So I was just confronted at work by my friend's husband.. EDIT!! WIFE resigned, Husband Charged....

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Andy Ruiz is like 6'2 283lbs and would mop 99.9% of the coli

 

[Astroslik]

Because of the Covid crisis, most hospitals are not allowing visitors so when an employee orders food, etc.. If the person visiting has your name. The operator can buzz you to let you know there is someone here to see you and the manner for the visit(dropping off food or whatever).

I'm in triage, and I get called to the lobby and I see a older brotha pacing back & forward so I'm thinking its a family member concerned about their loved one which happens..

So he asks me my name, and he can clearly see it on my badge with my white coat which has it stitched in. Then he goes into a tirade about his wife and how I need to respect him and his household and stop texting his wife and that he warned me before.

I have a weird unisex first name so you don't know that I'm a man just looking at it on paper. One time I sent his wife a pic of us from last years christmas party so that's how he knew what i looked like.

I was nervous but security was near and this is my place of business. The brotha was hostile, I tried to get him to sit down and have some coffee with me so we can discuss it like men but he said no. I could also see a gun barrel in his waste which alarmed me. But I explained to him to his face that I have been friends with his wife for a couple of years, hell I was at their wedding but he claimed we never met.

And I told him if hes going thru her phone(which is wrong), what has he seen "inappropriate" from me?
I never text her "wyd", I never text her late, its always about things related to work. This dude has serious insecurities and I don't know whats going on in her household..

About two months ago she told me her husband was going thru her phone and she said we can't be friends no more, she wasn't even wearing her ring. I told her then I would respect that. No problem even though it was platonic.

So around late Nov, she started back texting me sometimes, totally innocent and that was it. So before he left he told me if he has to have this conversation with me again one of us "gotta go".. Parkland police are real police officers and they asked me if I wanted to press charges on his threats and I said no. Dude was talking so loud that everyone heard him..

Shes a nurse, so I went to that unit and told her what happened and told her to stay away from me, do not speak to me, if you see me coming down the hallway pretend i'm not there, had I not kept my composure, shyt could've went left. I think dude was waiting for me to get out of pocket so he could shoot me. He looked unhinged...

Now I'm trying to figure out if I did anything wrong. I should've told her back in NOV when she started contacting me again that this was not appropriate but I had honestly forgot about it because i NEVER looked at this woman this way, shes like a lil sister to me. Just confused...

Could you beat his ass on a fair one? Just be honest.

 

[Pegasus Jackson]

Thats why homie should’ve pressed charges

Get that shyt documented and a court order telling him to stay away from him and his workplace.

Husband can pop out of nowhere at anytime at dudes job.. thats unsafe

OP, unfortunately invest in protection. Get it licensed and registered at your next day off

Eh, charges aren't going to discourage a homicidal, murderous simp from killing someone. We see women get killed all the time by nikkas who they placed restraining orders against. OP needs to wake up tomorrow morning and get himself a gun (cue Soprano soundtrack).

 

[The Infamous]

Andy Ruiz is like 6'2 283lbs and would mop 99.9% of the coli

Are you Andy Ruiz though?

You're obese and talking about it like it's a good thing.

 

[Astroslik]

Get ya weight up. He wouldn't have said shyt to me. 6' 265

Aaron Donald is that you?

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Eh, charges aren't going to discourage a homicidal, murderous simp from killing someone. We see women get killed all the time by nikkas who they placed restraining orders against. OP needs to wake up tomorrow morning and get himself a gun (cue Soprano soundtrack).

I didn’t say that they will

I’m saying it so that way anyone makes attempts to do him bodily harm, dude will be the number one suspect regardless if dude does it or has someone try to do it.

I said press charges and get the paperwork. Make sure dude will never come back up there again and if he does it’s severe legal consequences.. even if it’s just to make “threats”.

I also recommended him protect himself. He can do both

 

[Deuterion]

Another thing I want to say, that dude has a bigger problem if he has a check you on manners like this. His woman is supposed to already have an understanding of boundaries and respecting her man's wishes.

Seems like either he should have chose better or the relationship has deteriorated to a point where she doesn't respect him.

None of that shyt matters to the OP situation. When a nikka come to you with a spatula and tell you he gon' turn your cabbage into coleslaw you better believe him. It don't matter if he a simp, wimp, if his chick cheating on him, if he cheating on her, if his mama a hoe...that nikka ready to start clapping...no time to speculate...it's time to evacuate or be ready to escalate.

 

[CW_1991]

None of that shyt matters to the OP situation. When a nikka come to you with a spatula and tell you he gon' turn your cabbage into coleslaw you better believe him. It don't matter if he a simp, wimp, if his chick cheating on him, if he cheating on her, if his mama a hoe...that nikka really to start clapping...no time to speculate...it's time to evacuate or be ready to escalate.

I understand that. I like to evaluate things from all perspectives. Three-dimensional thinking.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Are you Andy Ruiz though?

You're obese and talking about it like it's a good thing.

Long as I hit cardio I'm good. I'm tryna see how fast I can get at this weight.

 

[Pegasus Jackson]

I didn’t say that they will

I’m saying it so that way anyone makes attempts to do him bodily harm, dude will be the number one suspect regardless if dude does it or has someone try to do it.

I said press charges and get the paperwork. Make sure dude will never come back up there again and if he does it’s legal consequences.. even if it’s just to make “threats”.

I also recommended him protect himself. He can do both

That will probably antagonize an already volatile simp if he feels he has nothing to lose. The bytch in question at my job already had an order against him.

 

[Astroslik]

I feel bad for OP cause he work reputation has permanently taken a hit.

 

[MMA]

So you talked to the police knowing he had a gun.

 

[Squirtle]

Damn at work? I'd be so embarrassed.

 

[Astroslik]

I agree with everything else you said...in all due seriousness...I’d probably take a few days off work and mull over the possibility of working somewhere else (maybe a transfer if feasible)...this is under the assumption that dude and his GF don’t know where the OP live and that the crazy dude hasn’t followed him home before

It’s kill or be killed when it comes to a raging unhinged simp nikka. Dude clearly doesn’t mind coming to a hospital with a strap on him. No doubt dude had murder on his mind that day.

OP needs to strap up. This shyt isn’t a game.

 

[Drip Bayless]

All the more reason why dudes like OP need to be brought up and raised by real man who put them on game on how to conduct themselves with married women.

Prudence and discernment can save you from a world of trouble.

Yeah OP fukked up bad, very bad

To be completely honest, the dude that approached him really should have been checking his woman. Since she was willingly allowing it to happen. It isn't like he was protecting her from OP.

We all know by now a man will kill ten other guys before they even check the bytch who was the source of the fukkery
Gotta operate based on how it is, not how it should be