So I got the, "You're the perfect guy for me, but..." speech today

[MikelArteta]

Yup, the thing most people miss are just the emotional ties.

The only woman that is the one anything is your mother .

As a man whose been a through everything I can tell folks there will always be someone better. Hotter, more compatible. But you won't know if you continue to hold on.

Fo

There is no such thing as "the one" there are thousands of women on this planet that you're very much compatible with, dust yourself off and get back in the game.


Even if your chick was 1 a million there'd be 3,000 chicks just like her.

 

[Guess Who]

I haven't even been through this whole thread...after page 3 I've only responded to the alerts. But it's been interesting to the see the varying responses...from the ppl who're sympathetic to getting negged for acting like a bytch, hahaha.

Glad you all were entertained.

 

[MikelArteta]

Right now somewhere there is q chick on her hands and knees praying for a nukka like you.

Only woman I'll cry for ever again is when my mom or grandma are sick or pass away.

More times than not people stay in horrible poisonous situations, because I love her I love him, after awhile you'll be thankful you got pulled out of that situation.

If someone doesn't see you as valuable their loss.

I always say be the man/woman
that When your ex is being cheated on, played, abused, feeling used, not getting attention that when they sit in their bed late at night they think what could have been

Every woman I've ever messed with whether she dumped me I dumped her, has always and I mean always tried to come back. But I don't play that

 

[Guess Who]

drake getting angry enough to punch a wall?

 

[Guess Who]

Right now somewhere there is q chick on her hands and knees praying for a nukka like you.

Only woman I'll cry for ever again is when my mom or grandma are sick or pass away.

More times than not people stay in horrible poisonous situations, because I love her I love him, after awhile you'll be thankful you got pulled out of that situation.

If someone doesn't see you as valuable their loss.

I always say be the man/woman
that When your ex is being cheated on, played, abused, feeling used, not getting attention that when they sit in their bed late at night they think what could have been

Every woman I've ever messed with whether she dumped me I dumped her, has always and I mean always tried to come back. But I don't play that

I agree 100%.

@the bolded...this has been my experience as well.

I can even say I handled this situation badly because I'm rarely in this situation. Most women I've dated, slept with, or been in a relationship with have put me on this pedestal where they worship the ground I walk on. That's probably why the shyt with this woman bothered me so much...it was a blow to my ego more than anything.

Overall, I think y'all nikkas think I'm sweating this shyt waaaaay more than I actually am.

 

[Guess Who]

Just let my 15 year old son ready your post....


All he said was 'Simpin at its finest!'


I'm sooo proud, I'm raising a KING over here.

That lil nikka is 15...he ain't never been in LOVE my nikka! He ain't never been in no love....




Respect for raising your seed, though. My father decided not only to not stick around in my life after splitting with my moms, but to stalk the woman and threaten her life, and literally be the breaking point that sent her to the hospital with a nervous breakdown that eventually led to years of psychosis and other health problems. Basically, I didn't grow up with no parents. Good for you for teaching your kid how to be a man. I'm still trying to figure that shyt out, homie.

 

[Matt504]

I just don't want to get my hart broke.

 

[Guess Who]

There's an exception to this rule, and it's the "vengeance is mine saith the lord" provision after a little time has passed.

You know your ex is back to being single and has been striking out, you on the other hand have a better looking wifey who is an improvement in every way, or you're doing something exciting with your life. Without even throwing it in her face, sending that friend request on FB and letting her peer into your new life without her.........most women cant handle that curveball coming back around.

Funny is that's why she came back around...she saw what my life was becoming and the type of lifestyle I was leading. I have a google presence and she googled a nikka and saw the details. When her and I started dating I was just a dreamer who hadn't seen any results yet. Fast-forward two years and...well things are a lot different in my life.

More details not in the OP (for comedic reasons): She tried to fukk me a couple times and I turned her down (as if sex is my currency...I ain't most dudes...I can go out any given weekend and find 3 thots without having to even approach a woman...I'm 6'4, funny, smart, and good-looking). It's only been very recently where I've entertained the thought of getting back with the woman because it seemed she had changed her fair-weather gf ways.

 

[Guess Who]

I got this speech the other day, shorty I been cool with for years. We was having a casual sex thing since last year. Told me I was everything she wanted in a husband but I'm not making enough money and she wanted "stability".

We still cool, her new man flying her all over the world (Jamaica, Italy etc.)

That sure as hell wasnt gonna be me doing that so I just gotta keep it pushing. Same to you OP.

Can't blame a woman for not wanting to hitch her wagon so to speak to a nikka that doesn't have his shyt all the way together.

Just put it behind you OP, I'm in the middle of doing the same shyt

Looks like you dodged a bullet my dude. Don't even sweat it. She likes the other dude because what he can provide for her, not because of him. She sounds selfish. Would you want a woman like that to raise your children?

 

[Guess Who]

I JUST recently got broken up with, after 6 years. i deleted her number, but i know it by heart.

pretty much dealing with the fact that i lost the one.

There'll be another "one" my dude.

Go out and have fun with your friends, start some new projects, get in better shape if you aren't in shape already. Don't get into any serious relationship for at least a year, though. Those relationships where you were really in love take the longest to get over.

Just remember, if it didn't work out, there was probably a reason, so the only reason you should dwell on it is to figure out what went wrong and what mistakes you made so as to learn from it and become a better man for the next lucky lady who enters your life.

 

[Guess Who]

yeah she is. he popped up while she was with a new man. you think she just gonna drop her new man just like that because some old dude pops up? shyt takes time.

and I've been in that situation before.

Nah, I didn't just pop back up. She did.

Here's my theory as to what happened. Given that she is 1. Young. 2. Emotional with impulse control issues. 3. Recently discovered that she's sexy and dudes like here. I think when she was with me other nikkas were sweating her so she figured she could break up with me and play the field. Now she realizing that there are a lot of dudes out there who can bat, and catch, and maybe steal some bases, but I'm a 5-tool player, and there ain't many of them out there. So after we broke up, she linked up with some next dude quickly, only to realize what she fukked up with.

That, however, is her loss. Cuz I'm gone baby gone like Gnarls Barkley. I ain't sticking around for her to "make a decision" and "figure things out."





The more I write about this woman the more I wonder what I even saw in the woman to begin with...

 

[Guess Who]

Tell her to go fukk herself and delete and block her number.

Bwahaha. I've already deleted her number. No need to tell her to go fukk herself, though I know she wouldn't be able to handle that shyt.

Like a lot of women that try to emasculate dudes...deep down she's a p*ssy and she knows I know that.

 

[Guess Who]

Once a bytch nikka always a bytch nikka

If you say so, haha.

 

[Guess Who]

if he didn't punch the wall it would have been something else.

That's what my momma said! I shoulda listened to her!!

 

[Lavish]

Nah, I didn't just pop back up. She did.

Here's my theory as to what happened. Given that she is 1. Young. 2. Emotional with impulse control issues. 3. Recently discovered that she's sexy and dudes like here. I think when she was with me other nikkas were sweating her so she figured she could break up with me and play the field. Now she realizing that there are a lot of dudes out there who can bat, and catch, and maybe steal some bases, but I'm a 5-tool player, and there ain't many of them out there. So after we broke up, she linked up with some next dude quickly, only to realize what she fukked up with.

That, however, is her loss. Cuz I'm gone baby gone like Gnarls Barkley. I ain't sticking around for her to "make a decision" and "figure things out."





The more I write about this woman the more I wonder what I even saw in the woman to begin with...

Oh well that changes everything, if she's the one who popped up she she's automatic bushes. Your not gonna jump when she say how high..