So I was just confronted at work by my friend's husband.. EDIT!! WIFE resigned, Husband Charged....

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Because of the Covid crisis, most hospitals are not allowing visitors so when an employee orders food, etc.. If the person visiting has your name. The operator can buzz you to let you know there is someone here to see you and the manner for the visit(dropping off food or whatever).

I'm in triage, and I get called to the lobby and I see a older brotha pacing back & forward so I'm thinking its a family member concerned about their loved one which happens..

So he asks me my name, and he can clearly see it on my badge with my white coat which has it stitched in. Then he goes into a tirade about his wife and how I need to respect him and his household and stop texting his wife and that he warned me before.

I have a weird unisex first name so you don't know that I'm a man just looking at it on paper. One time I sent his wife a pic of us from last years christmas party so that's how he knew what i looked like.

I was nervous but security was near and this is my place of business. The brotha was hostile, I tried to get him to sit down and have some coffee with me so we can discuss it like men but he said no. I could also see a gun barrel in his waste which alarmed me. But I explained to him to his face that I have been friends with his wife for a couple of years, hell I was at their wedding but he claimed we never met.

And I told him if hes going thru her phone(which is wrong), what has he seen "inappropriate" from me?
I never text her "wyd", I never text her late, its always about things related to work. This dude has serious insecurities and I don't know whats going on in her household..

About two months ago she told me her husband was going thru her phone and she said we can't be friends no more, she wasn't even wearing her ring. I told her then I would respect that. No problem even though it was platonic.

So around late Nov, she started back texting me sometimes, totally innocent and that was it. So before he left he told me if he has to have this conversation with me again one of us "gotta go".. Parkland police are real police officers and they asked me if I wanted to press charges on his threats and I said no. Dude was talking so loud that everyone heard him..

Shes a nurse, so I went to that unit and told her what happened and told her to stay away from me, do not speak to me, if you see me coming down the hallway pretend i'm not there, had I not kept my composure, shyt could've went left. I think dude was waiting for me to get out of pocket so he could shoot me. He looked unhinged...

Now I'm trying to figure out if I did anything wrong. I should've told her back in NOV when she started contacting me again that this was not appropriate but I had honestly forgot about it because i NEVER looked at this woman this way, shes like a lil sister to me. Just confused...
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You have another mans wifes personal number and she's probably a whore.

He knows her better then you and clearly she has a chronic issue of being to friendly with men.

He's not thinking and everyone is the enemy.

You know what it is. What kind of good wife is giving her number out like that.

He pulling up with the hammer blasting



Night or day stay off that mans wifes phone or you must pay. They going through some shyt. You purged
 
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surf said:
my bad...I forgot we’re on thecoli :mjlol::mjlol::mjlol:

“yes” OP...go hurry up and kill this nikka before he kill you :bustback:
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This ain’t it bruh.

OP should tool up. We’ve seen this story played out before. I’m not saying dude should be Rambo but he needs his head on a swivel.

I mean..is that unreasonable to ask someone who had a nikka come to his job strapped up with bad intentions?
 
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Astroslik said:
This ain’t it bruh.

OP should tool up. We’ve seen this story played out before. I’m not saying dude should be Rambo but he needs his head on a swivel.
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well that’s completely different from what the dude I responded to suggested when you jumped in and quoted me...I have a CCW and understand the need to protect oneself YET I’d still rather try and remove myself from the situation first rather than have to deal with being shot or having to shoot someone which may not work out as planned even tho I’m “strapped”...we don’t even know if the OP has any training/experience with firearms

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The most prudent thing would really be to find some way to clap him...
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surf said:
well that’s completely different from what the dude I responded to was saying when you jumped in
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He needs to be strapped WITH his head on a swivel. What’s between your ears is the best weapon you have. Guns are typically an offensive tool so if a dude has the drop on you it’s too late. Keeping your head on a swivel helps you circumvent things.
 
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Op, no ones gonna tell u this straight forward but you’re wrong. Wtf is a mans supposed to think if another man sends his wife a picture of them together. Are u stupid? Check ur ego and leave her the fucck alone.

dumb muffukas getting married out here
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Gotta to agree with this, sending married women pictures not smart! That cat is going be waiting for him in the parking lot one day.
 
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