So I was just confronted at work by my friend's husband.. EDIT!! WIFE resigned, Husband Charged....

[Easy-E]

So around late Nov, she started back texting me sometimes, totally innocent and that was it.

#GMB

Still asswhooping worthy in the wild

 

[Jean Jacket]

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The Lord is his shepherd... He know what he want

 

[Primetime21]

No i didn't.

And for everyone asking about that pic, it was at the office social distance party, and there were others tagged in the pic and i was not even standing next to her. And she asked me to send that pic to her. We were all in front of the christmas tree. It was totally innocent.

You framed it in the OP as a picture of “us”. Now it was a group pic Somehow he recognized you there but couldnt from the wedding. And you said he warned you before that fool was about to grip up on you. She’ll be trying to talk to you again soon, I guarantee it.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Get ya weight up. He wouldn't have said shyt to me. 6' 265

 

[Taadow]

I don't care if every text you sent was innocent. Obviously he doesn't see it like that, and obviously he's an emotionally stunted territorial man.




If he feels that you are being inappropriate with his wife, then he should be in HER face, telling HER to shut it down.

coming up to you barking and acting a fool could have got HIM shot or arrested. Dude is emotional and obviously doesn't wear the pants in his relationship.

This is the most important thing said in this thread.


It doesn’t matter if a your contact with a married man’s wife is “innocent” or not after you’ve already
been told that contacting her is a problem. Anything that happens if you violate that warning you bought
on yourself.

That said, you know this nicca is a bytch because he went behind his wife’s back to see you.
You shoulda had the desk call his wife down.

I understand how this happened, doe. OP - aren’t you the one whose mother was beefing with your wife
sometime ago? Yeah, you got a high Female Bullchit Tolerance. Need to fix that. Blessings.

 

[Jean Jacket]

I had the EXACT situation happen to me. Although I was fukking dude's ex wife. He came to my job. We got into it and his bytch ass was talking about I better have a gun next time I see him.

I didn't take it seriously.

The fakkit had someone shoot me 3-4 months later.


Stay Alert.

That's why I didn't let women that had baby dads know where I resided, or my job, or whereabouts. There is something about that womb that makes people get territorial. Once your name becomes a topic with the dude... it's time to cut it off and move on.

 

[BadBoy]

Damn op you let him bytch you out at ya job now everyone know you p*ssy

 

[Trajan]

You have no idea what kind of picture may have been built in that man's head

She hasn't been wearing her ring, possibly getting calls/texts from other dudes...perhaps she cheated in the past. Some women love the fukkery

Maybe's she's been telling him some funny shyt you did at work or always bringing you up at home. Then your name keep popping on her phone screen

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

You gotta just clap them cheeks now, so you don't end up dying for nothing..

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

You fukked. Stop lying. Your reaction says everything. You knew this woman was married and you sending her pics and shyt?

Naaa. You still kept on contacting her in November after you knew it was getting hot... you got confident and sloppy.

He is going to be waiting for you after work. Good luck.

The profile picture with this

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

You fukked. Stop lying. Your reaction says everything. You knew this woman was married and you sending her pics and shyt?

Naaa. You still kept on contacting her in November after you knew it was getting hot... you got confident and sloppy.

He is going to be waiting for you after work. Good luck.

Op looking for the boogie man in every crevice when he step out them doors

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

OP must be a naive handsome nikka

Nikka like "We was just friends!"

 

[NZA]

sucks. not much you can really do but stay strapped

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

@heart how bad is she?

 

[pickles]

Because of the Covid crisis, most hospitals are not allowing visitors so when an employee orders food, etc.. If the person visiting has your name. The operator can buzz you to let you know there is someone here to see you and the manner for the visit(dropping off food or whatever).

I'm in triage, and I get called to the lobby and I see a older brotha pacing back & forward so I'm thinking its a family member concerned about their loved one which happens..

So he asks me my name, and he can clearly see it on my badge with my white coat which has it stitched in. Then he goes into a tirade about his wife and how I need to respect him and his household and stop texting his wife and that he warned me before.

I have a weird unisex first name so you don't know that I'm a man just looking at it on paper. One time I sent his wife a pic of us from last years christmas party so that's how he knew what i looked like.

I was nervous but security was near and this is my place of business. The brotha was hostile, I tried to get him to sit down and have some coffee with me so we can discuss it like men but he said no. I could also see a gun barrel in his waste which alarmed me. But I explained to him to his face that I have been friends with his wife for a couple of years, hell I was at their wedding but he claimed we never met.

And I told him if hes going thru her phone(which is wrong), what has he seen "inappropriate" from me?
I never text her "wyd", I never text her late, its always about things related to work. This dude has serious insecurities and I don't know whats going on in her household..

About two months ago she told me her husband was going thru her phone and she said we can't be friends no more, she wasn't even wearing her ring. I told her then I would respect that. No problem even though it was platonic.

So around late Nov, she started back texting me sometimes, totally innocent and that was it. So before he left he told me if he has to have this conversation with me again one of us "gotta go".. Parkland police are real police officers and they asked me if I wanted to press charges on his threats and I said no. Dude was talking so loud that everyone heard him..

Shes a nurse, so I went to that unit and told her what happened and told her to stay away from me, do not speak to me, if you see me coming down the hallway pretend i'm not there, had I not kept my composure, shyt could've went left. I think dude was waiting for me to get out of pocket so he could shoot me. He looked unhinged...

Now I'm trying to figure out if I did anything wrong. I should've told her back in NOV when she started contacting me again that this was not appropriate but I had honestly forgot about it because i NEVER looked at this woman this way, shes like a lil sister to me. Just confused...

I see that you are shook a little bit and that is understandable?

Are you a doctor? NP?
I am going assume you work in ER?

Are you white? (lol)


How do you even know this woman that you are getting invited to her wedding?

I think you handled the situation well.
Yes you need to get security involved and never let that man in the hospital.
I do think you need some sort of restraining order though to show you are serious.

Also, you need this encounter in writing some how. I don't if you go to HR or whatever. But someone in the hospital need documentation of what happened.


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