Single brehs. How’s da dating game treating you?

[MikelArteta]

Lmao you know what’s funny? I scroll through posts like these and in my head I’m admiring the quality because it’s always good when fellow members of the male specimen are swimming in p*ssy, but then at the same time I’m wondering HOW do y’all nikkas get like this

shyt has been dryer than chicken breast on my end, I wanna feast. Unfortunately I feel like I won’t be eating like this until my money gets better, but I feel like by then I’ll have already “missed out” on that “young nikka”-fun.

just keep trying, I was engaged for years and then my ex fiance dumped me. When your out of the game so long you have to relearn like ryan shazier learning to walk again. Just shoot your shot, like a guy going into work and getting canned i and then coming home going to indeed and sending his resume out to 100 people , some will feel you some won't.

 

[Serious]

Lmao you know what’s funny? I scroll through posts like these and in my head I’m admiring the quality because it’s always good when fellow members of the male specimen are swimming in p*ssy, but then at the same time I’m wondering HOW do y’all nikkas get like this

shyt has been dryer than chicken breast on my end, I wanna feast. Unfortunately I feel like I won’t be eating like this until my money gets better, but I feel like by then I’ll have already “missed out” on that “young nikka”-fun.

you'll be aight, the truth is, just focus on you and the women will come....
Focus on getting your money, imagine / style, get in shape, stay groomed, etc....

It'll be a point to where you have leverage and you're fighting them off, because you can't keep up.

The truth is, a lot of young dudes in general are broke and ain't getting laid like that, but don't really start eating like that until their mid 20's - mid 30's......

Ever wonder women like older men......
Read my sig.....
Women like resources and stability.
Young guys don't have that.....
Everything comes full circle though, because women turn 18-25 everyday......
So when you get on, they'll be women who are 18-25 for the available for you...

 

[Balla]

Missed out on what? What's young nikka fun ?

U don't need to have hella paper to fukk these thots and have fun.

What is your problem with dating now exactly?

Lmao you know what’s funny? I scroll through posts like these and in my head I’m admiring the quality because it’s always good when fellow members of the male specimen are swimming in p*ssy, but then at the same time I’m wondering HOW do y’all nikkas get like this

shyt has been dryer than chicken breast on my end, I wanna feast. Unfortunately I feel like I won’t be eating like this until my money gets better, but I feel like by then I’ll have already “missed out” on that “young nikka”-fun.

 

[Cynic]

and yep, I think once you have sex with a woman and she's not a whore there is something inside her that turns on and now she wants you to commit

They want control. That's all it boils down to.. the key is to NEVER yield any whatsoever or act like you do so she exposes the "real her" and you can dip with no damage ...

 

[King Poetic]

Do you not like 20s chicks like that?

And where u finding chicks over 30 with no kids? shyt it's hard to find girls in they mid 20s with no kids or married.

It's all about location really bro..

I live in California so finding a woman without kids is not that hard because u have a lot of transplants..plus a lot of these broads are looking for a money grabbed to live that lifestyle, so a kid might damage their reputation.

However i have family in Cleveland Ohio and Louisiana and I go visit, it's like 90% of black women i came across all had kids...

So I understand the frustration for a lot of guys

 

[Gwoppo]

I don't date. Until I catch up with myself I'm putting myself at a terrible disadvantage.

I feel you. In the end you won’t be happy if you force it, because you’ll have to compromise.

I feel a lot of the brehs saying they’re waiting to get their shyt together. At the same time, there will never be a perfect moment. You’ll be waiting forever.

 

[MikelArteta]

I feel you. In the end you won’t be happy if you force it, because you’ll have to compromise.

I feel a lot of the brehs saying they’re waiting to get their shyt together. At the same time, there will never be a perfect moment. You’ll be waiting forever.

that's true, because you can say have everything together and lose your job or whatever and then what.

 

[-deleted-]

Missed out on what? What's young nikka fun ?

U don't need to have hella paper to fukk these thots and have fun.

What is your problem with dating now exactly?

Just not getting chose. Not ugly nor scared to talk to women. Just don’t hit their switches like that, apparently

 

[Gwoppo]

that's true, because you can say have everything together and lose your job or whatever and then what.

Not to mention that a lot of women, try/want to “fix” men. It makes them feel more secure in their spot in your life.

A lot of brehs see what these women post on social media (“he has to have good credit score, House, new car, pay their bills) and get intimidated. Reality is, a small percentage are actually dating guys like this.

The brehs that are struggling, over complicating things. They won’t talk to the chicks at their job because they’ve read/heard that it’s a bad idea (not necessarily true). They looking for chicks in the club (these chicks want nikkaz that look like they got clout or are just simply above average, but catch them outside of the club scene and you have a much better chance). They won’t get involved socially (hobbies, new friends, social events, etc). Looking to only smash and not make female friends (women have other female friends and what’s better than having her try to put you in there with her friend). I could go on and on.

 

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Not to mention that a lot of women, try/want to “fix” men. It makes them feel more secure in their spot in your life.

A lot of brehs see what these women post on social media (“he has to have good credit score, House, new car, pay their bills) and get intimidated. Reality is, a small percentage are actually dating guys like this.

The brehs that are struggling, over complicating things. They won’t talk to the chicks at their job because they’ve read/heard that it’s a bad idea (not necessarily true). They looking for chicks in the club (these chicks want nikkaz that look like they got clout or are just simply above average, but catch them outside of the club scene and you have a much better chance). They won’t get involved socially (hobbies, new friends, social events, etc). Looking to only smash and not make female friends (women have other female friends and what’s better than having her try to put you in there with her friend). I could go on and on.

