Simp, simp, HOORAY

[VegasCAC]

When I was in college my second serious girlfriend told me these things every day:

I Love You

I'll never Hurt you

You're special and I want to show you that

Long story short- it turns out that the last two months we were together she was fukkING HER EX. Every single day. She was running game on him too, telling him they were back together. She was telling him the exact same shyt as above, just as convincingly.^ Me and him knew about each other's existence, but she was telling both of us the same story- "he's dating another girl , I haven't talked to him"

3-4 days a week for 2 months him or I were getting sloppy seconds

Same lies told to both of us.

So I eventually caught her when I peeped her phone when I was visiting her at work on her lunch break. Text: "Are you on your lunch break yet babe?" from a dude with the name of her ex. I was like She continued her psychopathic lying trying to deflect, but I had his number from before (another long story)

So she went back to work. And I hit this dude up. I asked "You still dating ____?" He said "Yeah... why?" And I was like "Damn, me too!"

So I'm like "My brother lets meet up"

We met up at a bar across the street, and started chopping it up in there . We start exchanging stories-

Me: "Was she with her sister shopping last Thursday?"

Him: "No dawg she was with me at dinner. Was she tired and had to go to bed at 8pm Friday?"

Me: "Nah dude we went to the club that night"

2 months of these stories

Finally, after a couple shots in I get a great idea- let's go meet her once she gets off work

So we end up waiting outside

She comes out scared shytless once she saw us. She knew it was over.

She just fukking powerwalks to her car and won't talk to either of us as we follow her.

I'm like "C'mon we're all friends! Don't you wanna talk to your boyfriends?

"We've all shared the same vagina its family over here!"

bytch got in her car and booked it.

Haven't seen her since. And my life has been a whole lot better.

Take that for what it’s worth

 

[BBG]

Also, you cats talk that player shyt but don't eem know what game we playin


I told y'all busters one side about my baby and y'all think you got enough to say drop her just like that huh


Yeah she got problems but we all do, long as she ain't out here doin dino idgaf all I got to do is get her to stop feeling the need to lie about goofy shyt n she a b iite. She really got a lot going for herself so I kinda painted a lopsided picture coming in here talking about some cotdamn compulsive lying disorders


Easier said than done though that's why I got mad and dropped dat ass



But I think counseling should do the trick honestly we got a lot of shyt to unpack about ourselves and attending sessions would probably open her up and get her comfortable with confiding in the god


In it for the long con brehs, stay tuned

Spoiler

if I see them sessions ain't working though I'ma definitely cut my losses and endure that heart break like a champ

 

[Living Bait]

Trust is gone . . She needs to be gone

 

[ozzy]

Help


I don't want to turn my back on my black queen but it's becoming too much to handle.

You are pathetic. You are saying this bullshyt like every other races don't have people like that in them.

 

[BBG]

You are pathetic. You are saying this bullshyt like every other races don't have people like thart in them.

I can understand how you came to be confused. but I was referring to my specific black queen buddy not all black queens


I've only dated outside of my race once and that was to a GORGEOUS sand-cacette finer than wine brehs best couple months of my junior year at NIU

 

[Max Power]

OP isn't tryna hear any constructive advice.

Simp on you dumb motherfukker.

 

[ozzy]

I can understand how you came to be confused. but I was referring to my specific black queen buddy not all black queens


I've only dated outside of my race once and that was to a GORGEOUS sand-cacette finer than wine brehs best couple months of my junior year at NIU

Then yeah People who lies a lot will make your life miserable and it is not worth any of it. You should had cut her off from the beginning. Everyone have deal with someone like at one point of their life

 

[Ghost Utmost]

Yeah Brehs

OP is like

She is NOT and I repeat NOT cutting out on me

But she did do a whole elaborate trick where I thought she was sleep but she was out partying

OP. Get it together homie. Letting go of that chick you really like to squeeze on HURTS. Damn that shyt hurts

But you're holding on to an empty shell. There's nothing there that's nourishment and sooner or later you gonna really be forced to face it.

Minus well put your foot down and follow through next time you catch her in lies. Especially "I was home sleep" when she was really out ?????????? doing whatever.

Another note: so she put the pics and shyt on Snap for all her real friends to see but she blocked you, right?

That's fukced up by itself even if you never found out.

But she put the evidence on the internet. So this ain't just regular bad planning. This is either the biggest middle finger to you directly or the absolute worst planning.

Either way Breh. She's selfish and she just does whatever she feels and doesn't respect you as a human enough to even tell you directly "deal with it. I'm going out".

I know for certain you'll spin all this in your mind. But perhaps you'll recall this after the fact and save yourself some headache with the next one.

 

[Nemesis]

Help






I don't want to turn my back on my black queen but it's becoming too much to handle. I lose respect for myself doing bytch ass shyt like going through her phone but out of the two times I've done it I've always found some form of dishonesty.


The only thing I thought i'd never be able to tolerate was a cheater but this relationship taught me that cheating is just a flavor of lying and it is the lack of trust (dishonesty) that I can't tolerate.
If I didn't wholeheartedly believe she was a compulsive liar then I would think she's cheating on me. However, I did my googles and found out that compulsive lying is a real disorder and it should be treated like an illness. So while I wouldn't be sympathetic and understanding to the average joe that just got caught in a lie, I can sympathize with a person's disorder.


