Six Reasons Why Men Are Avoiding Marriage

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LadySimone said:
Yes Techinically they paying for a lot of things but this is the cost of living. Do you know what that phrase means? Cost of living?
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I know exactly what it means. And trust me I know how much it costs. I have kids.

You would be surprised how much the man is actually helping out yet all you hear is how he's a bum and won't do this or that. That's why u always keep those reciepts.

But There are plenty of dead beats and those guys will never change unfortunately. That didn't keep the women from having 3, 4 kids from him. He was bum then and now and they think he's gonna pay now? Good luck.

It's a depressing place to work because u see these kids stuck in the middle of countless litigation. Mom's want more money dad's want to disappear.
 
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Wild self said:
Gonna have to keep a Black Moor lawyer on deck so that this shyt can never escalate.
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Invest in an attorney, get custody or a solid 50/50 plan. Don't let it slide cuz they will rob you blind. And make you feel like you ain't shyt. Too many men just figure, oh well I get to see my kids on the weekends. They think they getting a good deal and freedom.
 
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I dont really care. I just wish people would stop asking me why im not married yet or why i dont have a child. Like men are the only ones that dont wanna get married. I never had aspirations so i dont think its the end of the world if a male or female decides its not foerthem.... I see no good examples in my life to make me want to change my mind anytime soon either....
 
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No_bammer_weed said:
These questions of yours have zero relationship with anything Ive said thus far. You've made these strawmans up, and completely avoided anything I have to say. You display a consistency when it comes to living in your own world of delusions, and outside of reality.

If one chooses to not get married, more power to you. The world aint gunna stop.

The black community doesnt have much of a divorce problem, but we damn sure have a niccas aint taking care of their kids problem. This maladaptive culture was reflected in the quick responses by some of the black men in this thread, who view the hypothetical situation of taking care of the children they personally create with anger and hostility. This is a red flag Im pointing out. Thats all.
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bullllllssshhhhhhiiiiitttttttt

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http://thinkprogress.org/health/2014/01/16/3175831/myth-absent-black-father/

stop parroting black feminist/pseudo white supremacist talking points
 
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SuperCoolP_Cal said:
20% of all BM ages 16-45 are single fathers.

42% of all BW ages 16-45 are single mothers.

Check CDC, US Census Bureau, and Pew Research between 2011 and 2013.

:sas1::sas2:

No matter how you slice these stats, the only rational conclusion you can draw from them is that you have a plethora of BW dog-piling on a the exact same minority of BM and are having kids by them.
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This is the only thing I've found (from the Pew Research) and it does not correlate with your number http://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2013/07/02/the-rise-of-single-fathers/
Do you have a link for your 40 - 20 percent stats? :sas1:

Either way there would be no definite way to track single fathers if the father is not in the child's life. If and man has "skeeted and retreated" and left the mother to fend for herself she will be recorded as a single mother through her tax forms. The man can still file his taxes as a single childless man. :ufdup:
 
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Ebonic Plague said:
I know exactly what it means. And trust me I know how much it costs. I have kids.

You would be surprised how much the man is actually helping out yet all you hear is how he's a bum and won't do this or that. That's why u always keep those reciepts.

But There are plenty of dead beats and those guys will never change unfortunately. That didn't keep the women from having 3, 4 kids from him. He was bum then and now and they think he's gonna pay now? Good luck.

It's a depressing place to work because u see these kids stuck in the middle of countless litigation. Mom's want more money dad's want to disappear.
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I Feel sorry for these men. Having all those kids against their will. Rape ain't right!
 
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Ebonic Plague said:
I know exactly what it means. And trust me I know how much it costs. I have kids.

You would be surprised how much the man is actually helping out yet all you hear is how he's a bum and won't do this or that. That's why u always keep those reciepts.

But There are plenty of dead beats and those guys will never change unfortunately. That didn't keep the women from having 3, 4 kids from him. He was bum then and now and they think he's gonna pay now? Good luck.

It's a depressing place to work because u see these kids stuck in the middle of countless litigation. Mom's want more money dad's want to disappear.
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Powerful.

Women deserve an equal amount of blame for allowing bum ass dudes to fukk them raw. It takes TWO to make a baby
 
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SUBZ said:
what do you nikkas plan on doing in your 40's-50's without any kids :what:


I have 2 uncles who don't have any kids and that shyt seems miserable as hell, who the fukk are y'all going to travel with, bring to family functions while everybody else except that 1 aunt or uncle who can't get anybody :mjpls:
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I have no problem traveling alone. I can go anywhere in the world and meet new ppl/women. My homeboy uncle is in his 50s with no kids and its seems like every month he is traveling to an exotic country and having the time of his life.
 
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