So brehs......i'm getting a divorce

[a murda]

Now waiting on a thread like this from a murda

 

[RicanFury]

i dunno you but (no ocean)

keep ya head up breh

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

I cant respect a dude who beats his wife, then cheats, then complains about her checkin out

But realistically, you will lose the House, Car, Kid, Alimony, and pay Child Support until the kids are 18.

You wasn't no real nikka Steve, you was just another lost nikka.

 

[Taadow]

Steve - you the dude and alldat, so imma say it like this:

You did this, mayne.

Even outside of the extra conflict, when you stepped to her talking in ultimatum terms you gave her an out-clause.

Ask yourself: do you still want her?












If so, you can fix this chit. No matter how she act, YOU can still act in ways to show that you want her. I ain't sayin' be a doormat, but moreso let her know you ain't givin' up your union lightly. Specifically, IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO DIVORCE HER, DON'T SIGN NO PAPERS.

If you don't still want her, be as co-operative as you can be while still being as distant as you say y'all are now. Keep it straight B.I. Let her know that she is the reason that y'all are divorcing. If she tries to come out of a bag on you at any time, follow that old customer service adage:

Say "no".
Talk low.
Let 'em go.

Meanwhile - hold ya head, cuzzo. There's always rain before a rainbow (no homo).

 

[Born2BKing]

 

[AquaCityBoy]

So this nikka cheated on his wife AND beat her ass and he's wondering why she doesn't want to work on their relationship?

She's getting smutted out while you're at work and is about to take your ass to the cleaners in court, nikka!

 

[Wepa Man]

HOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLD UP



You married a girl who already had a kid?

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

where have I been?
Steve my nikka I hate it had to be him

 

[TheBigBopper]

that link pretty much sums up why we are getting a divorce...

"...shyt ain't been right for a while now, and it's getting more and more distant as time goes by. there is almost no affection anymore, we only have sex like once a week (maybe), she is ALWAYS staring at her phone (nikka, and i mean ALWAYS), we never say i love you anymore, and she is generally just not checked in anymore. and because of that fact, i have checked out too. i don't try to initiate sex, i don't kiss or hug her when i come home or before i go to sleep or leave for work, i don't say anything to her unless she asks me a question, i don't call or text her throughout the day, and i just keep to myself. but somehow, she doesn't seem the least bit concerned. i look at her demeaner, and she seems to be just fine. i have a lot of years, a son, and a ton of money invested in this relationship, but i'm almost ready to say fukk it and throw the towel in. shyt is tearing me up, but 13 years is a LONG time to be with someone, and it's hard to just "let it go"...."


shyt was just unbearable at home. we got to the point where we were just passing ships in the night. i got tired of it, and decided to talk to her about it. This is how it went, pretty much:

me: i wanna talk to you...
her: *not this shyt again*
me: this relationship is progressively getting worse, and we either need to take major steps to fix it or go our separate ways.
her: so you think that the reason that our relationship is bad because of just me? You ain't perfect, you know...
me: i never said that i was perfect. i believe that we have a major disconnect and it either needs to be fixed or we should get a divorce.
her:
me: * on the inside* i guess there's no more to talk about then.
her:
me: * on the inside* aaight then....*goes in the livingroom to watch tv*
her: *sits on the opposite couch from me*

me:

i think i share that girl, brehs....as much as i hate to admit it...

That sounds terrible! By any chance, is your wife an aggressive type? Kind of an alpha dog among her peers? Almost masculine acting?

 

[TheBigBopper]

I forgot about that.

He hit her and cheated on her. That shyt about the hitting is definitely gonna come up in court

 

[61 Corpses]

this is what i been dealing with for a while now.

no kissing, no hugging, no i love yous, no touching, no talking, no goodnight, no goodmorning, no kiss hello or goodbye, no texting when we are apart, and if she does call me it's because of the kids or to ask me a question. never to see how i'm doing. shyt is real under my roof, breh....but i have a special bush with her name on it...

Damn breh, this sounds exactly like my marriage right now. I'm glad I got my jumpoff on deck though for when the shyt really gets real

 

[PoorTinkTink]

Damn breh, this sounds exactly like my marriage right now. I'm glad I got my jumpoff on deck though for when the shyt really gets real

Good shyt breh you always gotta have a spare in the trunk. Its only right

 

[Serious]

aint you like a DR. too breh.....



Marriage aint for successful cats.....

 

[T'Kuvma Da Unforgettable]

I forgot about that.

He hit her and cheated on her. That shyt about the hitting is definitely gonna come up in court

she cheated first...

dude took her back cuz she swore up and down it wasnt "physical" ..

shyt was a joke from the beginning

lol@wifing up a bytch with a 15 months old son

 

[Rominati]

Shorty bout to take you to the cleaners, better say bye bye to that Benz


Judge gon be like - "Mrs Piffler, please reconsider, read sum liter...."



While you wife gon be like - Nah