So how do I not fall in the loop of compliments when going out to meet ladies?

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

I hate bars for meeting women, unless it is a closed party at the bar and the women at that party are like the people throwing the party. Otherwise I have met some real fukked up broads at bars. Another thing that I don't like about bars is that some dudes are at their stupidest when alcohol and p*ssy are around.

Yea the pretend Alphas trying to get competitive and flex

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

The thing about learning blues is that it opens up the guitar neck. It stops being about the four frets next to the nut. I can solo in six positions for any key, and when you learn that, you learn the landscape of the guitar.

I would never say some stupid shyt like "You're playing is too fast and has no feeling...you should learn from guys like b.b king" cause I can play fast... well not as fast as Yngwie i'm closer to SRV.

I'm tryna get to that Ritchie Blackmore type level..i'm learning the solo to Highway Star right now actually..dude is my fav guitarist..

 

[Samori Toure]

Yea the pretend Alphas trying to get competitive and flex

Some dudes just can't even help themselves. They just get straight stupid when alcohol and p*ssy are around. Just retarded shyt like thinking that they can whoop 3 or 4 big ass bouncers inside of a small ass foyer at a bar. I seen that shyt one night. The bouncers fukked that dude up.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

If that feel good leads to something
Edit:
I think I want to be a manipulative motherfukker

That heel turn

 

[Brock Landers]

If it's a casual date you don't have to tell her shyt, if you're taking them somewhere upscale and she's dressed up then mention she's looking good when you pick her up or meet her A genuine compliment and a smile gets a lot more traffic with women than constantly doing some thirsty shyt

 

[360dagod]

The club is the best way for homeboy to get started...

Go by yourself and sink or swim...

If its loud, that means you gotta speak up...keep that same energy outside of it..

Simply chill for a bit, observe and then find something to go for..

I have a way easier time in clubs by myself than in the street

 

[HoloGraphic]

Display confidence and tease her.

 

[bucks3115]

Display confidence and tease her.

Dnt mind my english my native french

The problem with me i get 6 and 5 easily

But when i tried with 8 and 9 i always fail

I got a small scenario here ;

I went to a party i saw a nice brazilian chick
Her friend ana told me i will tell her dat u like her

She gave me a quick look and walk trough the kitchen
When i follow her she was surronded by guy

I just say hey what ur name , she was already booking her uber

So i lost interest
5 min later, she opened to main door and left

I follow her outside and ask for her number but my phone was off

She was in hurry , so she got inside the cab and told me , get my number from ana


Tell me wher did i go wrong ?
What was my mistake on that scenario

@Young Buck

 

[Cabbage Patch]

I think @O Fenômeno was trying to say the journey to being good at the guitar will instil in him real, grounded confidence that comes from having a skill, he can use that confidence in other areas of his life. Gaining a skill is him bettering himself

I think both are correct.

 

[Roid Jones]

I don't know if it already exists on the Coli, but if it doesn't then they need to have a sub-forum where guys can get and give advice on how to meet women. There are a lot of nerds on the Coli that make approaching women sound like some damn calculus problems or splitting the damn atom or something.

So this is a good subject. There is nothing wrong with guys trying to learn how to approach women the right way. Emphasis on the right way.

Rep + dap.

The only way a sub-forum like that would work is if dudes put up actual proof of the shyt they are saying pics videos etc (other forums do it) I know a few dudes on here actually back up their stories.

 

[Rozay Oro]

It's never too late...you sound like me..don't speak negative about a situation, or talk yourself down.

fukking 2chainz didn't pop until he was like 33 or something like that.

What are the things you doing to achieve your dreams? Taking some writer's courses? Acting/improv classes....practicing your music?


A good pair of frames goes a long way...I was wearing some busted frames, but got a good pair..half rimless, and they darken in the sun , and would get compliments on them...embrace the glasses or wear contacts..I don't fukk with contacts..I've embraced my glasses..I NEED them though.

Thanks for the motivation breh.
Only learning piano and guitar so far, although I should being doing something for the others. I'll be back in community college in like 2 weeks. My plan was to get a get a bachelor's in programming. Now I'm thinking of just self teaching programming and build a resume. Maybe transfer to NYU for scriptwriting and acting. I live in the south. Idk how I'll pay for that but I know that's the only way I'll be able to network and get more focused experience on that.
When I get more money maybe you can help pick some glasses. All I know is warby parker or glasses USA as sites to get nicer frames.

 

[Rozay Oro]

A lot of people that play guitar never get past playing open chords. Holla at me when y'all can play like this.

What's beyond open chords? Barre chords?

 

[Rozay Oro]

I don't know if it already exists on the Coli, but if it doesn't then they need to have a sub-forum where guys can get and give advice on how to meet women. There are a lot of nerds on the Coli that make approaching women sound like some damn calculus problems or splitting the damn atom or something.

So this is a good subject. There is nothing wrong with guys trying to learn how to approach women the right way. Emphasis on the right way.

Rep + dap.

All we got is the gems on dealing with women thread. I def agree

 

[HoloGraphic]

Dnt mind my english my native french

The problem with me i get 6 and 5 easily

But when i tried with 8 and 9 i always fail

I got a small scenario here ;

I went to a party i saw a nice brazilian chick
Her friend ana told me i will tell her dat u like her

She gave me a quick look and walk trough the kitchen
When i follow her she was surronded by guy

I just say hey what ur name , she was already booking her uber

So i lost interest
5 min later, she opened to main door and left

I follow her outside and ask for her number but my phone was off

She was in hurry , so she got inside the cab and told me , get my number from ana


Tell me wher did i go wrong ?
What was my mistake on that scenario

@Young Buck

You didn't talk to her long enough to form a connection and make her chase you.

She should always be more interested in you than you are in her.

Your interest should be 90% life purpose, 10% women. I'm exaggerating but doing this gives you alot of freedom of character which women find attractive.

 

[TheBoyDuddus]

What's beyond open chords? Barre chords?

Learn caged minor and major scales in every key.. basically, you need to know how to play chords up and down the neck.