But at the same time, my family ain't raise me to be captain save a ho so after the most recent time she lied I just said fukk it and ended the relationship. Problem is this isn't the first or second time I've done this so I'm sure she's not worried whether I'll be back or not.


I was going through the whole love lost episode last night. Didn't cry but my stomach was churning, laid in bed all night with insomnia like , and to this very second I haven't had an appetite since yesterday morning.


Let me be clear: when dealing with a person that has this disorder, they can lie about anything. However, that does NOT mean that they are cheating. I didn't just rationalize this in my head cuz im lovesick (or did i), it's true. For instance, her lying about what she ate for lunch has nothing to do with whether or not she lied about cheating. Meaning, just because she lied doesn't mean she cheated (hence why I feel cheating is a flavor of lying and not vice-versa).


So to wrap this all up, can the coli convince me to not bytch out and take her back, or am I just a sucker for love

Spoiler

nah all jokes aside I love her with all my heart and I see her shyt as a real disorder even though she obviously doesn't think she has a problem. It would be fukked up to get into a relationship with someone who's autistic, then leave them for being autistic so I just want to help her understand her problem so we can move past it. If we could've fixed this early on we'd be married by now, sorry GMB

My ex/girl knows I be on the coli all day, and I doubt she will appreciate this thread but idgaf I don't appreciate lying so stfu

why do folks think cheating is the be all and end all...


Why the hell would be around someone you cant trust? whether it be a partner, friend or family member .....

 

[NoChillJones]

I hate to sound like such a sucker but I really don't think it's that deep. The issue of lying itself is paramount indeed but I don't think her issue is that deep. What I mean is you got motherfukkers out here lying about their name, whole background, where they live, etc. If she told those kind of lies we never would have made it this far.


It took me a while to notice the lies at first because they would be lies about things so small I just gave her the benefit of the doubt. It seems that she mainly lies to preserve self-image.

Basically, I think the problem could be fixed at therapy because they just need to get it through her head that the shyt is stupid af and if I started lying to her silly ass all day everyday she wouldn't like it.






#FIL (Fall in Love) brehs all my years of fukkin nikkas bytches with not a care in the world. Life comes at you fast

Breh is the lying ( a major con) bigger then the best pro? How much does she lie. To what magnitude?

Your issue is trust...can you trust her to tell you the truth. If the answer id no...there is your answer on whether to stay....cause without trust you cant build on shyt. To further explain...every argument you have will revolve around it or the lack there of....which will end the reltionship as well

And your woman should be your queen....if she is your one....some of these nikkas need to quit it........
Work on it if you love her....but dont play yaself....

 

[Shabazz]

Spoiler

if I see them sessions ain't working though I'ma definitely cut my losses and endure that heart break like a champ

No you wont

 

[ThaEruditious]

When I was in college my second serious girlfriend told me these things every day:

I Love You

I'll never Hurt you

You're special and I want to show you that

Long story short- it turns out that the last two months we were together she was fukkING HER EX. Every single day. She was running game on him too, telling him they were back together. She was telling him the exact same shyt as above, just as convincingly.^ Me and him knew about each other's existence, but she was telling both of us the same story- "he's dating another girl , I haven't talked to him"

3-4 days a week for 2 months him or I were getting sloppy seconds

Same lies told to both of us.

So I eventually caught her when I peeped her phone when I was visiting her at work on her lunch break. Text: "Are you on your lunch break yet babe?" from a dude with the name of her ex. I was like She continued her psychopathic lying trying to deflect, but I had his number from before (another long story)

So she went back to work. And I hit this dude up. I asked "You still dating ____?" He said "Yeah... why?" And I was like "Damn, me too!"

So I'm like "My brother lets meet up"

We met up at a bar across the street, and started chopping it up in there . We start exchanging stories-

Me: "Was she with her sister shopping last Thursday?"

Him: "No dawg she was with me at dinner. Was she tired and had to go to bed at 8pm Friday?"

Me: "Nah dude we went to the club that night"

2 months of these stories

Finally, after a couple shots in I get a great idea- let's go meet her once she gets off work

So we end up waiting outside

She comes out scared shytless once she saw us. She knew it was over.

She just fukking powerwalks to her car and won't talk to either of us as we follow her.

I'm like "C'mon we're all friends! Don't you wanna talk to your boyfriends?

"We've all shared the same vagina its family over here!"

bytch got in her car and booked it.

Haven't seen her since. And my life has been a whole lot better.

Take that for what it’s worth

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

Also, you cats talk that player shyt but don't eem know what game we playin


I told y'all busters one side about my baby and y'all think you got enough to say drop her just like that huh


Yeah she got problems but we all do, long as she ain't out here doin dino idgaf all I got to do is get her to stop feeling the need to lie about goofy shyt n she a b iite. She really got a lot going for herself so I kinda painted a lopsided picture coming in here talking about some cotdamn compulsive lying disorders


Easier said than done though that's why I got mad and dropped dat ass



But I think counseling should do the trick honestly we got a lot of shyt to unpack about ourselves and attending sessions would probably open her up and get her comfortable with confiding in the god


In it for the long con brehs, stay tuned

Spoiler

if I see them sessions ain't working though I'ma definitely cut my losses and endure that heart break like a champ

You used the word "unpack", you are DOOMED.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

OP said the Coli needs to help him not bytch out and take her back, fam have you read the chapter you opened this thread with, nikka you bytched out already

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

OP ain't ready to cancel the bytch, let me know when he ends up on the 5 o'clock news