So I was just confronted at work by my friend's husband.. EDIT!! WIFE resigned, Husband Charged....

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A married woman and another with a boyfriend used to stay comin’ at me at my old job. I flirted back but never did anything. They were both tryna upgrade from they nikkas and I don’t get down like that. When I actually got in a relationship with a different woman I cut them bytches off like diseased limbs... wouldn’t even say hi. They got together and made sure my new relationship failed out of jealousy... :skip:

shytting where I eat... :skip:

Nothing but women in the healthcare industry tho... :skip:
 
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I look like a linebacker to 99% of the population. Dudes done told me they wouldn't fight me. And my boxing gym back open. Speed and weight is a scary combo. Never sleep on fat nikkas:ufdup::ufdup:


Are you being paid like an NFL linebacker?
Can you fight a gun?
Can your speed and weight save you from a bullet?
Are you ready to be a sleeping fat nikka after foolishly thinking a dude would fight someone bigger than him?

You living in la la land man
 
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A married woman and another with a boyfriend used to stay comin’ at me at my old job. I flirted back but never did anything. They were both tryna upgrade from they nikkas and I don’t get down like that. When I actually got in a relationship with a different woman I cut them bytches off like diseased limbs... wouldn’t even say hi. They got together and made sure my new relationship failed out of jealousy... :skip:

shytting where I eat... :skip:

Nothing but women in the healthcare industry tho... :skip:

How did they manage to do that? :skip:
 

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A married woman and another with a boyfriend used to stay comin’ at me at my old job. I flirted back but never did anything. They were both tryna upgrade from they nikkas and I don’t get down like that. When I actually got in a relationship with a different woman I cut them bytches off like diseased limbs... wouldn’t even say hi. They got together and made sure my new relationship failed out of jealousy... :skip:

shytting where I eat... :skip:

Nothing but women in the healthcare industry tho... :skip:
Had a jealous and manipulative bytch fukk up me talking to another woman before :francis:

bytch til this day still spreading lies about me to anybody we mutually know :mjlol:
 

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Because of the Covid crisis, most hospitals are not allowing visitors so when an employee orders food, etc.. If the person visiting has your name. The operator can buzz you to let you know there is someone here to see you and the manner for the visit(dropping off food or whatever).

I'm in triage, and I get called to the lobby and I see a older brotha pacing back & forward so I'm thinking its a family member concerned about their loved one which happens..

So he asks me my name, and he can clearly see it on my badge with my white coat which has it stitched in. Then he goes into a tirade about his wife and how I need to respect him and his household and stop texting his wife and that he warned me before.

I have a weird unisex first name so you don't know that I'm a man just looking at it on paper. One time I sent his wife a pic of us from last years christmas party so that's how he knew what i looked like.

I was nervous but security was near and this is my place of business. The brotha was hostile, I tried to get him to sit down and have some coffee with me so we can discuss it like men but he said no. I could also see a gun barrel in his waste which alarmed me. But I explained to him to his face that I have been friends with his wife for a couple of years, hell I was at their wedding but he claimed we never met.

And I told him if hes going thru her phone(which is wrong), what has he seen "inappropriate" from me?
I never text her "wyd", I never text her late, its always about things related to work. This dude has serious insecurities and I don't know whats going on in her household..

About two months ago she told me her husband was going thru her phone and she said we can't be friends no more, she wasn't even wearing her ring. I told her then I would respect that. No problem even though it was platonic.

So around late Nov, she started back texting me sometimes, totally innocent and that was it. So before he left he told me if he has to have this conversation with me again one of us "gotta go".. Parkland police are real police officers and they asked me if I wanted to press charges on his threats and I said no. Dude was talking so loud that everyone heard him..

Shes a nurse, so I went to that unit and told her what happened and told her to stay away from me, do not speak to me, if you see me coming down the hallway pretend i'm not there, had I not kept my composure, shyt could've went left. I think dude was waiting for me to get out of pocket so he could shoot me. He looked unhinged...

Now I'm trying to figure out if I did anything wrong. I should've told her back in NOV when she started contacting me again that this was not appropriate but I had honestly forgot about it because i NEVER looked at this woman this way, shes like a lil sister to me. Just confused...


You’re sending pics of you and the girl to her and you know she’s married....


You’re just as foul as she is, don’t play dumb
 

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Breh leaving rabbit trail posts on here for proof of life...

:dead:

This woman must be attractive, because the first thing he says that he "don't look at her that way"... Fastest way to end up on a t-shirt is to mess with an insecure dude's woman or an overprotective parent and their kids.


:russ::laff:




This man is shook and he has no where to turn and y'all clowning the shyt out of him. I am all for it. :lolbron:
 

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OP, this dude is crazy. You better kill him or transfer to a different location.

If he ever has suspicions again, he'll automatically assume it's you, even if you haven't been in contact with his wife. You don't want this guy waiting out in the parking lot for you. Your life is worth more than this job.

I'm being overdramatic, but a lot of guys get killed over this sort of shyt.

I've had something similar happen to me. I didn't take the threat lightly...
 

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I see that you are shook a little bit and that is understandable?

Are you a doctor? NP?
I am going assume you work in ER?

Are you white? (lol)


How do you even know this woman that you are getting invited to her wedding?

I think you handled the situation well.
Yes you need to get security involved and never let that man in the hospital.
I do think you need some sort of restraining order though to show you are serious.

Also, you need this encounter in writing some how. I don't if you go to HR or whatever. But someone in the hospital need documentation of what happened.


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1. No i'm not white, I'm light skinned with locs..
2. I'm the resident RPH/clinical coordinator of this facility. I'm just very embarrassed by this.
3. She invited multiple people from work to her wedding, I attended and even brought a date.

She works on the covid unit in med surg and I help diagnose and treat covid patients as well as others so we have a lot in common. That's all we talk about is medical/work related stuff.

For you guys saying I'm naive, maybe I was to a fault looking back. Shes not a bad looking woman and yes I'm single, and I have multiple female platonic friends. I also have women to meet my sexual needs(dating) so there's no need to mix.. So if I call a woman my platonic friend, that's all it is.

Kinda shaken up because I was trying to deescalate the whole thing. But even though they banned him from the hospital. That's not going to stop him if he wants to do something. I'm just going to remove myself from the situation. I go to work to save lives, not to have mines taken...
 
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