So I was just confronted at work by my friend's husband.. EDIT!! WIFE resigned, Husband Charged....

[old pig]

Yo you real close to getting murdered OP. Hell I'd even consider getting a new gig or better stay strapped at work.

You should get a restraining order .

ya not pressing charges wasn’t the smart play imo

 

[heart]

You fukked. Stop lying. Your reaction says everything. You knew this woman was married and you sending her pics and shyt?

Naaa. You still kept on contacting her in November after you knew it was getting hot... you got confident and sloppy.

He is going to be waiting for you after work. Good luck.

No i didn't.

And for everyone asking about that pic, it was at the office social distance party, and there were others tagged in the pic and i was not even standing next to her. And she asked me to send that pic to her. We were all in front of the christmas tree. It was totally innocent.

I would NEVER disrespect their household. She was just a cool woman. Never even had a thought of getting with her.

 

[Jean Jacket]

OP you're an idiot. You're not fooling anyone talking about your texts were innocent. You shouldn't have been texting her once she said you can't be friends anymore. And folks wonder how they get themselves into situations

Breh leaving rabbit trail posts on here for proof of life...



This woman must be attractive, because the first thing he says that he "don't look at her that way"... Fastest way to end up on a t-shirt is to mess with an insecure dude's woman or an overprotective parent and their kids.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

blah blah blah blah

Dude, you the one in the wrong. That nicca is an emotional wreck but like @Born2BKing tried to tell y'all in a thread the other day... niccas will kill you over a beautiful woman.

Now I don't know if this chic is a 10 or not, maybe she ain't. But obviously she beautiful to him.

So first things first... you playing with fire there. When a man tells you to stay away from his wife, you stay away from her. All that "what did I say that was inappropriate" wasn't necessary and almost got you shot.

And still might get you shot depending on how unhinged this fool really is.

I've had folks tell me to stay away from their wife before. And guess what? I backed off and left her alone. that's what I did because it was the right thing to do, number 1, and number 2, you can't disrespect a man after he tells you that you're disrespecting him, and then you think you're gonna keep doing it without consequence.

Men are territorial and you gon be Casper the friendly ghost if you keep up what you're doing.

I don't care if every text you sent was innocent. Obviously he doesn't see it like that, and obviously he's an emotionally stunted territorial man.

So to protect yourself, back off.






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Now with that being said, if I could talk to him, I would tell him that he's out of pocket, number 1 for coming to your job, and number 2, for coming at you period. If he feels that you are being inappropriate with his wife, then he should be in HER face, telling HER to shut it down.

coming up to you barking and acting a fool could have got HIM shot or arrested. Dude is emotional and obviously doesn't wear the pants in his relationship.

And then he all wrapped up with this chic where he needs to understand that... regardless of what happens, you betta charge it to the game.

Now if he shoots you, then what? You dead, and he's in prison for the rest of his life.

Then his girl gon be single and boo'd up with a new man eventually anyway. He's dumb.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Dude talk to her and let her know, look we can only communicate at work and that’s it.. u married and U don’t trust your husband

u up here crossing boundaries with a married woman with texting and communicating with her outside of working hours

leave that bytch alone or u be laying up in the hospital

this fool about to be doing surgery on himself if he don't quit trippin

 

[The Realist Perspective]

OP is completely foolish to be texting a married woman. There is zero reason for you to be texting her. If ya'll need to talk about anything it will happen at work in public. People get too damn comfortable with this work wife / husband shyt.

I always say there are two things you should never fukk with, a man's woman or a man's money. Move smarter OP and quit trying to be cute.

 

[xXMASHERXx]

No i didn't.

And for everyone asking about that pic, it was at the office social distance party, and there were others tagged in the pic and i was not even standing next to her. And she asked me to send that pic to her. We were all in front of the christmas tree. It was totally innocent.

I would NEVER disrespect their household. She was just a cool woman. Never even had a thought of getting with her.

But you did based on what you have posted. Once she said that you can't be friends that should have been the end of your texting. You continuing to communicate with her just put a target on your back. I pray that you learn from this and move better.

 

[old pig]

He went to her wedding bro lol

not necessarily an indicator of a serious friendship...a coworker invited a few of us to her wedding...she and I didn’t even have each other’s numbers...we spoke at work occasionally...nothing serious...ironically dude stood her up at the same wedding under suspicion of her cheating

 

[CouldBeWorse]

The brotha was hostile, I tried to get him to sit down and have some coffee with me so we can discuss it like men but he said no. I could also see a gun barrel in his waste which alarmed me.

Parkland police are real police officers and they asked me if I wanted to press charges on his threats and I said no.

I tried to get him to sit down and have some coffee with me so we can discuss it like men

 

[Loose]

But you did based on what you have posted. Once she said that you can't be friends that should have been the end of your texting. You continuing to communicate with her just put a target on your back. I pray that you learn from this and move better.

Tbf it's not his fault people out here unhinged and insecure.

 

[SAINT]

You sound shook breh

 

[old pig]

this fool about to be doing surgery on himself if he don't quit trippin

 

[Mike_Pipeson]

OP, send me your login info before you get got

 

[xXMASHERXx]

Tbf it's not his fault people out here unhinged and insecure.

But it is his fault to continue communicating with a woman who has made it clear that there are issues with her marriage and that he needs to fall back. OP has no control of the husbands actions but he could have prevented himself from being in this situation if he cut her off.

 

[Blankthawtz]

Get shot for ALMOST gettin the p*ssy brehs...