like a "challenge".

If you're looking for a challenge, date the guy wo was raised by a single mother who spoiled him


shyt is more complex than it's made to be.You have to deal with everybody on an individual basis.Listen to their story-----don't just be like:usure: and flee once you hear him say "I was raised by a single mom"
 
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