So I saw a Therapist today

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Mental illness and depression is not discussed enough in the Black community.

A lot of people don't believe in going to psychiatrist; however, sometimes you have to seek professional help.

You can't simply pray every problem off, sometimes a little clinical help is needed with that.
 

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Mental illness and depression is not discussed enough in the Black community.

A lot of people don't believe in going to psychiatrist; however, sometimes you have to seek professional help.

You can't simply pray every problem off, sometimes a little clinical help is needed with that.
Yea a majority of my family is on that "God's got it:ufdup:"

Wave but not me.

My dad was very supportive of me seeing a therapist and he's from the hood for real.
 

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Yea a majority of my family is on that "God's got it:ufdup:"

Wave but not me.

My dad was very supportive of me seeing a therapist and he's from the hood for real.
Yeah you doing right.

A lot of us are very deep in our faith and that's cool, but sometimes you have to take advantage of the additional supports that are out there.

A lot of Black people don't believe in professional help though.
 

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Can you go into further detail on what it was like? I've always been curious about therapy, but at this point I don't think I'd need it.
You greet your therapist and she gives a rundown of her educational background.

Explains to you that your convos are confidential, but if you're threatening the lives of others or yourself then she has to contact someone depending on the severity.

They ask you if you've ever self-harmed or contemplated suicide.

And that's really to understand how serious your issues are.

Then you go into a rundown of:
Family history
Drug or alcohol history
Traumatic history

Then after that they ask you why you believed you needed to see a therapist.

You give them your reasons.

Start talking about your life and why your there.

And most of that is just so they can understand who you are first before even offering any advice.

My therapist made it a point to give examples of her own life struggles so that I can understand that I shouldn't be ashamed of seeing a therapist.

Says she sees a therapist as well, and has been diagnosed with bi-polar disorder.

She gave me a mini-assessment and based on what I said she says I'm severely depressed.

I think the more I go the deeper I can go into my self-esteem issues.

Overall the session was 2 hours.
 

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Amazing!

I'm glad you took the first step into realising and resolving yourself. This is a long journey and it won't be nice or easy to say and hear all the things that will come up.

But keep showing up and progressing day by day and session by session.

Don't be afraid to talk about any setbacks or gloomy days where your progress is slowed.

Of course it all is dependent on how you share and how much you share. It may take a while to get comfortable with your therapist and even then, there are things that will take some clawing and work to bring up. Keep at it.

It took several years to become the you you are now. It's going to be a journey to recognize those behaviours and address them as well. It will not be a quick fix.

I'm proud of you!

:salute:
 

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No.

Like I said before my problems are way deeper than not getting p*ssy so that didn't even come up
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