Sistaz are asking "why wont yall lead?"

[reserved_one]

Because they wanna lead themselves

 

[Lucky_Lefty]

anything other than walking away laughing is the wrong answer

grand opening....grand closing

 

[Belize King]

Who is Kandi?

There’s a thread about her. She’s the woman from Xscape. She’s getting a divorce from her husband of eleven years.

 

[rabbid]

Not just black women, but yeah they do be the loudest sometimes. I remember I was smoking hookah with a bevy of birdbrains just like this. Had to keep my head down and make sure the bottles and coals were fully stocked. Then they look at you and just stare hoping you'll rope yourself in. "NOT RABBID YALL HE NOT LIKE THAT HE DECENT.... BUT ANSWER" -- knowing damn well I'm getting the business if I wasn't sitting there.

Last time this happened to me it was a bunch of filipina women. Had to go to the next room and take a nap after, but at least they knew how to let shyt go and not turn it into a whole back and forth. that's the issue with large groups of babbling women if you forget to rally the troops then you gonna have to represent the State of Men like its Congress.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

When I see a group of women congregated together, especially when there’s alcohol involved, I avoid them like the plague. I just know the bird babble will be on steroids. I don’t need to hear that shyt.

You realize how many of them are devoid of any real personality or nuanced opinions. They’re just echo chambers of Shea butter twitter.

 

[invalid]

One of the best things my dad taught me is not being afraid to piss off your woman/Mom/sister/female coworker if what you are about to say needs to be said.

Lots of men think they will be struck down by God if they piss off women.

exactly
if you knock on the door
a real man gone answer that muffucca

 

[MyApps]

And THIS is why men should be cold approaching GROUPS of women.

You develop immunity to their opinions on shyt when its 5 v 1.

Ain't no way in hell are group of women gonna ask me something and im not gonna give a full opinion without giving a fukk about their feelings.

As for the host you're "banging"

Don't ever let her tell you she's gonna "give you some" if that's the case, you need to let her give you some while you fukk the bytch that actually appreciates the dikk.

Your welcome.

 

[Marco Zen]

When I see a group of women congregated together, especially when there’s alcohol involved, I avoid them like the plague. I just know the bird babble will be on steroids. I don’t need to hear that shyt.

You realize how many of them are devoid of any real personality or nuanced opinions. They’re just echo chambers of Shea butter twitter.

Totally delusional...

One of em legit said "my ex husband is white but I still wanna know why black men won't act right?"... the rest of them laughed... then she said hes now seeing a man...

the laughter awkwardly stopped





While I did everything to hold my laughter in..

 

[Marco Zen]

exactly
if you knock on the door
a real man gone answer that muffucca

And THIS is why men should be cold approaching GROUPS of women.

You develop immunity to their opinions on shyt when its 5 v 1.

Ain't no way in hell are group of women gonna ask me something and im not gonna give a full opinion without giving a fukk about their feelings.

As for the host you're "banging"

Don't ever let her tell you she's gonna "give you some" if that's the case, you need to let her give you some while you fukk the bytch that actually appreciates the dikk.

Your welcome.

Adult men know when to speak and when to stfu

 

[MyApps]

Adult men know when to speak and when to stfu

 

[Savvir]

Ain't no way in hell are group of women gonna ask me something and im not gonna give a full opinion without giving a fukk about their feelings.

/thread

 

[invalid]

Adult men know when to speak and when to stfu

*adult men who grew up in matriarchal environments

masculine energy projects
feminine energy is yielding

an adult man *knowing* when*to*stfu* means you're yielding your masculine energy over to the opposite sex. that is a relationship dynamic that is not in balance to the natural order of things

i don't blame you at all
the black community in general is out of balance so many men grow up believing abnormal unnatural relationship dynamics are actually normal when they are not

^^and this is the reason why we're not leading^^

*and as an addendum, this does not apply to *marriage* which is a slightly different dynamic where a dance is played between maintaining a clear hierarchy while both partners are equally submitting to each other creating a sense of shared power being expressed in complimentary ways*

 

[Remote]

There’s a thread about her. She’s the woman from Xscape. She’s getting a divorce from her husband of eleven years.

Going back on the market at age 49.

 

[MajesticLion]

Should’ve asked “Why don’t yall follow” right back. Can’t be TWO leaders, can there?

As far as the situation in the OP...this path-of-least-resistance thing people do with women has proven to create a lot more problems than it solves.

 

[Belize King]

Going back on the market at age 49.

Ha! She will be straight. She can go hot girl route and date the ages between 40-70, find a twice divorced baller, or go the Niecy Nash route and sponsor some bum man or woman.

I’m thinking she will choose the third that will put that strap on her. Some of them studs are more territorial than men though.

Kandi seems like she like to be out there. She will probably find something young that can match her energy. No money needed. Coli Brehs step up.