So I was just confronted at work by my friend's husband.. EDIT!! WIFE resigned, Husband Charged....

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

@ Weak Wack Coward

You didn't win. Try again...

You're dense and want the last word

 

[SuavePrince]

You’re just as wrong as she is .

The bytch is married, first sign to fall back.

Women change like the weather. I don’t care if she ask you about the weather, back in Nov you shoulda been cautious - ring or no ring.

Even from these few paragraphs I could see the bytch wasn’t all the way there.

OP has a death wish, oh well

 

[BrothaZay]

OK..

He had a gun. Did he use said gun? He came to the job to scare OP. If he really wanted to make a point or statement, he should have took off on OP, knocked him out or socked him hard enough to let OP know that he ain't playing any games.

I never underestimate any man or woman. But, I also don't allow people to intimidate me either. OP said he own guns himself, so perhaps moving forward OP should have that thang on him just in case dude shows up again making idle threats.

My point is that OP need to ignore people on here coming down on him. My advice is for OP to let security get involved next time dude steps to him on some weird shyt.

Dumb logic. The first time was a warning over the phone. The second time was a pull up at his job with a pistol. What you think the third time will be?

 

[seabreeze80]

You should have pressed charges. Its not too late to do it. I have a feeling he has done this before.

 

[3rdWorld]

Didnt press charges..

That man is disturbed and needed to speak to government professionals whilst still hot but you let him off..

 

[Commish]

Dumb logic. The first time was a warning over the phone. The second time was a pull up at his job with a pistol. What you think the third time will be?

You have a lot of nerve questioning someone’s logic. You supposed to be a kiwe, right? So, why you worried about what “could” happen when it didn’t happen. If dude wanted to chip OP, then OP wouldn’t have made this thread because he would be dead.

That dude wasn’t gonna do shyt nor was he intending to do shyt. It was a scared tactic. You think he gonna shoot a man at a hospital I front of a bunch of witnesses? Yeah right!

 

[BrothaZay]

You have a lot of nerve questioning someone’s logic. You supposed to be a kiwe, right? So, why you worried about what “could” happen when it didn’t happen. If dude wanted to chip OP, then OP wouldn’t have made this thread because he would be dead.

That dude wasn’t gonna do shyt nor was he intending to do shyt. It was a scared tactic. You think he gonna shoot a man at a hospital I front of a bunch of witnesses? Yeah right!

Yes. I think a nikka that brings a gun to his wives job will kill someone...

 

[Commish]

Yes. I think a nikka that brings a gun to his wives job will kill someone...

Thinking and knowing are two different things.

 

[BrothaZay]

Thinking and knowing are two different things.

If you run into traffic I think you might get hit

 

[Commish]

If you run into traffic I think you might get hit

You could also think you might not get hit. What is your point?

If you feel that your life is in danger then you have options.

1. Get a gun and bring it to work. Use it, if necessary.
2. Get security involved and allow them to do their job.

3. Call the police and have them execute dude and get paid leave as well as praise from the dominant society.

What doesn't make sense is to agrue with strangers on what another stranger "could" do.

I have no dog in this fight because I deal with stable minded adults.

 

[5n0man]

How is this woman like a sister to you and yall been friends for years, but you don't know her husband well enough for him not to assume yall fukking?

How u not know this nikka at all if she's really like your sister?




You dead wrong breh, if you arent close enough to a married woman to also have a close relationship with her husband, then yall are not friends and you have no business talking or texting her outside of work related issues.


You were playing with fire and that nikka could have ended you, stop playing games and take it as a lesson.

 

[-Quikness-]

Because of the Covid crisis, most hospitals are not allowing visitors so when an employee orders food, etc.. If the person visiting has your name. The operator can buzz you to let you know there is someone here to see you and the manner for the visit(dropping off food or whatever).

I'm in triage, and I get called to the lobby and I see a older brotha pacing back & forward so I'm thinking its a family member concerned about their loved one which happens..

So he asks me my name, and he can clearly see it on my badge with my white coat which has it stitched in. Then he goes into a tirade about his wife and how I need to respect him and his household and stop texting his wife and that he warned me before.

I have a weird unisex first name so you don't know that I'm a man just looking at it on paper. One time I sent his wife a pic of us from last years christmas party so that's how he knew what i looked like.

I was nervous but security was near and this is my place of business. The brotha was hostile, I tried to get him to sit down and have some coffee with me so we can discuss it like men but he said no. I could also see a gun barrel in his waste which alarmed me. But I explained to him to his face that I have been friends with his wife for a couple of years, hell I was at their wedding but he claimed we never met.

And I told him if hes going thru her phone(which is wrong), what has he seen "inappropriate" from me?
I never text her "wyd", I never text her late, its always about things related to work. This dude has serious insecurities and I don't know whats going on in her household..

About two months ago she told me her husband was going thru her phone and she said we can't be friends no more, she wasn't even wearing her ring. I told her then I would respect that. No problem even though it was platonic.

So around late Nov, she started back texting me sometimes, totally innocent and that was it. So before he left he told me if he has to have this conversation with me again one of us "gotta go".. Parkland police are real police officers and they asked me if I wanted to press charges on his threats and I said no. Dude was talking so loud that everyone heard him..

Shes a nurse, so I went to that unit and told her what happened and told her to stay away from me, do not speak to me, if you see me coming down the hallway pretend i'm not there, had I not kept my composure, shyt could've went left. I think dude was waiting for me to get out of pocket so he could shoot me. He looked unhinged...

Now I'm trying to figure out if I did anything wrong. I should've told her back in NOV when she started contacting me again that this was not appropriate but I had honestly forgot about it because i NEVER looked at this woman this way, shes like a lil sister to me. Just confused...

Being friends with a female is always tricky, and even ill admit ive never been friends with a female and deep down not been attracted to her. Its great being friends with beautiful women, but if they are married you're playing with fire. I dont know you or know your character, but we are men, so lets just cut to the chase.

Most if not all of us want to get in their panties. Its just how the world works.

Maybe stay away from this woman.

 

[The Fukin Prophecy]

How is this woman like a sister to you and yall been friends for years, but you don't know her husband well enough for him not to assume yall fukking?

How u not know this nikka at all if she's really like your sister?




You dead wrong breh, if you arent close enough to a married woman to also have a close relationship with her husband, then yall are not friends and you have no business talking or texting her outside of work related issues.


You were playing with fire and that nikka could have ended you, stop playing games and take it as a lesson.

You on point here but I wouldn't say close relationship, on a first name basis and comfortable with you around his wife to invite you to the crib...

In other words the nikka has met and gauged you to not be a threat...If her husband don't know you at all, you most def should not be texting his wife like OP was...

Do not play that "work wife" shyt with married women...Its a stupid game with nothing but stupid prizes...

Always keep it professional...

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

You could also think you might not get hit. What is your point?

If you feel that your life is in danger then you have options.

1. Get a gun and bring it to work. Use it, if necessary.
2. Get security involved and allow them to do their job.

3. Call the police and have them execute dude and get paid leave as well as praise from the dominant society.

What doesn't make sense is to agrue with strangers on what another stranger "could" do.

I have no dog in this fight because I deal with stable minded adults.

So u think medical personal can carry guns inside a hospital

 

[the class]

So u think medical personal can carry guns inside a hospital

maybe unarmed people shouldn't be creating entanglements