Single mothers are way poorer than I thought.

[Easy-E]

1. Get married.
2. Fight for reparations.
3.???
4.Profit

Yes, because marriage comes with a $250,000 check in the mail.

Ya'll gotta to research.

Marriage is also a problem because it's becoming too expensive to be married.

Sorry, Marriage Is a 'Luxury Good'

I think thecoli is to quick to jump on it's moral high horse "Stable means married w/ a kid" and don't realize this ain't the 80's no more.

Not saying I don't agree with the OP, but, it's not this simple binary problem a couple folks here are making it

People in this thread are saying if we got married more we'd have money to buy political influence or that life insurance will fix this...welp, this thread is going nowhere

 

[Will Ross]

jesus christ

it makes me want to for our queens

how do uneducated white women have that much of an advantage

being uneducated don’t mean they come from broke families. You got a lot of rich kids that don’t go to school and work for family.

 

[NinoBrown]

No big deal tbh....they chose wrong....

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

Solid advice for a forum primarily made up of men, and not at all a deflection from the steps men can take to avoid falling into the child support trap.

it takes 2 tango, the only person who really lost here is the child because they now have to deal with 2 bum ass parents that can't put aside there differences and realize what the fukk is actually going to happen if they cant raise said child to be decent person within society

next thing you know that lil mfer either joining a gang, slanging p*ssy/drugs, or robbing

we don't need that here

I don't feel bad for the man or woman in this situation, mfer you knew the consequences

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

Yes, because marriage comes with a $250,000 check in the mail.

Ya'll gotta to research.

Marriage is also a problem because it's becoming too expensive to be married.

Sorry, Marriage Is a 'Luxury Good'

I think thecoli is to quick to jump on it's moral high horse "Stable means married w/ a kid" and don't realize this ain't the 80's no more.

Not saying I don't agree with the OP, but, it's not this simple binary problem a couple folks here are making it

People in this thread are saying if we got married more we'd have money to buy political influence or that life insurance will fix this...welp, this thread is going nowhere

the problem isn't even marriage it's creating a stable family

 

[Easy-E]

the problem isn't even marriage it's creating a stable family

You're making a moral argument out of a complex economic problem.

America life ain't stable, let alone the economic position of people who were enslaved less than 165 years ago.

Ya'll see "single mother" and automatically get self righteous. Marriage ain't stable.

As of 2007; that means for every 2,190 marriages there are 1,080 divorces of different or some of the same couples that just got married as the average lenght of a marriage is 8 years.

I didn't get into middle school before my parents split.

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

You're making a moral argument out of a complex economic problem.

America life ain't stable, let alone the economic position of people who were enslaved less than 165 years ago.

Ya'll see "single mother" and automatically get self righteous. Marriage ain't stable.

As of 2007; that means for every 2,190 marriages there are 1,080 divorces of different or some of the same couples that just got married as the average lenght of a marriage is 8 years.

I didn't get into middle school before my parents split.

I’m not talking about marriage, Prior to the state and before the church folks were sill getting married only difference was there wasnt some dumb legal binding document. Everything was unanimous and Only a small celebration between families were performed.

I understand due to the economic climate now though starting up a family in this day and age might as well be financial suicide

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

Being raised by a singe mother is the greatest indicator of generational poverty in the world.

There was a time where everyone knew this and therefore having a child out of wedlock was shamed...

But the people who profit off of your dysfunction have convinced you that this is sexist or somehow wrong...

So the rate of single mothers keeps climbing and black wealth keeps decreasing...

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

In TLR a $500/month child support payment can make a rich man destitute and a single mother a millionaire

The average child support payment can't even cover the average monthly cost of day care.

And of course the ones who lose the most are the kids.

yup and a lot women aren’t even receiving child support and are struggling to take care of their children. No one ever wants to talk about that on here though.

 

[MJ Truth]

Having babies with bum ass dudes will do that.

Out there fuccin around with "Dorian" in 2007 because he was swagged out with an '06 Charger and a fresh Abercrombie jumpsuit.

Ignored the fact that he had 3 other baby mommas to tend to.

We make our own luck

That's not really the reason, but bitter responses are always acceptable.

 

[Brolic]

yup and a lot women aren’t even receiving child support and are struggling to take care of their children. No one ever wants to talk about that on here though.

Whose fault is that?

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Being raised by a singe mother is the greatest indicator of generational poverty in the world.

There was a time where everyone knew this and therefore having a child out of wedlock was shamed...

But the people who profit off of your dysfunction have convinced you that this is sexist or somehow wrong...

So the rate of single mothers keeps climbing and black wealth keeps decreasing...

So how do you fix it then?

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Whose fault is that?

Well the women should go to court and demand support from the father of their children or maybe the fathers should be fathers and help take care of their children.

what answer are you expecting considering a child has TWO parents?


I’m so happy even when my parents divorced my father was still a father... smh at anyone trying to act like one parent deserves all the responsibility.

 

[How Sway?]

I was messing with two single moms last year and yes the struggle is real.

And One of em could barely hold down one damb job
And she went to college

That azz was stupid fat though

I digress

I forgot to mention the father doesn't even pay child support bc he's in jail

And one of her kids is special needs

The shyt is too real

Spoiler

But her body and poosy was A1 brehs

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

Those college educated white women are running up the score something fierce. This doesn’t even include the great wealth transfer coming up.