Question- what would your expectations be financially for a stepmom? would you expect her to pay for your kids college, buy a car, etc. thats my biggest issue. The financial aspect. then christmas comes around. Why does one kid have more gifts than the other? just questioning all the time
I had no expectations when we got together. They are my kids so they are me and my BMs responsibility. ( I make good money, so I only have my BMs paying $150 each in child support because frankly they can barely take care of themselves..no diss they cool peoples )
My pops taught me that as a man, you should ALWAYS be able to provide for self, and if you have kids, be able to provide for them too. So with that mind frame, I never even thought about my fiance to cover anything as far as the kids and really don't want her to cause my kids are spoiled enough as it is. lol
BUT she still does, cause she looks at them as her own.
I love that woman...she is a much better human being than I am lol.
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about "I'm really over him this time" that's on them....
That woman should not be with him....



