so I looked in my girl's phone on some Drake shii and...

kevm3

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lol that negro better be gay calling your woman boo or sweetie

you did the right thing. lol@you shouldn't check because you might find something you didn't want to see. so if he doesn't discover it, i guess it doesn't exist. You ain't going to go to no doggone used car lot, look at a car, say, "that baby is pretty. I want it. I'm not going to get it checked out because I don't want to be disappointed if it doesn't work." If you're putting that investment in, you better make sure it's not a lemon.

Better for you to find out now before you get more emotionally attached or she possibly pins a kid on you or something of that nature. I be telling cats they don't know what in the world their woman is up to unless they check up on her from time to time. Don't bring it up with her, but you needa keep an eye on her. Lol @ her 'best friend.' If that negro ain't a homo, 1) why is he calling her boo or sweetie and 2) what in the world could they have in common to be 'best friends' like that and 3) is she ever meeting up with her 'best friend'?

if that was her best friend like that and she was respectful, she would have introduced ya'll some time. Think about how she would take it if you had a best friend that was a woman calling you boo or sweetie that you've never mentioned to her. I ain't saying she definitely did anything or is planning to, but that's a flag and you better keep that guard up.
 

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lol that negro better be gay calling your woman boo or sweetie

you did the right thing. lol@you shouldn't check because you might find something you didn't want to see. so if he doesn't discover it, i guess it doesn't exist. You ain't going to go to no doggone used car lot, look at a car, say, "that baby is pretty. I want it. I'm not going to get it checked out because I don't want to be disappointed if it doesn't work." If you're putting that investment in, you better make sure it's not a lemon.

Better for you to find out now before you get more emotionally attached or she possibly pins a kid on you or something of that nature. I be telling cats they don't know what in the world their woman is up to unless they check up on her from time to time. Don't bring it up with her, but you needa keep an eye on her. Lol @ her 'best friend.' If that negro ain't a homo, 1) why is he calling her boo or sweetie and 2) what in the world could they have in common to be 'best friends' like that and 3) is she ever meeting up with her 'best friend'?

if that was her best friend like that and she was respectful, she would have introduced ya'll some time. Think about how she would take it if you had a best friend that was a woman calling you boo or sweetie that you've never mentioned to her. I ain't saying she definitely did anything or is planning to, but that's a flag and you better keep that guard up.

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Time is the most precious resource.

But if you really got a roster than dont fret breh, just keep it pushin.
 

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Dump her, she's clearly entertaining the thought of cheating, so leave her before it happens. Don't mention it either.
 

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Eh, if you like her just keep treating her right and this simp won't get near shyt.
 

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If you aren't sharing her physically you're sharing her emotionally which makes it easier for him to take her.
 

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Nope.
Yes you were wrong for going through her phone. She's just as entitled to privacy as you are.

You need to take her at her word until she proves otherwise. So far you're still projecting.

They fukked

Not necessarily.
 

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For one, you lost for looking in your chicks phone on some "oh, she's gonna hurt me shyt". For two, you lost on her not telling you she had a male friend because that should've came up in the first few convos after or before you got w/ her. Now you're gonna fukk this whole relationship up because you're a simp who worries about somebody else fukking your chick. That means you lost because you're obviously not doing something right. :huhldup: Get your shyt together, brother
 

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If your relationship is solid you wouldn't have to worry bout that shyt or look thru a broads phone for info regardless if it's a "friend" or some thirsty nikka trying to fukk your girl.

wtf is the state or your relationship? Yall good? She changing up on you? bytch acting up? Yall got issues? Still spending the same amount of time together like you used to? Still fukk on the regular? and etc etc.....
 

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lol that negro better be gay calling your woman boo or sweetie

you did the right thing. lol@you shouldn't check because you might find something you didn't want to see. so if he doesn't discover it, i guess it doesn't exist. You ain't going to go to no doggone used car lot, look at a car, say, "that baby is pretty. I want it. I'm not going to get it checked out because I don't want to be disappointed if it doesn't work." If you're putting that investment in, you better make sure it's not a lemon.

Better for you to find out now before you get more emotionally attached or she possibly pins a kid on you or something of that nature. I be telling cats they don't know what in the world their woman is up to unless they check up on her from time to time. Don't bring it up with her, but you needa keep an eye on her. Lol @ her 'best friend.' If that negro ain't a homo, 1) why is he calling her boo or sweetie and 2) what in the world could they have in common to be 'best friends' like that and 3) is she ever meeting up with her 'best friend'?

if that was her best friend like that and she was respectful, she would have introduced ya'll some time. Think about how she would take it if you had a best friend that was a woman calling you boo or sweetie that you've never mentioned to her. I ain't saying she definitely did anything or is planning to, but that's a flag and you better keep that guard up.

This would be all well and fine if he didn't make a thread a week or so ago asking to break up with her. If you are constantly looking for things to be wrong, you'll find them. Albeit, they may not be "wrong" you'll just convince yourself that they are. If you want to leave, just fukking leave. I think every man, I have ever spoken to uses this damn car analogy. Don't buy the car. If you ran the carfax and everything came back legit, stop tinkering with shyt and hoping the blinkers or windshield wipers stop working on some "aha, gotcha" shyt.
 
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