Hold this rep my brudda
Sistaz are asking "why wont yall lead?"
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Tread lightly with coworkers, but keep it
with the women in your life. Totally agree
Adebisi_Said
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That table is filled with Sauerkraut and Suffering.
Elim Garak
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I would have told them they need to take it up with the specific men they are having these issues with and stop generalizing because of their failures.
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I'm sure a few of the women have kids by the same dude.
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This nikka went to a vision board party on some creep shyt and got hemmed up
Ain’t no fukkin way this was a “normal” dinner party
Ain’t no fukkin way this was a “normal” dinner party
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Ezekiel 25:17
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What do they mean by men lead? Lead how? What is it they are looking for?
Nkrumah Was Right
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i was asked this by a group of black women at a dinner party. it was a "girls party", handful of women from 25 to 50, divorced, married , "fumbled" etc.. sitting around sipping wine and yapping. only reason i was there because im banging the host and had to help set up food and shyt..
i tried to stay away from the party, chilling downstairs on the PS5. i tried to covertly go upstairs quietly grab a plate and go but couldn't make it past the table without being called over to "give a black mans perspective" to their conversation
"soo whats wrong with the black man today" one asked
then i think all of them said collectively "why wont yall lead!!!?" (as in the relationship).. and started to give ridiculous examples
i had to tread lightly answering that dumb ass loaded question while at the same time playing dumb because shawty was turned in her chair like "nikka proceed with caution"
black women really need to take a break from the "life advice" they're getting from social media
Dangerous that your spouse has miserable friends like these ones
Misery loves company
Marco Zen
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You got to move with fitness plays or create a distraction.
You should have thrown a bomb and said, why is Kandi leaving that great man, and left the scene.
Man I told them mfs lets for arguments sake say a man checks all these boxes. Hes a protector, a provider, he rubs your back, he makes you laugh, he leads, fukks you when you want, gives space when you want, hes 100% honest blah blah lets say all the boxes are checked. Basically hes perfect. Do yall really think there's this perfect man out there in the cereal aisle just waiting for you to find him??? .... the whole table got quiet.. then they conveniently changed the subject.. I was dismissed
"Why yall dont take out the trash"
"Why I gotta tell you when something needs to be done"
"Why I gotta tell you to fix the dishwasher"
"Why yall dont take initiative"
(Followed by "Yass girl" and high fives)
O.T.I.S.
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Foreal…
I think they think lead is they do nothing or something.
He makes all the decisions and does all the work? Because I feel like they just be parroting shyt
Should’ve asked “Why don’t yall follow” right back. Can’t be TWO leaders, can there?
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bourgeoisie tall freak
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I always ask this when this topic comes up on this forum and nobody ever has a decent answer.
What needs to be lead if you are a grown responsible person, other than if there are kids involved.
