So brehs......i'm getting a divorce

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Was the beating under or over 2.5 punches??

:ld:anything greater than a 2 piece combo i can't get down with.Maybe we could have a coli bet on this,.
 
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How come you avoiding all the questions ?

-How many times did you hit her
-How many times did you cheat
-What is the nationality of both of your backgrounds?
-How many kids do you have?

Are you prepared to for the ridiculous amount that it costs to get a divorce? lawyer fees, court fees, it'll easily be $15,000 each or more.

so basically you :ufdup:
 

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:laff:

yall going in on his whip, and chiding him for an old physical dispute.

Good luck man, lets us know the turnout so we have a coli case study for the next thread where divorce comes up.

Isnt the kid hers from a previous relationship....i say you dodged a bullet there.
 

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that link pretty much sums up why we are getting a divorce...

"...shyt ain't been right for a while now, and it's getting more and more distant as time goes by. there is almost no affection anymore, we only have sex like once a week (maybe), she is ALWAYS staring at her phone (nikka, and i mean ALWAYS), we never say i love you anymore, and she is generally just not checked in anymore. and because of that fact, i have checked out too. i don't try to initiate sex, i don't kiss or hug her when i come home or before i go to sleep or leave for work, i don't say anything to her unless she asks me a question, i don't call or text her throughout the day, and i just keep to myself. but somehow, she doesn't seem the least bit concerned. i look at her demeaner, and she seems to be just fine. i have a lot of years, a son, and a ton of money invested in this relationship, but i'm almost ready to say fukk it and throw the towel in. shyt is tearing me up, but 13 years is a LONG time to be with someone, and it's hard to just "let it go"...."


shyt was just unbearable at home. we got to the point where we were just passing ships in the night. i got tired of it, and decided to talk to her about it. This is how it went, pretty much:

me: i wanna talk to you...
her: :comeon: *not this shyt again*
me: :blink: this relationship is progressively getting worse, and we either need to take major steps to fix it or go our separate ways.
her: so you think that the reason that our relationship is bad because of just me? You ain't perfect, you know...
me: :what: i never said that i was perfect. i believe that we have a major disconnect and it either needs to be fixed or we should get a divorce.
her: :hmm:
me: *:sadcam: on the inside* i guess there's no more to talk about then.
her: :manny:
me: *:sadbron: on the inside* aaight then....*goes in the livingroom to watch tv*
her: *sits on the opposite couch from me*
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me: :why::rudy:

i think i share that girl, brehs....as much as i hate to admit it...

I've been lurking here for a while and am in the same boat minus the ring. I just left my broad after fifteen years and two kids. Just hold your head high. Also look up and practice the 180 whether or not you want to try to reconcile or not. It's mostly mostly about getting you mentally prepared for life with wifey. Good luck my dude.
 

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Damn Steve **** is tuff breh. From what I've read your wife is most likely cheating on you for her to be so detached. When a woman doesnt give a **** anymore they can be the coldest creatures. Looking for love/lust else where is not going to help your current situation. You need to get out of the house and clear your mind and prepare for whats next. I understand you dont care what she takes, but just remember she's gonna have the next ***** rollin in your shyt and sleeping under your roof, so fight for whats yours. :whew:

And where the all the ladies at on the coli help the ***** out :what:
 
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