Single mothers are way poorer than I thought.

[Amare's Right Hook]

Having babies with bum ass dudes will do that.

Out there fuccin around with "Dorian" in 2007 because he was swagged out with an '06 Charger and a fresh Abercrombie jumpsuit.

Ignored the fact that he had 3 other baby mommas to tend to.

We make our own luck

Hey, Dorian is going to get it together. He just got his GED

 

[Suleiman Bey]

Hey, Dorian is going to get it together. He just got his GED

Dorian mustve been doing okay if he had a '06 in '07. Two years old but still

 

[Suleiman Bey]

Coli is anti marriage, but anti single mother. Coli is dumb.

Single mothers are not as broke as some of you think. Single mother just means not married. Some have the kids father still in the home. Some are getting assistance from the state and the baby dad or whomever they are fuccking at the moment. Some are really popped. Some are up like shyt.

 

[Serious]

This "wealth" is very misleading.

It's almost entirely tied to home ownership....and since white people prefer living around their own...and are the majority, their home values are driven upward.

If you looked at more liquid forms of wealth (cash, stocks etc), that $384k number is coming all the way down.

Plus...most WW get cash infusions from Mom and Dad. My coworkers stay funneling cash to their kids, even when the kids make good money. Paid for their college, bought them condos etc. They start life in 3rd base while black folks ain't even inside the stadium yet.

This

 

[Serious]

It's not so much blame....but rather.....the positions we occupy.

At the end of the day, men are almost ALWAYS the initiators and women are the "deciders". Obviously a lady can't help if Prince Charming turns into a frog. However, it's not uncommon for a man to show his true colors early and for the lady to ignore it because the man has impressive physical attributes (height, smile, build etc).

Men have to approach and women have to figure out the Studs versus the Duds.

Men can't reliably pull women out of their league for casual sex. We can only do that with commitment. That's when men get burned. They make money and attract women out of their league but aren't savvy enough to deal with much more experienced women.

Women CAN pull very attractive men for casual sex. Rather than getting a guy that adores you, the lady gets fukked by a dude that knows he can find more women anytime and doesn't value his interaction with you.

Oh stfu with this argument.

And I guarantee there's a ton of good hearted overweight women that I regularly pass over as mates.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Coli is anti marriage, but anti single mother. Coli is dumb.

 

[Serious]

Yeah, pretty much why I’m deathly afraid of becoming one. Even if there wasn’t the stigma surrounding it, it’s such a huge contributor to poverty not to mention the drama that usually comes with it. I wonder if they considered unmarried mothers who are with the fathers of at least one kid as sp

Good reminder, my neighbor’s daughter and her kids’ father rekindled their relationship some months ago and they’re back to arguing outside.

I thought you had kids?

 

[Yinny]

I thought you had kids?

I don’t.

 

[HellRell804]

Coli is anti marriage, but anti single mother. Coli is dumb.

Single mothers are not as broke as some of you think. Single mother just means not married. Some have the kids father still in the home. Some are getting assistance from the state and the baby dad or whomever they are fuccking at the moment. Some are really popped. Some are up like shyt.

The most vocal members of the coli don't actually interact with real people. They get their idea of how women act from Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter. The most active people on social media represent a small fraction of people in real life.

The reality of the situation is that these dudes are actually marriage minded, but just like the women in this society, they don't want to accept the reality of the women who would actually marry them for love and not other reasons.

They see the women they would give their lives to support and protect get knocked up and left by men who don't give af about them and it makes them jaded, the same way women see the men they would be faithful and obedient to for life wife up women who will bolt the second a better option comes along.

The dating marketplace is skewed and all fukked up because of casual sex and that's the entire point.

A society that can't form sustainable lifelong relationships is a society that will always be dependent on government. A society that's dependent on government means that politicians will be free to skim and launder endless amounts of money through cronies appointed to administer benefits.

Social programs are to the left what war is to the right. An excuse to funnel government funds to friends and cronies with little to no oversight. Those same friends and cronies will give the money back in the form of political donations and campaign contributions.

 

[Ol’Otis]

The most vocal members of the coli don't actually interact with real people.

 

[Geek Nasty]

This is why society encourages simp behavior and doesn’t give a fukk if a man’s even found to not be the daddy; you’re still paying that girl.

The government doesn’t want to be paying for all these fatherless kids. Protect ya neck

 

[UberEatsDriver]

Babies being born out of wedlock seems to be some sort of fad in our community.

 

[Big Boss]

It seems like nobody wants to wait to get married to have kids

 

[HellRell804]

Babies being born out of wedlock seems to be some sort of fad in our community.

It's not even a fad, it's the new normal.

As a black man if you tell people your children live with you they look like

 

[Geek Nasty]

Coli is anti marriage, but anti single mother. Coli is dumb.

Single mothers are not as broke as some of you think. Single mother just means not married. Some have the kids father still in the home. Some are getting assistance from the state and the baby dad or whomever they are fuccking at the moment. Some are really popped. Some are up like shyt.

Is that what it really means conversationally though? Single mom to me means mother with a father who isn’t contributing. YOu’re doing all the work on your own and carrying all the expense too. Mackenzie Bezos is single and a mom, but not a single mother.