Sistaz are asking "why wont yall lead?"

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Man I told them mfs lets for arguments sake say a man checks all these boxes. Hes a protector, a provider, he rubs your back, he makes you laugh, he leads, fukks you when you want, gives space when you want, hes 100% honest blah blah lets say all the boxes are checked. Basically hes perfect. Do yall really think there's this perfect man out there in the cereal aisle just waiting for you to find him??? .... the whole table got quiet.. then they conveniently changed the subject.. I was dismissed






"Why yall dont take out the trash"
"Why I gotta tell you when something needs to be done"
"Why I gotta tell you to fix the dishwasher"
"Why yall dont take initiative"

(Followed by "Yass girl" and high fives)

Those things aren’t exclusive to black men.

 

[Umoja]

It's funny because it is quite easy to turn that question on them. Being a leader involves knowing when to cut people loose.

If you're running a business and dealing with an employee who is confrontational, unreliable, obnoxious etc., you're not going to stick around if you have a good head on your shoulders.

 

[invalid]

Had to go to the next room and take a nap after, but at least they knew how to let shyt go and not turn it into a whole back and forth.

and this is how feminine energy yields when a man exerts his territory.

 

[cyndaquil]

I understand what they're trying to say.. the problem is they're only repeating a talking point they got from some idiot on social media, not really understanding what it means because the idiot they got it from is only talking that "you need to leave him" nonsense...

Before I walked off I suggested to these ladies that maybe their expectations of the black man are a bit unrealistic and despite the shyt they hear online everything ain't always his fault, meet us halfway on some shyt, communicate better blah blah... Then they said

"see how hes gaslighting"
"Yep!! Thats what they always do"
"Boy bye"

I was dismissed again




Shawty still turned all the way around in her chair giving me the "you did good ima give you some when they leave"

Should've put this video on the tv then walked off and played the game

 

[Fani Willis fan]

Gotta stop listening to what women say and watch what they do.

 

[Kornball The Conqueror]

Gotta stop listening to what women say

Fixed

 

[Roid Jones]

OP should have sat and listened to each woman's individual story, sincerely apologized on behalf of black men and then pledge to lift each woman's crown #wecan'tdoitwithoutyou

 

[Peak]

i was asked this by a group of black women at a dinner party. it was a "girls party", handful of women from 25 to 50, divorced, married , "fumbled" etc.. sitting around sipping wine and yapping. only reason i was there because im banging the host and had to help set up food and shyt..

i tried to stay away from the party, chilling downstairs on the PS5. i tried to covertly go upstairs quietly grab a plate and go but couldn't make it past the table without being called over to "give a black mans perspective" to their conversation

"soo whats wrong with the black man today" one asked

then i think all of them said collectively "why wont yall lead!!!?" (as in the relationship).. and started to give ridiculous examples

i had to tread lightly answering that dumb ass loaded question while at the same time playing dumb because shawty was turned in her chair like "nikka proceed with caution "


black women really need to take a break from the "life advice" they're getting from social media

Leave the hostess. She is already compromised.

 

[Still Benefited]

I mean this with no malice, but I realized over the years that a large number of Black Women are clueless on how to interact with Men. They grew up in such a gyno-centric society the past 50 years, they literally have 0 clue on what makes men tick, our likes or dislikes, how to validate our feelings, how to really get our attention. In their mind, it doesn't matter. They see through you, because Men are a utility and a means to an end

This is because most of you arent interesting. We are just a bunch of black men following our programming/software. Saying what we are supposed to say. Most out of fear of being blacklisted in white supremacy. Or fear of missing out on some damn p*ssy like the OP. They see through the modern black man because he is an empty shell of himself. Education is key,and yall refuse to do the knowledge it takes to be GOOD leaders. Because make no mistake,you are definitely leading. Just leading from our divine feminine#TheChildOfWomen

 

[BuckFilly]

"Banging the host".....

Right….sounds like a made up scenario

 

[Yaboysix]

Right….sounds like a made up scenario

Bruh!!!

 

[JealousOnesEn_V]

Man I told them mfs lets for arguments sake say a man checks all these boxes. Hes a protector, a provider, he rubs your back, he makes you laugh, he leads, fukks you when you want, gives space when you want, hes 100% honest blah blah lets say all the boxes are checked. Basically hes perfect. Do yall really think there's this perfect man out there in the cereal aisle just waiting for you to find him??? .... the whole table got quiet.. then they conveniently changed the subject.. I was dismissed






"Why yall dont take out the trash"
"Why I gotta tell you when something needs to be done"
"Why I gotta tell you to fix the dishwasher"
"Why yall dont take initiative"

(Followed by "Yass girl" and high fives)

They said all that yet you had to go upstairs to fix your own plate lmao

 

[King Poetic]

Why you won’t lead??

All that means to sisters is Financially nothing more than that

Say a sister makes $90k a year , they immediately run straight to the man should make 95,100k a year

Tell these new modern sisters today you make 50,55,60 K a year and they look past the black man, if its a white man then its ok ..

I work for a top insurance company and the 4 sisters on my job all make more than they husbands a few twice as much..

But the brother still take care of the lawn, fix wants need to be fix in the house and be nice to their wives..

the rest of these broads are to wrapped up in tyler perry movies and social media bulllshyt and thats why they single and complaining

But remember these same type of broads will still go out and fukk a random bummy nikka with nothing when she needs sex

 

[Biscayne]

I understand what they're trying to say.. the problem is they're only repeating a talking point they got from some idiot on social media, not really understanding what it means because the idiot they got it from is only talking that "you need to leave him" nonsense...

Before I walked off I suggested to these ladies that maybe their expectations of the black man are a bit unrealistic and despite the shyt they hear online everything ain't always his fault, meet us halfway on some shyt, communicate better blah blah... Then they said

"see how hes gaslighting"
"Yep!! Thats what they always do"
"Boy bye"

I was dismissed again




Shawty still turned all the way around in her chair giving me the "you did good ima give you some when they leave"

They basically roped you in, so you as a black man could validate them. Anything short of “because we black men ain’t shyt” wouldn’t have sufficed. I’ve known and have dated women who have been addicted to that TikTok black women/anti black male, anti relationship pipeline. And they’d send those videos to kinda shyt test.

 

[42 Monks]

coli gotta turn location on fr