Single Black Mother explains why being a Single Mother is Empowering...

[TEH]

She’s a strong 8 so I clicked

That’s the least that I can do to support her

 

[Peruvian Connect]

Whatever makes you feel better about your life

Must’ve hit a nerve

You don't know what no woman in or out ya family has done. fancy titles don't change shiit. Them just the facts.

And you talking bout hit nerves, i didn't single you out, You chose to respond by listing titles like that actually means anything.

 

[African Peasant]

That's your definition of "community" not mine. I live in a city that is Black and Brown so by default my community wouldn't be secluded to just Black. And my first response in this thread was in regards to the Black community.

As the homie said, you just don't see yourself as part of the black community.

It's not a problem.

 

[feelosofer]

It's a form of cope. Unmarried single mothers take on an incredible amount of stresa.

 

[fscballin]

One silly bytch's talking point ain't got nothing to do with me and mine. She's over there while I'm over here.

The black community is not just u and yours or your circle of friends. Check the stats… it’s over

 

[fscballin]

It is not over for the Black Community. I see plenty of couples raising their children right in my own neighborhood. Many of my friends and my wifes friends are in long term marriages and have children who have gone on to be professionals in one field or another. So no, an example on a media source that is known to have idiotic takes on it, is not an indicator of the status of the Black Community.


I seriously do not understand why some of you are so quick to push this idea. It gives me the impression that it is an attempt at wishfullfillment.

Breh when marriage rates get to less than 10% and out of wedlock births rise to over 95%, will it be over then? Or do u need to see 1% and 99%

 

[Plankton]

As the homie said, you just don't see yourself as part of the black community.

It's not a problem.

Again, your definition of "community" isn't the same as mine. And because you totally disregarded me trying to explain it to you, I seriously don't give a fukk about your irrelevant definition that doesn't apply to me. And you attempting to apply your irrelevant definition to my reality can get the bozack. My last response to you but you can have the final word.

 

[African Peasant]

Again, your definition of "community" isn't the same as mine.

You clearly said your community does not stop at black (aka the black community), it means that your community is something else else: it can be your city or whatever communuty you feel attached to

Where did I disregard your explaination?

That's what YOU said

What are you babbling about now?

 

[Uachet]

Breh when marriage rates get to less than 10% and out of wedlock births rise to over 95%, will it be over then? Or do u need to see 1% and 99%

Evidently, you take what a sex worker says seriously. I have better examples of women I listen to. So no, I am not going to take what a sex worker says as being the evidence for what the majority of women believe.

 

[The War Report]

Anything not to be held accountable.

 

[Plankton]

The black community is not just u and yours or your circle of friends. Check the stats… it’s over

Sounds like you are unaware that there are plenty of Black people in America who where if you don't fall under their "tax bracket", they don't align themselves with you. That is a very real thing. Star Troi Torain speaks on this all the time. Sheek Louch from the Lox said the same exact thing when dissing J Hood. Those are just 2 examples, Other examples would include The Boule and those brought up on Jack & Jill Of America. These are groups of Blacks that pool their resources and only deal with each other. They don't involve you because you don't qualify to be in their circle. This is a very real thing that exists and it's obvious you are unfamiliar. You sitting there thinking that they are you while on the flip side they don't align themselves with you.

 

[fscballin]

Sounds like you are unaware that there are plenty of Black people in America who where if you don't fall under their "tax bracket", they don't align themselves with you. That is a very real thing. Star Troi Torain speaks on this all the time. Sheek Louch from the Lox said the same exact thing when dissing J Hood. Those are just 2 examples, Other examples would include The Boule and those brought up on Jack & Jill Of America. These are groups of Blacks that pool their resources and only deal with each other. They don't involve you because you don't qualify to be in their circle. This is a very real thing that exists and it's obvious you are unfamiliar. You sitting there thinking that they are you while on the flip side they don't align themselves with you.

Lol how do u know my family isn’t boule/prince hall masons? This the problem with our people…we don’t stay looking at the big picture.


But back to the topic


What percentage of black children come from 2 married parents? What was the percentage 60+ years ago? And what do u think the percentage will be in 60 years? And u want to focus on the “black elite?” Lmao… they marrying white boys at record levels breh. SMH…. Expand your awareness

 

[Stuntone]

Lol how do u know my family isn’t boule/prince hall masons? This the problem with our people…we don’t stay looking at the big picture.


But back to the topic


What percentage of black children come from 2 married parents? What was the percentage 60+ years ago? And what do u think the percentage will be in 60 years? And u want to focus on the “black elite?” Lmao… they marrying white boys at record levels breh. SMH…. Expand your awareness

Exactly.

These fools are as delusional as these women. They avoids statistics at all cost.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Sounds like Carmel Barbie

Yo, what happened to her? She hasn’t posted here in a long time. I was cool with her but her reasoning for choosing to be a single mom made her seem like a bird.

And I hate to say that because she’s a seemingly smart educated broad, but her decision making was just

 

[MikelArteta]