Six Reasons Why Men Are Avoiding Marriage

[The Maverick]

Yeah but we don't get an equal amount of blame, we get all the blame. We are always told we should've chose better, but for men it's "oh well, boys will be boys".

1. This is because women control the decision to birth the child or not. Her body, her choice.
2. Men don't suffer the physical/mental repercussions from child birth.
3. If a man states that he's against the pregnancy and she still carries to term, it's on her after that.

I do agree that there's a double standard, but it's simple to see where that comes from. Women and men will never be on equal ground sexually as long as the possibility of pregnancy exists. Nonetheless, more dudes need to step up to the plate as fathers. And more women need to educate themselves on preventing pregnancies.

 

[Elle Driver]

1. This is because women control the decision to birth the child or not. Her body, her choice.
2. Men don't suffer the physical/mental repercussions from child birth.
3. If a man states that he's against the pregnancy and she still carries to term, it's on her after that.

I do agree that there's a double standard, but it's simple to see where that comes from. Women and men will never be on equal ground sexually as long as the possibility of pregnancy exists. Nonetheless, more dudes need to step up to the plate as fathers. And more women need to educate themselves on preventing pregnancies.

But men do suffer, maybe not from child birth, but they suffer too through the entire process of having a child. A lot of men really suffer through miscarriages and abortions, and they feel the residual affects of post partum depression.

I agree with your point however, both men and women need to be careful with who they lay down with and have a child with. We know unfortunately a lot of children end up being in a tug of war with both parents because may be one parent feels resentment towards the other because it was an unwanted pregnancy, or they decided to forego marriage, or things feel apart. I think people really underestimate how really really fukked up you can become from being a parent. And if you have children, you protect your child at all costs, keep receipts, keep all records, and keep your child in the best home possible and sometimes that's without the mother present.

 

[Poetical Poltergeist]

I was being sarcastic.

I know but I wasn't defending the man.

 

[Tommy Sheppard]

I have no problem traveling alone. I can go anywhere in the world and meet new ppl/women. My homeboy uncle is in his 50s with no kids and its seems like every month he is traveling to an exotic country and having the time of his life.

sounds like he is tricking to me, if you want to spend your money on p*ssy in your 40's then salute to you I guess.

 

[The ADD]

I'd the mother and father are mature enough and selfless enough for their child, they know that having CS is immature and is a bad example for the kid. Only immature women will do that to a responsible father that is willing to support their kids.

Again has nothing to do with my statements or questions.

 

[Jahmal]

sounds like he is tricking to me, if you want to spend your money on p*ssy in your 40's then salute to you I guess.

I dont think he is but if he is so be it. Its less expensive and much more fun than being with a wife that is her 40s .

 

[GoldenGlove]

I always laugh when men talk all this ish like they have it figured out, your wife can change her mind any day breh. You have no control over someones else emotionsor feelings

Some people actually value commitment. The thought of someone who's married just waking up one day and saying, "I want a divorce" is kind of ridiculous.

 

[MikelArteta]

Some people actually value commitment. The thought of someone who's married just waking up one day and saying, "I want a divorce" is kind of ridiculous.

happens every day all across the world.

 

[DarkHorse23]

Dude?

Cac please go away. U sound stupid

I'll go away when you're honest about your true gender. bytch....

 

[William F. Russell]

This is the only thing I've found (from the Pew Research) and it does not correlate with your number http://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2013/07/02/the-rise-of-single-fathers/
Do you have a link for your 40 - 20 percent stats?

Either way there would be no definite way to track single fathers if the father is not in the child's life. If and man has "skeeted and retreated" and left the mother to fend for herself she will be recorded as a single mother through her tax forms. The man can still file his taxes as a single childless man.

Wrong.

If you're a man with a child, the government will count you as a parent (regardless if you're in your child's life or not).

 

[Mowgli]

I'll go away when you're honest about your true gender. bytch....

Why are you talking crazy like you really have a problem with me. I'm stunned because this isn't how men talk to brazillian jiujitsu brown belts in real life.

Have I offended you sensitive emotions?

 

[Tae]

Wrong.

If you're a man with a child, the government will count you as a parent (regardless if you're in your child's life or not).

How would the government know a man has a child if he lists himself as single on his taxes or census form, if he even fills any of those out?
There are also women out there who leave the father section blank on a birth certificate if the father has made it known he does not want to be in the child's life.
For the most part the government always knows when woman is a single mother, they do not always know if a man is a single father so statistics can be skewed.

 

[Mook]

So glad I'm not having kids with you losers.

You aint having kids with no one heffer

 

[DarkHorse23]

Why are you talking crazy like you really have a problem with me. I'm stunned because this isn't how men talk to brazillian jiujitsu brown belts in real life.

Have I offended you sensitive emotions?

What's with you and your jiujistsu brown belt boasting? Nikka that don't intimidate me. There is always the ultimate equalizer to deal with that....feel me? And you haven't offended me I just find your always critical comments about men and constant caping for women strange, especially from a so called "man".

 

[philmonroe]

nikka, did you avoid the "unconscionable" part? Even if they're not entered to under duress, courts will void Pre-nups if they're viewed as unconscionable, i.e. "unfair" or "unilaterally beneficial" to one side. Basically, they only have a limited effect.

Do the knowledge and stop talking out of your ass. Trust me, I'm a lawyer.

Yeah I did the knowledge that's why I said that shyt you talking is bullshyt Mr lawyer man. nikka must be an associate here