Losing a job as a single man is worlds apart from losing one when you have a woman.
Single brehs. How’s da dating game treating you?
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how many women have things together though?
Some of the best women I've met in my life is when I had nothing or was reeling in other aspects of my life.
The thing about women I've realized throughout the years is all their "checkmarks and lists" can be over ruled if they like you.
Never sell yourself short
When I'm applying for a job I could care less about the qualifications, the job I have right now you need a masters degree, yet my black ass is sitting in that office monday to friday without one.
I live life by the motto if its for you its for you, if its not no need to stress
blues_funk_reggae
Veteran
Whole post was fire.
Could you expound on this?
losing your income means losing your utility in a woman's eyes. I can't speak on being fired because honestly I've been in biz too long but I'd rather lose all income/assets while single than losing everything while having a woman.
I get what you're saying, but if a chick really down for you she gon stay no matter what, you just have to keep improving in someway tho.
How you get started in business if you don't mind me asking ?
Im at the point right now where I can't and won't depend on an employer anymore, it's a terrible feeling to me.
How you get started in business if you don't mind me asking ?
Im at the point right now where I can't and won't depend on an employer anymore, it's a terrible feeling to me.
Crayola Coyote
Superstar
It does not matter. I'm done with them. I go out, sit alone, drink my beer and ignore them. I don't make eye contact with them in public, talk to them at the cash register, when they smile at me I do not smile, ignore my female co workers. Change the subject real quick on them. If any female talks to me I make say something mean or pretend I didn't hear them talking. not dealing with them nomore. I deleted all my porn cause that's female worshipping. I play NBA live 18, watch anime, buy Jordan's and go to work and sleep. fukk them.
kenreid0726eabos
All Star
Women are beautiful human beings in lifeBout to pull the plug
How’s the quality of women y’all fukkin with?
How’s success with the women that have no children?
Would you rather be in a relationship?
hUmaN and I dislike double standards in life with women 
the bossman
Superstar
Seek help bro
Crayola Coyote
Superstar
Take your own advice
King of Creampies
Hop in. You coming too!
I would say don't bother dating at that point in your life. Focus on your job and your next 10 year plan of where you want to be
Geographically
Educationally
Certification
Financially
Don't even bother worrying about dating at this time because once you get into your late 20's and 30's the Game really shifts with dating females...because women are drawn to men who have purpose a plan and take action in their lives...then they will be happy to try to get aboard your ship for that journey whether you want her there is up to you.
You can pick and choose with females if you build your empire first rather than do it later with a child and female in tow.
As for having kids? or staying child free I took a drastic option at 26 not to have kids but that isn't for everyone so I understand....Just be honest if you are out there fukking that you don't want kids and also use protection man....
It doesn't mean be celibate it just means use protection and be upfront about what you are looking for and also - DO NOT MOVE IN WITH ANY FEMALES. ALWAYS NO MATTER WHAT HAVE YOUR OWN APARTMENT. ALWAYS STAND ON YOUR OWN AS A BLACK MAN.
Only dating advice I can give you is really old school but it really worked for me...
"Value your seed like it's Fort Knox."
"Never sell your balls or dignity to have female attention physical or emotional".
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Crayola Coyote
Superstar
Dating is a complicated, frustrating and depressing experience at times. Even when you're not in a drought you're stringing along people you may not be very attracted to and these are always the ones who seem to get attached. Now you're in a dilemma where you have to keep up appearances or risk hurting someone that's actually good to you. The whole time you're thinking; "what am I going to do when someone comes along I really want to be with?" Even if you let the woman know what it is in the beginning emotions outweigh logic long term and next thing you know you have someone in love with you but they're more of a cool homegirl you're fukking. Men have a lot more tact regarding these situations because women have no issue going ghost on you once they get attention from someone they feel is "more their speed." Men will try to at least ease our way out of it gently.
Anywhoodles, beyond that, realistically speaking women are too emotionally damaged and ignorant to be taken seriously as romantic partners. You kind of just have to grope around in the mass of sewage and hope that you pull out a diamond or at best a less disgusting turd. If you're average that's pretty much your future as far as dating is concerned. You'd honestly pull more women if you lacked standard education and employment and fell to the lower extremes. Because women, just like every human, are more interested in the extremes than the average. An average looking breh with an average job, average house/apartment, an average car and average social life/social media presence won't even be able to attract average women. Well, not without great effort. You're invisible and your life is boring in a time where entertainment > et al.
If you're average I advise that you do things that can improve yourself overall and not just for the benefit of attracting the attention of women. Focus on your health and wellness, study and master your industry, and seek hobbies and interests that get you away from the matrix of Insta, Twitter and FB. Your quality of life will improve and women will become the accessory to your life that they should be and not a necessity that you feel empty and inadequate without. Easier said than done true but you have to take baby steps.
Anywhoodles, beyond that, realistically speaking women are too emotionally damaged and ignorant to be taken seriously as romantic partners. You kind of just have to grope around in the mass of sewage and hope that you pull out a diamond or at best a less disgusting turd. If you're average that's pretty much your future as far as dating is concerned. You'd honestly pull more women if you lacked standard education and employment and fell to the lower extremes. Because women, just like every human, are more interested in the extremes than the average. An average looking breh with an average job, average house/apartment, an average car and average social life/social media presence won't even be able to attract average women. Well, not without great effort. You're invisible and your life is boring in a time where entertainment > et al.
If you're average I advise that you do things that can improve yourself overall and not just for the benefit of attracting the attention of women. Focus on your health and wellness, study and master your industry, and seek hobbies and interests that get you away from the matrix of Insta, Twitter and FB. Your quality of life will improve and women will become the accessory to your life that they should be and not a necessity that you feel empty and inadequate without. Easier said than done true but you have to take baby steps.
Hypergamy is real, women now are about status and social norms. I'd rather have peace of mind and focus on what I need to do
I honestly don't recommend it because of the sheer isolation and repeat Ls you'll have to eat before any traction.
I will say one thing...
You have to learn how to get clients at the b2c and later on the b2b level. (Cold calling/ marketing) and develop a genuine curiosity for business. Like your current job, how are they getting business ? If you had to grow that company how would you do it ?
How would you increase productivity or hire better staff ?
Raise private capital for it ?
Achieve human sigma so it runs by itself ?