so I looked in my girl's phone on some Drake shii and...

[Nemesis]

the only problem with these responses is technically im in the wrong for going thru her phone. im just gonna keep it to myself and peep game.

im not worried bout getting cheated on, dude lives in another country. my main issue is that this loser ass nikka thinks he's slick and my gf is letting it slide. but IF I did that shyt she'd flip. even if it was just harmless. this nikka is runnin that "Lame Lance" game. I'm not stupid.

i put a note in my calendar to ask a harmless question regarding the matter in a week. gotta be strategic. ​

Dude if your girl is even half decent looking at least 50% of the males that know her want to smash....

There is an old saying "If you want to sleep at night dont marry a beautiful woman"...

bottom line just bring his name up casually and say "i know the dude likes you".. and see her reaction..

women like attention, so even though she might have no intention of ever getting with this dude she likes the attention


One important thing you need to pay attention to, you keep on saying dude is abroad so its a non issue... what you need to be asking yourself is..

If he were here would I be sharing her...or would she even be with me?

 

[winb83]

... she's got text messages from this dude that's her "best friend" in there.

key notes:

1. he refers to her as "boo" and "sweetie" numerous times (she doesn't return the pet names)
2. he's asked her what she was doing and she said she was about to go to my house (mentioned me by name)
3. they apparently go way back but she told me when we met that she's NEVER had relations with him. (I didn't believe this shyt but whatever)

my thoughts.
-this nikka aint slick. he doesn't live here but I don't trust him
-I dont trust her either

I'm just gonna hold onto this knowledge and peep game in the immediate future. i think i might casually ask to meet this nikka as well.

either way, im prepared for whatever outcome. i been cheated on and had my heart broken before so I'll feel nothing if it comes down to it.

i got a roster on reserve just it case.

Am I wrong for going thru her phone?
Do I share that girl?

give it to me straight brehs​

Never confront a woman about some shyt you spied on her about. You'll just set yourself up to have the situation flipped on you.

You got a situation to deal with. She knows what this nikka is about and even if she ain't fukking him she shouldn't be dealing with a guy who's around disrespecting her man and her relationship by trying to get at her. That dude isn't a friend to her he's a vulture.

 

[opulence]

Going through your s/o things id never going to end well...sometimes we see things we are not supposed to that could be harmless...

But I believe if she were doing something you probably would've found nada papi...

 

[BruhMayne]

He calls her "boo" and she didnt check him even in the slightest?

share that girl bruh...

no for real, share that girl bruh, stop being stingy

 

[Im clue]

Its all good advice but yo havent u thought she might be testing you?.

 

[Art Barr]

QUESTION;

why are said texts still in her phone.
she is cheating and just does not know how to do it yet.

personally, i would not have gone through her stuff.
i would have peep the energy of the connection i had with her.
which maybe you are not in tune with that made you snoop in the first place.

which, in all my experience.
if the energy changes in a relatio ship with a girl.
you might as well cut her off.
as she has started to find or seek ways to move on anyway.

personally,..i think you sharing. as who keeps messages from people who they are not fukking and they have fb type nicknames for you.

cut ol girl off into lover status.
her friendship with dude is a violation any fukking way.

girls and guys past twenty sumfin who are black are not friends typically.


art barr

 

[Shameonyou]

this is why men and women being friends is a fukking idiotic idea....nikkas will never be stronger than their dikk if they aint mentally trained to do so....

this dude should have his own bytch to be occupied with some shorty out of his own country...our men are so lost its depressing.

 

[verbalkint]

Yeah her entertaining it is the most pressing offense imo. But by going through the phone. Any evidence get's thrown out in court in that case...

 

[Art Barr]

Dude if your girl is even half decent looking at least 50% of the males that know her want to smash....

There is an old saying "If you want to sleep at night dont marry a beautiful woman"...

bottom line just bring his name up casually and say "i know the dude likes you".. and see her reaction..

women like attention, so even though she might have no intention of ever getting with this dude she likes the attention


One important thing you need to pay attention to, you keep on saying dude is abroad so its a non issue... what you need to be asking yourself is..

If he were here would I be sharing her...or would she even be with me?

you never bring another nikka name up.
unless you cutting that bytch off for blatantly being caugt redhanded.
if you do,..
you look weak and jealous faced't type bringing ol dude up.
plus not making a move!
a man makes when his respect and space been violated.
either break up with ol girl cite'n no reason.
or stay in it and get played't and hurt.
fukk getting played't and hurt.

ol' girl is lover status at the most.
plus, her swag is lame and corny anyway.
at least get cheated on and disrespected by a girl with real game and premium level cheater swag.
with nikka named elaine in her phone or some shyt.
no way i get played by ol girl with a blatant nikka name in her phone.
that is that i am on the phone in front of you cheating, hee hee bullshyt.



art barr

 

[Nintendough]

... she's got text messages from this dude that's her "best friend" in there.

key notes:

1. he refers to her as "boo" and "sweetie" numerous times (she doesn't return the pet names)
2. he's asked her what she was doing and she said she was about to go to my house (mentioned me by name)
3. they apparently go way back but she told me when we met that she's NEVER had relations with him. (I didn't believe this shyt but whatever)

my thoughts.
-this nikka aint slick. he doesn't live here but I don't trust him
-I dont trust her either

I'm just gonna hold onto this knowledge and peep game in the immediate future. i think i might casually ask to meet this nikka as well.
either way, im prepared for whatever outcome. i been cheated on and had my heart broken before so I'll feel nothing if it comes down to it.

i got a roster on reserve just it case.

Am I wrong for going thru her phone?
Do I share that girl?

give it to me straight brehs​

Jumps get shared everyday B


Seriously though, he smashed the guts. It really isn't possible for a chick and a dude to be friends without some questionable history anymore. I have a female homie that introduced me to her BF once and I was respectful....even though I knew that I had her all on me in the bed when they were having problems. Your lady's "friend" is waiting in the trees like a ninja, waiting for another chance at the insides. Throw her in the bushes breh, do it for mankind

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Hes just a demon testing the demonic waters. Maybe they had a moment once upon a time. If you were a man, you'd tell her you dont want her talking to him anymore and then tell her you went through her phone. What is she going to say. If she leaves you what did you lose. A woman who has a man and lets other men text her and sweet talk her with demonic pet names. I think manning up in in order, friend.

 

[sixsixtwo]

1. Going through her phone was a real "Covergirl" move.. (Lame.)

2. Meet up with the dude, for what? You treating him to brunch or something? C'mon now..

3. If you got a "roster", why you cuffing so hard? It's not your p*ssy, just your turn..


Straight up no chaser.. Not trying to diss or clown, just another perspective..

 

[Why-Fi]

I'll feel nothing if it comes down to it.

i got a roster on reserve just it case.
​

meaning you really dont give a shyt about her anyweay, and you need to be out getting some ass yourself instead of looking for shyt you dont want to find...

you knowing isnt going to stop anything

 

[Ain't That Something]

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[Ain't That Something]

Hes just a demon testing the demonic waters. Maybe they had a moment once upon a time. If you were a man, you'd tell her you dont want her talking to him anymore and then tell her you went through her phone. What is she going to say. If she leaves you what did you lose. A woman who has a man and lets other men text her and sweet talk her with demonic pet names. I think manning up in in order, friend.

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