So I was just confronted at work by my friend's husband.. EDIT!! WIFE resigned, Husband Charged....

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And this is why I appreciate 2A.

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If it was florida I mighta stood my ground right then and there.
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Seriously though breh, being in the medical field I know you're seeing bread
don't fukk up your bag for a weird thirsty coworker.
 
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Because of the Covid crisis, most hospitals are not allowing visitors so when an employee orders food, etc.. If the person visiting has your name. The operator can buzz you to let you know there is someone here to see you and the manner for the visit(dropping off food or whatever).

I'm in triage, and I get called to the lobby and I see a older brotha pacing back & forward so I'm thinking its a family member concerned about their loved one which happens..

So he asks me my name, and he can clearly see it on my badge with my white coat which has it stitched in. Then he goes into a tirade about his wife and how I need to respect him and his household and stop texting his wife and that he warned me before.

I have a weird unisex first name so you don't know that I'm a man just looking at it on paper. One time I sent his wife a pic of us from last years christmas party so that's how he knew what i looked like.

I was nervous but security was near and this is my place of business. The brotha was hostile, I tried to get him to sit down and have some coffee with me so we can discuss it like men but he said no. I could also see a gun barrel in his waste which alarmed me. But I explained to him to his face that I have been friends with his wife for a couple of years, hell I was at their wedding but he claimed we never met.

And I told him if hes going thru her phone(which is wrong), what has he seen "inappropriate" from me?
I never text her "wyd", I never text her late, its always about things related to work. This dude has serious insecurities and I don't know whats going on in her household..

About two months ago she told me her husband was going thru her phone and she said we can't be friends no more, she wasn't even wearing her ring. I told her then I would respect that. No problem even though it was platonic.

So around late Nov, she started back texting me sometimes, totally innocent and that was it. So before he left he told me if he has to have this conversation with me again one of us "gotta go".. Parkland police are real police officers and they asked me if I wanted to press charges on his threats and I said no. Dude was talking so loud that everyone heard him..

Shes a nurse, so I went to that unit and told her what happened and told her to stay away from me, do not speak to me, if you see me coming down the hallway pretend i'm not there, had I not kept my composure, shyt could've went left. I think dude was waiting for me to get out of pocket so he could shoot me. He looked unhinged...

Now I'm trying to figure out if I did anything wrong. I should've told her back in NOV when she started contacting me again that this was not appropriate but I had honestly forgot about it because i NEVER looked at this woman this way, shes like a lil sister to me. Just confused...
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How old are you OP and how old is the wife?
 
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I had a jealous boyfriend try to do the same thing to me years ago over a female coworker. I wanted to fukk tho and she always was hitting me up while they was together and hiding it so idgaf when he went thru her phone and messaged me from her account. He told me he would kill me if I talk to her and I told him you a bytch for going thru her messages and to pull up to my job since you KNOW where I work. He told.me he is affiliated with such and such gang and i told him, good you all can die. Dude then apologized and said he is sorry he is just jealous, then I smelled blood and called him all sorts of bytch asses n shyt. Looking back it was really dumb, but I dont deal well with dudes tryna talk reckless. She shortly left him after that too cause I told her what happened when I went to work and told her her bf a p*ssy and imma crack his jaw if he pick her up that night... her brother picked her up:pachaha:. But I brought the strap to work because I was a bit paranoid of the mess I helped incite cause I didn't know who was lurking in the parking lot

OP dont gamble like I did, stay away.
 
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Breh it will probably just blow over

But one thing you need to do is ASAP tell the hospital where you work what happened so they are aware of your situation. And stay alert when you are parking you’re car in the morning and after work when you’re going to your car.
 
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Asking the nikka how he likes his coffee and shyt
How you gonna sit and negotiate with breh about HIS wife

What in the fukk

OP either dumb or too cocky....or both
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Nah, he was shook. The best thing he should have done was been like "okay, I get it, you're right. Nothing happened. You don't got to worry about me anymore"
 
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