So I was just confronted at work by my friend's husband.. EDIT!! WIFE resigned, Husband Charged....

[Mordith]

I wish a niqqa would approach me over a woman!

 

[Voice of Reason]

OP get her fired or transfer are your only options.

 

[Jone2three45]

I would have pressed charges against her husband.

I would file a complaint against her to your supervisors. Give her enough time, she will file a complaint against you to them and flip it to save herself.

You are definitely not the only she is talking to and seeing.

Good deal on keeping your composure.

Hoes ain’t shyt.

 

[brickfare]

fukk you getting coffee with the nikka for, breh

 

[MajesticLion]

Shes cheating or was caught cheating before , now dude is paranoid and is untrusting of ANY dude that is texting her. She may have lied and used your friendship with her as an alibi to hide her dirt. Her texting you during the time she had her ring off told me all I needed to know.

I'd stay away from her if I were you. fukk around and get your brains blew out for a p*ssy you never even touched

I haven't read past this, but this nails it. OP is moving oblivious out here, as though how he sees her has anything to do with anything. This isn't about you. This is about her movements and how they can potentially affect you. Prepare accordingly.

 

[Paper Boi]

you need to get you a dwight

 

[Rain]

Breh had the strap on him OP correctly was trying to cool the situation down.

Nah breh, that ain't the way to do it.

I can't imagine coming into a hospital hot with a pistol thinking someone is fukking my wife and get met with that

Me: Aye, where Ashley at?!?! Tell him to get down here immediately

heart: What's good witcha breh

Me: ...nikka are you fukking my wife

heart: Now why ever would you think that

Me: You texting her pictures of ya'll together and shyt

heart: Breh have you tried the Starbucks down the hall yet

Me:

 

[Hoshi_Toshi]

Damn at work? I'd be so embarrassed.

why you having a conversation with him about HIS wife

thread got me crying man

 

[Bucciarati Joestar]

I would have pressed charges against her husband.

I would file a complaint against her to your supervisors. Give her enough time, she will file a complaint against you to them and flip it to save herself.

You are definitely not the only she is talking to and seeing.

Good deal on keeping your composure.

Hoes ain’t shyt.

Foreal, he shouldn't keep quiet because she'll definitely flip the script on him and get him fired. He should waste no time and submit that report he received and witness and get her ass transferred/fired.

 

[luciddreamer]

His wife know what she's doing or she's just stupid thinking shyt is sweet... were y'all "friends" way before he came along? childhood type shyt or just met a couple years ago or some shyt.

My wife has two male friends they text each other here and there like one or two months, Happy Birthday, Merry christmas, how you doing type shyt. But they been around before our relationship/marriage ... I respect that and they respect boundaries.
There's no reason for that woman to be texting you outside of work or you her...a work "friend" no less. And if you didn't know, now you know

 

[Ricky Fontaine]

if breh just stops posting we gotta forward this shyt to the po-po

No snitching.


But on the real, we wont have to call no one because homie work at the perfect place to get smoked. shyt if somebody tried to shoot me I hope im already at the hospital when they do it.

 

[REdefinition]

I haven't read past this, but this nails it. OP is moving oblivious out here, as though how he sees her has anything to do with anything. This isn't about you. This is about her movements and how they can potentially affect you. Prepare accordingly.

This is true too. You never know what a female will tell a dude if confronted on some shyt. Totally flip the script like "Bae, I don't know WHY he keeps texting me. I been told him to stop." totally throw you under the bus just to save face.

 

[shopthatwrecks]

Because of the Covid crisis, most hospitals are not allowing visitors so when an employee orders food, etc.. If the person visiting has your name. The operator can buzz you to let you know there is someone here to see you and the manner for the visit(dropping off food or whatever).

I'm in triage, and I get called to the lobby and I see a older brotha pacing back & forward so I'm thinking its a family member concerned about their loved one which happens..

So he asks me my name, and he can clearly see it on my badge with my white coat which has it stitched in. Then he goes into a tirade about his wife and how I need to respect him and his household and stop texting his wife and that he warned me before.

I have a weird unisex first name so you don't know that I'm a man just looking at it on paper. One time I sent his wife a pic of us from last years christmas party so that's how he knew what i looked like.

I was nervous but security was near and this is my place of business. The brotha was hostile, I tried to get him to sit down and have some coffee with me so we can discuss it like men but he said no. I could also see a gun barrel in his waste which alarmed me. But I explained to him to his face that I have been friends with his wife for a couple of years, hell I was at their wedding but he claimed we never met.

And I told him if hes going thru her phone(which is wrong), what has he seen "inappropriate" from me?
I never text her "wyd", I never text her late, its always about things related to work. This dude has serious insecurities and I don't know whats going on in her household..

About two months ago she told me her husband was going thru her phone and she said we can't be friends no more, she wasn't even wearing her ring. I told her then I would respect that. No problem even though it was platonic.

So around late Nov, she started back texting me sometimes, totally innocent and that was it. So before he left he told me if he has to have this conversation with me again one of us "gotta go".. Parkland police are real police officers and they asked me if I wanted to press charges on his threats and I said no. Dude was talking so loud that everyone heard him..

Shes a nurse, so I went to that unit and told her what happened and told her to stay away from me, do not speak to me, if you see me coming down the hallway pretend i'm not there, had I not kept my composure, shyt could've went left. I think dude was waiting for me to get out of pocket so he could shoot me. He looked unhinged...

Now I'm trying to figure out if I did anything wrong. I should've told her back in NOV when she started contacting me again that this was not appropriate but I had honestly forgot about it because i NEVER looked at this woman this way, shes like a lil sister to me. Just confused...

gone n fukk the bytch...

if he doin all that... he got a chick...on the side..

he doin the magilla gorilla theatrics to show he is the only one that can fukk outside the relationship..

parkland u in dallas ..nikka prolly left u n went ut where his other bytch is..


nikkas n females that go thru phones..are the ones who are already doin dirt..they jus wanna catch the other person in the relationship to justify there action

little do he know..is she textin u all friendly ..n prolly getttin dikked down on break..

based on a nurses schedule he has plenty of time to be fukkin off..

so yeah.take her to that area yall do the do at..

kuz i know when baylor garland was open n fully staffed..it was a area in the hospital if u was comin down clara barton..n park in the lot facing the main entrance of the hospital...

coming towards the elevator the left u goin to the cafeteria...right is a hallway right next to the last elevator...go down that hallway..til it ends make a right..u got different rooms to choose...because it was the old part of the hospital they turned into a storage area..with beds etc...

pick a room lock it...gutfest 89

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

My wife’s father calls me to ask for my wife. No man supposed to call or text another mans wife without checking with him first.

 

[Peak]

OP has severely compromised himself..Best get that transfer.