Single Black Mother explains why being a Single Mother is Empowering...

[TripleAgent]

 

[AceMan]

She said she doesn't want to coparent with a man, no matter how healthy the relationship can be

 

[Plankton]

Lol how do u know my family isn’t boule/prince hall masons? This the problem with our people…we don’t stay looking at the big picture.

LMAO. Just stop. You aren't Boule because you already admitted the status of your family in that thread about Young Berg. You live in Hartford CT not Baldwin Hills.

Most black families I know of consists of a great grandmother, her brothers and sisters, and all of their children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. In Hartford, CT, and the surrounding areas, most of the great grandmothers that I know of, had more than one baby’s fathers, all of whom are about dead, and of all her brothers (mostly deceased) and sisters children have the most fukked up family structures I’ve ever seen. Way less than 50% married, about 85% single mothers, and everyone of them has an attitude and rejects traditional values but loves Jesus


I’m including my family, but I’m talking about almost everyone I know from the city and it’s surroundings who are “FBA”

But back to the topic


What percentage of black children come from 2 married parents? What was the percentage 60+ years ago? And what do u think the percentage will be in 60 years? And u want to focus on the “black elite?” Lmao… they marrying white boys at record levels breh. SMH…. Expand your awareness

Dude, just stop. Here you are bragging about dating African women that ride and die for you. You already bragged about dating outside of the FBA community. Now all of a sudden you want to dip back in and cosplay about concern for percentages in the FBA community as if you aren't someone who already admitted to dipping out on your own. Negro please. I can't take anything you say serious in this thread when you already said this. These are your word right here:

I got a bad Nigerian and a Ghanaian that love me to death. Speak for yourself

 

[O.T.I.S.]

You don't know what no woman in or out ya family has done. fancy titles don't change shiit. Them just the facts.

And you talking bout hit nerves, i didn't single you out, You chose to respond by listing titles like that actually means anything.

I don’t need to know everything to know enough, just because you not close enough to your people don’t mean i’m not with mines



No need to project the reality of your life on to me... Like I said, must’ve hit that nerve. Something about sex workers not meant for marriage right? Where is the lie

 

[Mugenight]

Is over for the Black Community...

That shyt been over the moment the government became head of the household.

 

[fscballin]

LMAO. Just stop. You aren't Boule because you already admitted the status of your family in that thread about Young Berg. You live in Hartford CT not Baldwin Hills.














Dude, just stop. Here you are bragging about dating African women that ride and die for you. You already bragged about dating outside of the FBA community. Now all of a sudden you want to dip back in and cosplay about concern for percentages in the FBA community as if you aren't someone who already admitted to dipping out on your own. Negro please. I can't take anything you say serious in this thread when you already said this. These are your word right here:

Y’all OD off the internet


lol @ there being no boule/ Prince hall masons from Hartford connecticut

LMAO u win

And so what I have 2 African women

 

[Peruvian Connect]

I don’t need to know everything to know enough, just because you not close enough to your people don’t mean i’m not with mines



No need to project the reality of your life on to me... Like I said, must’ve hit that nerve. Something about sex workers not meant for marriage right? Where is the lie

You don't know. I don't give a shiit how close you think you are. Simple simon ass nikka

 

[cyndaquil]

Community been cook since 1985

And there’s no saving it

Black Women 75% of kids born out of wedlock

Compared to 23% up to 1970

Black women was married up to 60% up to 1969

Now only 25% .. and that 25% is high because of older black silent generation and early baby boomers are married

Here come coli nikkas to juelz santana shyt

Family Structure matters .. husband and wife

Not 2 baby daddies and mama complaining constantly about the fathers not being around

Not saying you're wrong but always link sources when citing statistics

 

[richaveli83]

I feel sorry for these babies being born and raised by toxic parents.

 

[AAKing23]

Community been cook since 1985

And there’s no saving it

Black Women 75% of kids born out of wedlock

Compared to 23% up to 1970

Black women was married up to 60% up to 1969

Now only 25% .. and that 25% is high because of older black silent generation and early baby boomers are married

Here come coli nikkas to juelz santana shyt

Family Structure matters .. husband and wife

Not 2 baby daddies and mama complaining constantly about the fathers not being around

Yup ain’t no way to save it, the culture is fundamentally flawed

 

[O.T.I.S.]

You don't know. I don't give a shiit how close you think you are. Simple simon ass nikka

This nikka gonna sit up here and argue about MY family (something I’m kinda an expert on, because growing up around them and all)..



All because I hurt your feelings by saying sex workers aren’t meant to be married/in relationships




And you still trying to have this convo… Hit dogs hollar, I’m sure your moms was a nice lady to someone




Ok bruh.. whatever you want to think. Since this isn’t going anywhere, I am letting it die here. You can continue though, I will just block you

 

[Apollo Creed]

Yup ain’t no way to save it, the culture is fundamentally flawed

Time for rejection and creation of counter culture eff fighting this shyt

 

[cyndaquil]

I’ve dated single moms before & i won’t say i’ll never do it again but these last few yrs i’ve been almost disgusted by single moms..i was more open to it in my 20’s but in my 30’s it’s totally switched

Hustling backwards

 

[AAKing23]

Time for rejection and creation of counter culture eff fighting this shyt

Step # 1: Stop dating Single mothers/baby mommas - they need to be starved out of resources to scare future girls away from it.

( Not talking about widows or divorced women who had their kids in wedlock)

 

[Peruvian Connect]

This nikka gonna sit up here and argue about MY family (something I’m kinda an expert on, because growing up around them and all)..



All because I hurt your feelings by saying sex workers aren’t meant to be married/in relationships




And you still trying to have this convo… Hit dogs hollar, I’m sure your moms was a nice lady to someone




Ok bruh.. whatever you want to think. Since this isn’t going anywhere, I am letting it die here. You can continue though, I will just block you

nikka ya biitchass don't know what the females in ya fam have done.. Just stop. If you want to live in a fantasy world where all the females in ya family is birtous, then so be it. Just know whores come in all varieties, lame ass nikka