I’ll admit, I’m a victim of this. Right now I have the mindset of “If everything isn’t perfect then I shouldn’t be fukking chicks.” It’s a crippling way of thinking tbh. I’ve asked chicks out on dates then suddenly thought to myself, “I don’t have everything together yet, live on my own but I don’t have a car, my body isn’t right yet, etc.” and have actually blocked chicks before they even respond to me asking them out. I feel like they know I don’t have my shyt together because I know it, and because they know it I’ll just end up as another loser trying to get at them.

I also have a “Girls will make it very obvious when they want you” mindset so I feel like if she isn’t basically throwing it at me then all I’m doing is giving her attention. Again, looking like a sucker.

And the sad part is that I know nikkas younger than me that run through literally hundreds of girls and I’m struggling, lol.

Every dog has his day though.

 

[TheArchitect]

Laziness and apprehension.

So THAT'S the term for it.....

I've been single for over 5 years, and haven't tried to pull one number ever since, due to apprehension and loss of morale....

Plus, money issues have sort of kept me from really putting myself out there.....

I have been trying to improve myself lately, however.....

But for right now, desert dikk city.....

 

[Balla]

What is your first step into where you wanna be so that you're comfortable with women?

I think money is the main issue with most men because it feels good to know you have something going for yourself, not to use the money on them, but to know you can do what you want mostly.

Dudes that are broke, but get usually have hella game, personality, and aggressiveness.

It's good to have both.

Time flies really fast bro, for real, maybe you should get with some chicks that are ok to start out with. You can't wait in life because shyt moves so fast.

Good luck homie.

I’ll admit, I’m a victim of this. Right now I have the mindset of “If everything isn’t perfect then I shouldn’t be fukking chicks.” It’s a crippling way of thinking tbh. I’ve asked chicks out on dates then suddenly thought to myself, “I don’t have everything together yet, live on my own but I don’t have a car, my body isn’t right yet, etc.” and have actually blocked chicks before they even respond to me asking them out. I feel like they know I don’t have my shyt together because I know it, and because they know it I’ll just end up as another loser trying to get at them.

I also have a “Girls will make it very obvious when they want you” mindset so I feel like if she isn’t basically throwing it at me then all I’m doing is giving her attention. Again, looking like a sucker.

And the sad part is that I know nikkas younger than me that run through literally hundreds of girls and I’m struggling, lol.

Every dog has his day though.

 

[Gwoppo]

I’ll admit, I’m a victim of this. Right now I have the mindset of “If everything isn’t perfect then I shouldn’t be fukking chicks.” It’s a crippling way of thinking tbh. I’ve asked chicks out on dates then suddenly thought to myself, “I don’t have everything together yet, live on my own but I don’t have a car, my body isn’t right yet, etc.” and have actually blocked chicks before they even respond to me asking them out. I feel like they know I don’t have my shyt together because I know it, and because they know it I’ll just end up as another loser trying to get at them.

I also have a “Girls will make it very obvious when they want you” mindset so I feel like if she isn’t basically throwing it at me then all I’m doing is giving her attention. Again, looking like a sucker.

And the sad part is that I know nikkas younger than me that run through literally hundreds of girls and I’m struggling, lol.

Every dog has his day though.

I’m also a victim of this when it comes to financial freedom instead of just jumping out there. One example; “Yea I got a few items in my inventory, but ima wait til I get more so I can show a variety to customers and look more official.” I think the problem comes from comparing yourself to others.

I will say this tho; if you work with what you got, go for it and succeed, the psychological benefits will be very rewarding and will carry over into other parts of your life.

“She isn’t choosing, so Ima fall back,” but you choosing tho. Too entitled. Sounds like this; “the money ain’t falling in my lap, so I’m not gon even try to get it.” “No one is going to give me the car that I want, so fukk it.” I know it’s a lot different but the point I’m trying to make is that it’s all in your head.

Stop comparing yourself to others and focusing on what you don’t have.

 

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What is your first step into where you wanna be so that you're comfortable with women?

I think money is the main issue with most men because it feels good to know you have something going for yourself, not to use the money on them, but to know you can do what you want mostly.

Dudes that are broke, but get usually have hella game, personality, and aggressiveness.

It's good to have both.

Time flies really fast bro, for real, maybe you should get with some chicks that are ok to start out with. You can't wait in life because shyt moves so fast.

Good luck homie.

I’m also a victim of this when it comes to financial freedom instead of just jumping out there. One example; “Yea I got a few items in my inventory, but ima wait til I get more so I can show a variety to customers and look more official.” I think the problem comes from comparing yourself to others.

I will say this tho; if you work with what you got, go for it and succeed, the psychological benefits will be very rewarding and will carry over into other parts of your life.

“She isn’t choosing, so Ima fall back,” but you choosing tho. Too entitled. Sounds like this; “the money ain’t falling in my lap, so I’m not gon even try to get it.” “No one is going to give me the car that I want, so fukk it.” I know it’s a lot different but the point I’m trying to make is that it’s all in your head.

Stop comparing yourself to others and focusing on what you don’t have.

Yeah, y’all might be right. Mentality is a huge part of it. Especially the comparing. And yeah, knowing you have something going for yourself is a big part of it too.

I made a promise to myself that in one year things will be very different. I refuse to go out like a bum knowing what I’m capable of. Foh

 

[Gwoppo]

Yeah, y’all might be right. Mentality is a huge part of it. Especially the comparing. And yeah, knowing you have something going for yourself is a big part of it too.

I made a promise to myself that in one year things will be very different. I refuse to go out like a bum knowing what I’m capable of. Foh

You just told yourself foh

What will you have changed in a year? A year might be too long