Single mothers are way poorer than I thought.

[At30wecashout]

If you don't have $500 a month to spare you shouldn't be shooting up the club

The game is the game

If you're relying on $500 a month from someone even though it ain't enough to cover your child's day care, you shouldn't be letting people in your club without Security


The Game is the game

Both of these are correct, so there shouldnt even be an argument.

 

[Brolic]

Well the women should go to court and demand support from father of their children or maybe the fathers should be fathers and help take care of their children.

what answer are you expecting considering a child has TWO parents?


I’m so happy even when my parents divorced my father was still a father... smh at anyone trying to act like one parent deserves all the responsibility.

They probably do. The court can't do anything if the father is a broke bum.
The answer is to have a child with a man who has a career/stable income.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

In TLR a $500/month child support payment can make a rich man destitute and a single mother a millionaire

The average child support payment can't even cover the average monthly cost of day care.

And of course the ones who lose the most are the kids.

Breh stop simping

Its brothas out here losing they license and going to jail for this bs.


Any woman putting a black man on child support is suspect to me.

Its alot of women who put him on cs out of bitterness and disdain cause he doesnt want her no more.

Its too many cases where he didnt have to pay child support till 8 or 10 etc straight bittneress.

500 dollars is alot of money for the avg black man to be giving away especially when in some cases the chick spending it on hair and nails not necessity for the kids.

I just feel the system needs to be tweeked its a joke right now

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

They probably do. The court can't do anything if the father is a broke bum.
The answer is to have a child with a man who has a career/stable income.

A career and stable income is only as good as the economy... you should know that given the current climate.. a hands on father or mother depends on the individual.

 

[JT-Money]

These stats can be turned around overnight with a huge increase in the marriage rate. I'm just not sure how you do that besides offering some kind of huge tax break. Maybe if the economy gets really bad more people will need to stick together. I just don't see how anyone can survive being a single parent if things continue to deteriorate.

 

[Tom Foolery]

nikka on thecoli told me black people are in better position and things are improving.

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

I refuse to believe single black women only have a net worth of $5K. Sounds like some bullshyt.

 

[ZoeGod]

It’s common sense being a single mother is the lowest economic level in this country. Now being a black single mother is even worse. Moral of the story women need to make smart choices in men who they let nut up in them. And men need to be smart choice in women who they bust in. Single parenthood is the gateway to the cycle of endless poverty.

 

[JackRoss]

But the coli told me they were getting over by trapping unsuspecting gentlemen and having lesbian orgies on beds made out of child support money and alimony

 

[ZoeGod]

Those college educated white women are running up the score something fierce. This doesn’t even include the great wealth transfer coming up.

Black wealth is going to be $0 by 2050 and this upcoming economic downturn is going to be another haymaker to black wealth. All forecast for black wealth in this country isn’t looking good. For us black millennials when our children are our age their economic condition is gonna be worse than us unless we get our shyt together.

 

[saturn7]

Look at the wealth difference between black women with bachelors degrees and white women with and without degrees.

 

[goatmane]

Black wealth is going to be $0 by 2050 and this upcoming economic downturn is going to be another haymaker to black wealth. All forecast for black wealth in this country isn’t looking good. For us black millennials when our children are our age their economic condition is gonna be worse than us unless we get our shyt together.

we been fukked. Action should've been taken decades ago, before we were even born or just kids

How do we look at this stat in 1991 and not sound the alarm?

 

[HellRell804]

So how do you fix it then?

Its complicated...

The simple answer is for women to hold off on having sex and children until a man proves with his actions that he is willing and, most importantly, able to protect and provide for her and any children they might have.

The problem is that women can and often do have sex with men out of their league. If women had to wait to have sex to weed out the men who just want a nut or men who have nothing going for them or no future ambitions, a lot of women would be disappointed at the actual level of men they attract for a long term commitment.

The reality is, a lot of women would rather be a booty call to a baller or have a handsome bum play househusband than to seek out the relationships on their level

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Its complicated...

The simple answer is for women to hold off on having sex and children until a man proves with his actions that he is willing and, most importantly, able to protect and provide for her and any children they might have.

The problem is that women can and often do have sex with men out of their league. If women had to wait to have sex to weed out the men who just want a nut or men who have nothing going for them or no future ambitions, a lot of women would be disappointed at the actual level of men they attract for a long term commitment.

The reality is, a lot of women would rather be a booty call to a baller or have a handsome bum play househusband than to seek out the relationships on their level

Women women women

It takes two to tango and it takes two to raise a child.


You do realize that more men are probably dead beats because they expect women to make all the decisions when it comes to a child? Because they put all the responsibility on a woman once they impregnate her?

Once both parties realize that it takes two to make a child and two to raise a child than maybe some parties will stop thinking that only one is responsible for taking care of a child. That goes for both women and men.


There’s no pointing fingers at one parent... it’s takes both.

you’ll probably come back with well if women chose better and etc etc... but a child is innocent.. to take it out on how you feel a mother should act on a child you created is selfish.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Blk women are also least likely to get alimony after divorce and receive the least amount of child support. The narrative that blk women are breaking men over child support needs to die. As much shyt dudes talk about us, blk women are the least demanding and receive the least amount of financial support.
There are blk women “workin wit” baby daddies to avoid having them go to jail. Has anybody actually looked at the amount of child support blk women get?